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Why is my ex bad mouthing me?

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Question - (30 April 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My ex and i dated for about a year. He was the one who broke it off not really giving a reason. We have been broken up for about three months and i haven't spoken to him since February. My question is why is he bad mouthing me to others saying im crazy and that im stalking him calling me a stupid b****? I was good to him and don't understand why he is doing this.please help

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A female reader, cheers Indonesia +, writes (30 April 2012):

cheers agony auntReasons: he's so afraid that the truth come out. so he takes action first,telling lie to people. All bad things is you and he's the victim. If you deny, people might not believe you.WHY? cos he already badmouthing behind you. What a scheming person he is. he finally shows his true color!

Heed my advise to keep calm and patient! Don't fight back cos it never ends. cos TIME will reveal who is RIGHT and who is wrong.People can judge thru his actions

Put things behind.Pull yourself back. This incident will make you even tougher person. not only mature but also smarter and know sorts of people characters.

Start new begining, new chapter of your life. Don't waste time. Prove you can start new relationship without him.Believe it! You can do it

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A female reader, Latti United States +, writes (30 April 2012):

It sounds like he is using this tactic to "Cover Up" his actions and try to justify leaving the relationship. See, he has to form an aliance against you to make his cheating, lying whatever the reason for leaving.....to make you the bad guy and not him.

So, if I get everyone to think that it was all her....I can hide my hand....so no one will really see or question....what I have done.

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