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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I deal with this friend who likes attention and likes to brag?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this girl in my class last semester. We r both business major. We clicked, and we started hanging out a lot and studying together. She and her best friend (who is also her roommate) are no longer friends, so i decided to introduce her to my friends. However, now I wish i ... (376 words)

My husband was raped by his older brother when he was a kid, I think he needs therapy but I can't suggest it to him when I'm not supposed to know this

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a big problem which I don't know how to deal with and I would apreciate some advice on what to do. I am married to the most wonderful man in the world (well for me anyways). A couple of months ago I had lunch with one of our oldest friends and he told me something tha... (576 words)

His move will cause us to be apart. Why is he acting like the change is my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is complicated and for length I may have left important parts out, so bear with me. Basically my boyfriend got a job in a city. I do not want to live in the city and he is giving me an ultimatum that either I move there with him or he'll break up with me (we're both in our ... (395 words)

Is it normal to be repulsed by oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 17 years old and I'm dating a 21 year old man. We've been dating for 2.3 years and I lost my virginity to him over a year ago. He is my first boyfriend and was my first everything. Anyway, we have a pretty active sex life (3-4x a week) and the sex is great, but he ... (207 words)

How do I get back my ex? We've started talking and see each other regularly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What do I do? I think I love my ex again but this time it is different. We broke up two years ago and since then we have both matured and lately we have been speaking more especially over the last three months we have been speaking nearly everyday, I see him most night beca... (125 words)

Abusive ex boyfriend won't pay back money after our split, how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I desperately need advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I broke up with my boyfriend of over 2 1/2 years recently as he was very abusive both verbally and recently, physically. My friends noticed I had changed and was depressed and so they confronted me about him and helped ... (236 words)

We're due to marry in November but I'm stressed about these issues

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age - I am supposed to be getting married in november. Me and my fiance have been together for almost 2years. We have had our differeces about many things but I am afraid that she will give up on me one day. The reasons are that I don't approve of the way she dresses (too tight and ... (229 words)

Boy swapping gone wrong?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we all ended up naked, which is ... (302 words)

How can I start a meaningful conversation to gain his support (and interest) about my pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, so I need some help to communicate better with my bf about our pregnancy as I feel he doesn't care, which leaves me wondering if I should go it alone :( I'm 11 weeks pregnant now, we have our first scan next week. We've been together 2 years, and were planning to star... (698 words)

I tried shaving private area with a razor but it grows back too fast. What else can I try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel really self conscious when it comes to shaving down there. i love it to be completely smooth so use a razor, but after a day or 2 it starts to grow back and feels really prickley. however its not long enough to shave without hurting and making it red for at least a week. ... (100 words)

I found he did some "swinging" two years into our dating... and not from him. How should I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I'm in an exclusive relationship going on two years. We both own our homes. He is divorced and my husband passed away. He never would give me much information on why they divorced and claimed he never cheated on her, they just grew apart. I was seeing... (250 words)

Why can't I date a black guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now. Put simply, I'm white and he's black. My dad insists that he's not racist, but he seems funny about it. He says there are risks involved in society. At the end of the day I really like my boyfriend, I love him. What does it matter ... (112 words)

Should I tell him about my pregnancy? He does not want a baby!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok to start off yes I know how stupid I was, but it happened and I can't change it now. This guy and I had been on about 2 dates at the time. we had sex and the thing I never expected to happen...happened. I got pregnant. The issue is, he talks about wanting another child (he ... (276 words)

Am I just being blinded by love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and I do genuinely love her but a couple months ago she got really drunk on a night out with her friends and ending up dancing and kissing another guy AND they exchanged numbers. Realising what she had done she left the club and ... (290 words)

She gets upset with me when I talk about what I mind in our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age - I have a problem with what appears to me to be minimal care and concern about different matters in my relationship. I talk openly with my fiance about things that occur in our relationship but almost every time I do she gets upset with me, or she hears me but she doesn't act ... (109 words)

I don't want to be perceived as the awkward kid, I want to fit in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like I have done wrong by a lot of people, and in doing so, I feel I have let myself down. I know I am a teenager and I have a lot of time to get my head around it all but for a long time now, I have been trying to figure out why I had so many thoughts running... (272 words)

Getting married but all I can do is think of my ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, thanks for reading this. I am a mother of 1 in my 30's Getting married next year but all I can think about is my ex!! We were together 10 years ago for 8 years and haven't seen each other much since! Our parents are friends and we have a few of the same friends! I hear ... (111 words)

