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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Confused swinger?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband wanted to swing and searched another couple. We started with our own partners in the same room and then went for a full swap when 3-4 mins into that my husband said this wasn't for him... But back at home he says he wants to try it again just not in a private room ... (65 words)

We can't help our feelings for each other, but we're cousins

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi am female and having sexual affair with my cousin when it all started i was in his home for vacation and we got a couple of drinks and he kissed me first, i was very shocked. we usually ended up in his bed. my mind tell me not to do it but my body does the opposit. after s... (159 words)

Conservative Indian parents don't approve of my American boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so i come from a very conservative background. i'm indian, my family believes in marriages only with those who are indian, and care mostly for their own reputation. not too long ago, they found out i was dating an american boy for almost a year now. my sibling found out and ... (459 words)

Dating a divorcee?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a single mom of 3 and 27. I have been in a relationship with my neighbor for about 4 months. Hes 40, divorced with 1 child he gets every other weekend. We have been friends since I moved into the house 2 years ago. We had long conversations about how staying single is so ... (142 words)

I told I'm pregnant, he said "I'll talk to you tomorrow, I don't want to say the wrong thing right now" what does that mean?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Men! I need your advice, ladies your welcome to opinions as well. I've been dating a man long distance, known him for a year, dating for 5 months, we are not in a committed relationship but we do go and visit each other every 2 months, we always have a great time, he is ... (517 words)

How do I manage my newly aggressive 12 year son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i am the mother of a 12 yar old boy and as is he reaching teenage years he is starting to become aggressive in the last two weeks he has had two physical fights with his younger cousins who are too young to deal with him , my family is a close family and i am afraid he will be ... (105 words)

I need to know if my girlfriend honestly does not remember performing oral sex on this guy in high school!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles im actually a veteran on this site been on it for 5 years giving advice and now im going to need some. Ok so ive been with my girlfriend for a year now but in the begining she wanted to know my sexuall past so i told her and in return she told me hers. We ... (293 words)

What topics can I bring up to talk to the women n the gym?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey So I'm trying to make new friends! I go to this new gym near my place but there aren't many people of my age. It's an only women's gym. I met this girl who's a bit older to me. I don't know what to talk to her about? ... (50 words)

I don't want to be waiting forever for him to say something

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am crazy in love with one of my classmates. He had had a bad breakup about 3 years ago and he says he'll never stop regretting it and that it's the biggest mistake he's ever made in his whole life. He tells me about the stuff he used to do with her and gets so sad. But it ... (339 words)

How can I make sure he is happy when I am not around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Before posing my question, I would first like to state that I am from India where love is hardly accepted and arranged marriage is the tradition. As such love marriages, especially from different castes are highly opposed. I have been in a relationship with this guy, l... (512 words)

20 something guy is interested and calling my wife. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

13 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I think I need to run some marriage interference? Protection? Not sure how to put it. My wife and I are both in our late 30's. Married almost 20 years, we got married shortly after high school. We have 3 wonderful children and love each other so much. 2 weekends ago, we w... (868 words)

I want someone who pursues me, he only pursues when I pull away. Thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am seeing a guy for almost 2 months now (although we only see each other once a week) we do text or call or check in almost every day. The first month were not intimate, just getting to know each other, then we started sleeping together, last week I was out of town then thi... (306 words)

I feel like a freak because I don't want children!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

13 April 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Is it weird that I don't want children? Sometimes I feel like a freak. All the women in my family are VERY fertile, they all have kids and most started at young ages. Even all the men in my family have or want children. So when I tell my mother and sisters that I don't want ... (186 words)

Is my dad right in telling me I let my social life get in the way of more important things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably going to sound really petty, but I need some advice. My dad is kinda dictating what my life should be like. I have arranged spend the day and watch a movie tomorrow with my best friend, whom lives in a different city than I. We have been looking forward ... (461 words)

Does my girlfriend enjoy being slapped during sex and lies to me about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a wonderful girlfriend- we get along super well and even though we have disagrements, we never fight and have a great chemistry. A few years ago, she came out of a bad relationship where the guy she was with would insult her, call her 'stupid', a 'whore'- that so... (396 words)

Torn between past and now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids, I am extremely confused right now and could seriously do with some advise. Last year I ended a LTR with my partner of 7 years. Our r/ship at first was amazing..and I fel head over heels for this guy...Unfortunately due to several circumstances our r/ship turne... (242 words)

I have a girl who likes me, but I don't feel happy about it. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

13 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - HI everyone, I am back to here again asking for some help. This year I have moved into a new school and tried to move on from my past experience with a girl who was my best friend(at least from my point of view). But somehow I find it difficult to get out of that shadow. ... (248 words)