Is it normal for the person you are dating to tell you that they will always love their ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for a guy you're seeing to tell you they'll always love their ex? This ex was actually his first real love, and I'm the first person he's dating after he's been with her. I'm wondering if it's normal because the last guy I dated had also told me early on ... (128 words)

32 year old woman/19 year old man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like a damn fool. I'm an attractive, intelligent woman and over the course of the last year or so, I have found myself growing more attracted (emotionally, physically and mentally) to a beautiful, extremely mature 19 year old man. Sometimes I believe he reciprocates ... (104 words)

I'm upset by friend's affair and its making me question my marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age - I'm not really looking for advice here, but I've got to write this because I can't talk about it to anyone. Everyone I know is too deeply involved. My wife and I have known this really nice couple for ages. They've been married for about twenty-five years, they've got a child,... (445 words)

Is this normal for a menstrual cycle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this is a question for the women I am 25 I started my periods when I was 13 they have always been irregular but I was just wondering if this was normal the past two months I have had my period that lasted three or four days and then four days later I have started bleeding ... (73 words)

My wife passed away and I'm left with a difficult daughter who I have no clue how to deal with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife of seven years recently just passed (car crash). we actually met for the first time when i was in the 2nd grade she was the child of a close family friend but being thats shes five years older then me we rarely conversated in those days. when she was 15 my wife had a... (583 words)

Why doesn't my ex want me to date his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to remain in contact with my ex- we finished 4 weeks ago. We were talking regulary still but not as much but in the last week or so its became even less- which upsets me. I miss him. I miss the conversations we used to have. He just clearly doesn't want to be with me so ... (140 words)

Why does my ex have one rule for me and another for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my ex have one rule for me and another for him? My.ex snd I parted in Jan this yr. He was verbally, emotional and occasionally physically abusive to me. I wasn't battered but.he certainly had no respect.for me. I ended it and he left. It's.been 5 mths now, during this ... (257 words)

Why is it that people seem to practice safe penetrative sex on porn sites, but not safe oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my pals were in the pub the other day and the subject of safe sex came up(we r all married and well into our forties and apparently std's are on the rise for age group). Why is it that on many porn sites,swinging sites people seem to practice safe penetrative sex but not ... (105 words)

When and how do I fight to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend ended our relationship 2 days ago. He said it was because there can't be any future for us (he is from another country). He said he doesn't want to waste my time because I deserve someone who will take care of me. I am not looking for a permanent relationship right ... (117 words)

I'm filthy rich and very independant and it seems that most guys are intimidated by the fact that they have nothing to offer me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I'm in my early thirties, I've never been in a serious relationship and once I get to know someone it never develops into anything and it's generally over within a month. I'm pretty but I don't dress to show my assets, don't sleep with guys for the first few months so I'm very ... (190 words)

I love him and his cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am seventeen and i amdating a nineteen year old boy,he loves me and i love him but i fell for his cousin eric and i dont know what to do,i love both so much and i know i sound dumb cuz i'm so young but i know what love is and i just need a little help... (58 words)

What kind of gift would leave him speechless

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So the guy I liked for a year is moving away in two months. I want to give him a gift but I don't know what. I want something cute that he will take with him and leave him speechless. Any suggestions? ... (42 words)

My boyfriend is a great guy, and is definitely someone I can see myself settling down with BUT I really like my guy friend and want to pursue things with him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've dated a lot of guys over the past year, but finally picked someone I could see myself having a future with. He's a great guy! We've been dating for about three months, he's really intelligent (working on his PHD), attractive, athletic, and has his life in order--basically, ... (375 words)

My mom will not let me date this man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,i have a crush..he's Islam while i'm Christian. I do really like this guy,he's funny,cute,everything.. But i'm afraid my mom will get mad,he hates "islam people" sorry.. But this guy,he so knid,loving..I don't know what to do ... (40 words)

I was declared the most beautiful in my class. Why don't I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi am a 20yrs, female never had a boyfriend,though i have been asked out but its not by the guys i want the ones i want never even notice me.i actually got my first peck recently from a guy i thought liked me but he just wanted sex so when he didnot get it he left. i feel lik... (108 words)

I still have feelings for him, but I'm a bit apprehensive of getting hurt again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, and thank you in advance. I've known this male for several yrs through a friend. He's 15 years older than I and we would talk here and there. We ended up becoming friends on facebook and began dating. We seemed to really connect. He would take me out a lot, the sex was... (220 words)