Why do people think the opposite sex cant be just friends

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi just a quick question why do people always assume that a woman and a man can't be friends without there being more to it this man and me met through my step sister and we get on well (as friends) but people always say they don't believe we are friends and assume we are ... (66 words)

I feel like I'm the doormat and the only one fighting for our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys.. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Im 27 and hes 34. During the first 3 months everything was fine and it was great. He was caring, sweet, passionate, romantic, he listened to my needs and understood me. We’ve been fighting since the mid of January. There w... (1584 words)

I have feelings for her but I don't want to destroy our friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have feelings for my friend,i love her so very much but I don't know how to tell her in a nice way and the most difficult part of it,is that I'm more close to her mother than her and I don't wanna destroy our friendship,please help. ... (47 words)

Broke up with the guy I was seeing to give it a shot with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy I liked very much, when my best friend told me he really loved me and it killed him to see me with this other guy. At first I just let it be what it is, but then I started realising I do have feelings for him for a long time, I just didn't want to see ... (226 words)

I'm in love with a gay guy! He acts straight and flirts with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, hey! So this story is pretty crazy and I'm not sure where to start, but here goes! I started falling in love with this boy... He was a very good friend, probably a best friend, and now he really is my best friend. I'd just come out of a long term relationship and he w... (643 words)

I made a drunken mistake with my best friend. do I tell my new b/f before he hears it somewhere else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I made a silly drunken mistake with a best friend meaning things could be over before they begun with the guy I've been seeing who has now made it official. Do I tell my new boyfriend about this? Or hope he won't find out? Okay, so P; my new boyfriend. Before w... (483 words)

How important are looks when already in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How important are looks when already in a relationship. I know there has to be an initial attraction but after that? My problem is that by using make-up, the right clothes (like a padded bra), heels - I can look far more attractive than I actually am. My actual body is t... (128 words)

I love him but I'm starting to lose my mind!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is an average looking guy to me a bit chubby but to me the personality is what makes a person attractive and that's why I find him attractive. The only problem is that we don't share any interests but we at least give each other a chance in trying them. Also, I ... (154 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want to do anything crazy sexually!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year. He sucks major balls at going down on me and it doesnt hurt yeah it feels good but it doesnt bring me to the level i know i should be at. Ive tried telling him and he just says im not relaxed enough i think his ego is ... (122 words)

I like this girl. Should I try to destroy her relationship with her boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

13 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, well, myself and this girl were really good friends 2-3 years ago and were kind of seeing each other. We stopped talking for about 2 years and have started talking again recently. We meet up a few nights ago and we got along great together, then I realised I still... (172 words)

Husband of 20 years suddenly going to strip clubs. What is up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of twenty years has recently started to go to strip clubs and bars while out of town for work. His work buddies have lots of stories to tell that involve the other guy doing something wrong but not them. They have each blamed the other for seeing prostitutes and ... (162 words)

My boyfriend isn't always consistent with messages and tells me he'll meet and then not be there!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend sent me a message on facebook on Tuesday, saying he wanted to meet me on Wednesday. He didn't send me a message on Wednesday though saying what time he wanted to meet e.t.c, so we didn't meet. So i sent him a message asking if we could meet yesterday. And ... (355 words)

He broke up with me saying he's confused and attracted to someone else. How could he do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, right now I'm here in my room confused as to what I should do about this situation. About three months ago, I met this guy online and we spoke frequently until the point came where we met up. when we did meet, he told me that he was looking for something serious and ... (406 words)

He's broken up with me twice without reason. I still love him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age - I'm 48 seperated with two boys( 17 and 12). My boyfriend is 39 has never been married and had no children. We went out for approx 9 months first. We were so in love. We did alot of travel to London, Paris etc.. on our own. As he earns very little I paid for all flights, ... (571 words)

My b/f has been divorced twice. Does that mean he doesn't know how to make things work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a half now and hes really wonderful and he makes me laugh a lot. He has talked quite seriously about our future and how he sees me as the one and sees marriage in our future. (I have a 2 year old from a prev relationship) I am... (154 words)

What are some good ways of losing weight, especially in the breast area?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 16 years old,i am somewhat fatty,but my huge boobs give me the look more fattier.which exercises i should do at home to reduce my weight n also the size of my boobs? ... (36 words)

Am I being shallow because I want my b/f to compliment me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he is faithful and reliable, but not too generous when it comes to words. When I make an effort to dress up, he rarely compliments me. The nicest thing he has said to me has been 'You look very nice'. I've never ... (174 words)

My husband cheating while I'm pregnant and wants to continue to cheat!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi to all of u. Me(23years) and my husband(40years). I am pregnant 8 moths and 1 or 2 weeks.will be giving birth soon. I am going to tell what happened. My mom came to stay with me and my husband to help me when i give birth with baby kaitlyn but so she had to go home for some... (386 words)

I don't love him but don't know whether to go or stay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age - My husband is a controlling man and I've had enough and finally ended our unhappy marriage of 20 years. I've met this man while I was divorcing my husband. He is 16 years older than me. He is helpful and supportive at my difficult time. Two years on I find him too old for ... (115 words)

Friends with Benefits, confused and in love but no feedback

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - we have been friends with benefits for a year, the agreement was not to sleep with anyone else, he is not ready for a relationship, during the time obviously we would get into a few arguments but it would cause me not to sleep with him, he did start being more caring and really ... (189 words)

I don't think my boyfriend is 'right' for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so confused! Okay, so I've dated my boyfriend for a couple months now, but we've known each other for about a year now. He dates one of my good friends right before him and I started dating. Well, they've been talking more and more and I've told him I'm uncomfor... (229 words)

He just got divorced 3 weeks ago. Is it too soon for him to be dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A man that I have been seeing over the past month has been seperated from his wife for 3 years but only got divorced officially 3 weeks ago. He seems fine and happy to move on but do you think it is too early for him to be dating someone else? I have never dated a divorced man ... (73 words)

I arranged to go away with husband but now he is hedging about me going!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

- Several months ago my husband invited me to attend an out of town meeting with him, in another city for a week. He has invited me lots of times because it's like a mini-vacation. I enjoy the hotel gym, the pool, and go shopping while he's in meetings all day. Then at night we ... (591 words)

My married lover found out I was talking to other guys and now he's ending things with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - good day readers! i am so over whelmed when i found out this website that i think can probably help me in my difficulties nowadays. i am 23y.o. of age and i am so in love with a 50y.o. man. he is married in the other country and has two kids. we are in an intimate relation... (325 words)

He knows he can't be with me because of his religion, so why show me affection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who I really care for. But later I found myself developing feelings for him. We know each other from long time ago and we both went trough the same situations. I confront him the other day and I told him what I am feeling. I told him that I am finding very dif... (249 words)

We got close, spent the weekend together and 2 days later he texted me saying we shouldn't see each other!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I being dating a this guy for 4 month last every was going great last friday we spent the day 2gether and he opened up to me we end up spending the weekend together everything was great until tuesday morning i get a message say i think we should not see each other for now am ... (68 words)

How can I lessen the huge amount of anger towards my father and the woman he had an affair with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm 15 years old, and recently discovered my dad is having an affair. I HATE HIM! How the fuck could he do this to my mom and our family! I found out when my mom found out, and my parents don't believe in hiding things from me and my siblings. They're geting divorced, and ... (264 words)

My boyfriend liked a picture of another girl on facebook, then lied to me about it after I confronted him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I was on facebook when it came up on my newsfeed that my boyfriend "liked" a photo of some girl who went to his school. I clicked on it more than once so it was definitely him and I definitely wasnt seeing things. I texted him telling him that I'd seen it and I didn't l... (247 words)

How can I get my daughter's BF to move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age - My daughter is 18 and her boyfriend is 23. He has had many problems and it resulted in a felony when he was only 19 or 20. They had their own place and recently we all moved in together. He doesn't work and she pays for everything. He seems to think everything she owns is his. ... (334 words)

After 8 years of a sexless relationship, she tells me she cheated and lost her virginity. Do I end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

13 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend since 2005 to now.we have been apart mostly because i attend a foreign University and left at a local compass.She finished last year and doing her final year project she visited me thrice...she needed material and finance to do her ... (518 words)

Am I right to feel upset with my 'cousin'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is she behaving this way? I'm I right to feel upset? My dads distance relative. I call her my cousin. We were really close when we were young. But now were all grown ups now and were not close anymore. We hardly ever talk. I told one of our natural friends that we w... (264 words)

How does one know when one is in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know when you're in love? I've been in a relationship with a great guy for awhile, and I've been tempted to say "I love you" several times, but I don't out of fear that he won't reciprocate. But then I wonder, am I in love if I can't say it? Also, for the guys- wo... (85 words)

Why is he starting to act like this when we have been broken up for 4 weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i of 17 months broke up march 15th we have a 8 month old daughter.... he has been saying he is dating someone we stopped talking and stopped seeing each other i had begged him over and over and over for 3 days i texted him none stop i called him. and then he ... (890 words)

One too many gay children in the family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a gay girl, who is absolutely petrified to come out to her family or friends. My brother is gay and my family are totally fine with it but i can't build up the courage to tell them as i'm scared they wont accept having two gay children. I have also just got in a re... (104 words)

My boyfriend smacks other girls butts and lies about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay my boyfriend is really sweet but he keeps smacking other girls butts and he lies everytime i bring it up what should i do? I have been going out with him for 5 months and i don't want to lose him. Please answer this... (45 words)