I am in a relationship with a momma's boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating a momma's boy?Help me understand please!? Hello everyone, My boyfriend and I are doing longdistance relationship,i really love him a lot,and i think he loves me too.a little bit of background,we first dated 5 years ago( i was 17 at that time),he was my first boy... (662 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like it that my job is as an exotic dancer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I really cannot understand why guys get so Jealous ..But this has been a Really serious problem . My work as an Exotic Dancer pays very well , and is a Fun way to live life , Its all harmless fun . Yet my boyfriend is constantly trying to get me to Quit !! He says it makes ... (139 words)

Why does my boyfriend act defensive when I ask him to delete ex's pic off of his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - im in a longdistance relationship. we knew each other for 2 years and 8 months together. he just went here last month for holiday. hes in australia and im from singapore. when he was here in singapore i open his phone accidentally saw his ex picture. then i ask him whys he ... (207 words)

This guy only texts me when he wants to talk dirty!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy and it seems like he only texts me when he wants to talk dirty. He knows that I'm not ready for sex or anything but I don't know if I should still persue him becuse he doesn't text back or talk to me that often.... (50 words)

Why doesn't he talk to me yet he smiles when his friend talk about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a guy that I met at school who is known to be really reserved. By reserved, I mean...well he only talks when he wants to talk if you catch my drift. Like you could call his name a gazillion times and if he doesn't wanna talk to you he's not going to talk to you(though ... (319 words)

Sending the wrong signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so ive seen this guy around my school and i use to not like him because i though he was cocky or whatever, lets call him JA. My friend needed a ride and JA was with him and some other friends of mine. Well JA was trying to get with me the whole night, he flirted with me ... (390 words)

I feel like a sex toy! My boyfriend is a sex addict

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and my boyfriend been dating for two years and he has like five different personalities he always upset we have sex hes happy but wen we dont he actually want to fight me physically .. I cant sleep in the bed with him cause hes a sex addict I dont know to do I am ... (83 words)

I want to do things differently and ask her out with a letter. Any ideas on what to say please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Can someone please give me a sample of a letter to send the girl I wish to ask to be my girlfriend? I do believe she is ready for the next step, as I know I am. She's 17, I'm 19. We've been talking for almost a year, and we both know we like each other. I want it to be a ... (75 words)

Girls would you be OK with this? Guys how do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just asking this question out of curiousity. It is for both men and women. How do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party? Maybe it is because I have low self-esteem but if my fiance was enjoying that kind of show, I would feel somehow wronged and betr... (117 words)

Am I just worried over nothing? Her love and appreciation only happens on line

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girl friend for a while and i get texts, emails, messages on facebook, all telling me how great i am. What a nice kind guy I am. And a true gentleman. She tells me she enjoys it when i come over and spend time with her and her kids. Yet when i come over, on... (124 words)

Does my potentially bi friend like me? He has a girl friend, but he maybe likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend that i've known for about 6 months is bi...i think. I mean, I never thought he was, but people told me he was and then the other day we were talking in a group about girls we found attractive and then he started to list guys too. (Btw he's also got a girlfriend) ... (132 words)

Why has he not offered to take me out? He's my ex. He'll spend time with me but that's it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am starting to develop feelings for my ex-boyfriend AND I don't really know If he's attracted or if he still has feeling for me. We dated years back AND I hadn't seen him in quite some time, like 11 years ago. He is not married, but he is dating AND I'm not sure if its ... (316 words)

Why a 180 from what she said she wanted a week ago? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my girl friend for a few months. She asked me to move in with her and her children. This happened about a week ago. Everything was falling into place. i treat her like a queen and her children are treated the same way. I do everything i can for them. Then out o... (117 words)

How do I get out of this shy slump?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

28 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - i have this problem with girls. i am 16 and last year at this time this girl and i liked each other. well...... it was the end of the school year and i had many opportunites to ask her out but i wimped out. i havent seen her at all this year accept from across the hall. i have ... (83 words)

Air conditioning sickness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I just want to know whether anyone else has this problem. Over the past 10 years, I've worked in a variety of places, but I notice a pattern when I'm working in air conditioned buildings - I always seem so pick up wierd stomach bugs! If I'm working ... (197 words)

The man I love is getting married and I need to leave but he doesn't know how I feel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

28 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I have a question...... The man i'm in love with is getting married in three months when I called him to tell him I was relocating to another city after I heartbreakingly watched him be told by my pastor to officially get engaged to her on the platform as he got on his k... (334 words)