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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She has a new boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so Ive dated a girl on and off for almost six years. We were really in love, my niece was even named after her (crazy i know) of course we had ups and downs. This time she broke it off over some issues we had, she wanted me to leave her alone. At first it was really h... (876 words)

What is my boyfriend's stepmom's problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I known my bf for almost four years and we have been together for 6 months and I was pretty good with his peoples until we started getting serious. We are both 21, in college and still live with our parents so I pretty much feel like our relationship is really nobody ... (261 words)

Is it weird that my boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends mum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wierd that my boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends mum about how much he misses the family? Let me give you some background.. He was with the girl for about a year and a half and, as it was a long distance relationship he would often go down and stay with her fami... (102 words)

He's a workaholic, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age - I am dating someone that is a major workaholic. He told me this when we first began dating but I'm now seeing it first hand. We've gotten along great up until about 1 month ago when he began having alot of problems at work and all his time is taken up with that. We always spent ... (172 words)

how long to know a person before marriage or having a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for a longterm relationship. so i started to join the online dating. I am 34 age old and i like to have a family. If i meet someone in person a couple of times, and like each other, but not sure whether we are the match. should i still see other person in person... (111 words)

How do I distingush whether he likes me or just likes to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I started to date a guy and wish to have a serious long term relationship. If the guy want to have sex with me? How do i distingush whether he like me or just like to have sex? How long or how many dates should have before the intimacy? thanks and waiting for help.... (57 words)

I have jealousy issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles I hope you are all well! So I am back again looking for some more help if possible? My question is about jealousy. I know I have really bad issues my boyfriend just has to look at a female and its like a flame in my heart and I get furious. Don't get me ... (265 words)

Should I move on with my feelings and sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for a year. We are pretty good/happy together but it worries me that he never tells me he loves me he only said it twice that i can remember...but everytime i tell him i love him he replies by saying "i know" :( when we started dating he used to ... (294 words)

How do I flirt a little with this uber attractive customer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I work at a Chickfila and occasionally there are attractive men that come through the drive thru. I have worked the drive thru every morning for 3 months and I had never seen this guy before. Now he has been coming through and he's just uber attractive to me. What should I say ... (81 words)

How do I find out if he's just stringing me along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Boyfriend of a yr and a half only talks about us getting together when we're retired - that 17 yrs from now! We both own separate homes now yet we spend 3-5 nights together every week. I want to be under one roof but he says nothing about our near future. What do I say to ... (88 words)

How do you keep an older man interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just started dating this older guy, he's 26 and I'm 18. Does anyone have any advice on how to keep an older guy interested? ... (26 words)

My boyfriend likes to spend more time with his friends than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid My bf of 2 years likes spending time with his friends rather than with me. He is always coming up with thing or another not to spend much time with me. I know for sure that he is not cheating, but he is always hanging out with his friends. I have given him en... (104 words)

Am I right to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I really need your advice because this situation is really, really upsetting me/ making me nervous. You see, my boyfriend and I have been together for nine months and I've known him for a year, at least. He is a very sweet, warm-hearted guy... (469 words)

What are the top reasons for cheating?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

23 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, thanks for ansewering me... i appreciate all advices. one question. Why girls/woman cheat? What are top reasons? Thank you.... (26 words)

I love my friend but he is married!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm in love with my friend and he loves me as well madly! The problem lurks in the fact that he's married !! First of all, regard the fact that we are muslims while analyzing our story ( as for the traditions, customs, etc..) Last year he had an awkward period! Hi... (565 words)

Why am I talking with a guy online who I don't trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid,I am 24 and i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years 6months ago. The problem I am having now is that I talk to this guy online. We text,talk over the phone and all. But I have no feelings for him. I just need someone to talk to. I miss talking to him whenever he ... (140 words)

How do I convince him? we are in a long distance relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, there is this guy I really like (and have for quite a long time) and turns out, he likes me back. But thing is, we're already living in different cities (he's studying at university in the capital, and I'm still at school), and as I'm graduating this year, I'm going to ... (114 words)

How can I fix my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend broke up with me because of my insecurities that got the best of me. We've been together before 5 years ago for 1.5 yrs and broke up because he tried to be with another girl while we were together and talking to an ex gf behind my back. We got back together for ... (370 words)

His version of playing slow is to never text or call and I'm wondering why he wanted to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

- My ex split up with me in January after 1 1/2 years, and living together. We hit a rough patch for a couple of months but other then that we were very much in love, his reason he decided he didn't love me anymore. He came back from the states the other and has decided he w... (228 words)

How do I know he loves me when he doesn't call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i know he loves me when he don't even bother to call me. He says he love,but i do the calling always and each time i call he always tell me he has no money to buy credit. Please readers advice me. Did he really love me and how do i know he did, when he don't even show ... (66 words)

It hurts when I have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22 years old and it really really hurts every time I have sex with my boyfriend. We've been together for 2.5 years and its beginning to affect our relationship because he hates hurting me. Its gradually started hurting more and more since we've been together. Its a ... (274 words)

Is he really interested in me? Or am I just another conquest? And inexperienced too

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been seeing someone who is way more experienced than me sexually and most of his past girls have been very experienced and are into casual sex. it makes me feel like i'm just another conquest and i am curious if he is interested in me just because i'm not like his usua... (69 words)

How do I get over this worry? I keep thinking he cheated on me with those girls

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I wonder If anyone has been in my situation or could give me some advice what to do? I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now and at the start of our relationship he was out all the time and once he stayed at a girls house (his friend) with her friend ... (156 words)

B/f didn't watch porn before he met me. Why does he watch it now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend didnt watch porn before he met me. I've been together for 3 years. However, I discovered that a few months ago, he watched porn and looked at sexual parts on naked women bodies to get arousal and to masturbated.We have sex regularly and we enjoy it. But why does he ... (95 words)

I scared him off. Can I interest him again, despite this set-back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I finished seeing this guy about three weeks ago because he said he didnt know if he wanted a relationship or not and we have been talking to each other for the last two weeks and he said that things between us when we were seeing each other were getting weird and I scared him ... (83 words)

I was confused and acted rather coldly and now he doesn't want to go further in the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 21 years old and I've been sort of seeing a guy for about a month and a half now and it's been going extremely slowly. We go on walks or study dates and most of the time we kiss at the end. I'm a very confident person, but around this guy I am shy, and things like ... (212 words)

Should I not be selfish and try to be more accomodating or should I tell him feel manipulated and used?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dating has reached the relationship stage and I'm learning a few things about this guy. He was really nice and fun initially and I get along well with his 14 year old son who lives with him. It just seems to me lately he has such a sense of entitlement and everyone should d... (355 words)

I don't want to leave my boyfriend but I don't know how we can go back to being lovers now that I've cheated on him and that we've been living as 'friends' for a year

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and half and we have been living together for a year. He started having serious back problems a year ago and we have not had sex since then. He now wants us to buy a flat together but I am scared of committing to this when at the back of ... (173 words)

My ex is now married and I'm having a hard time actually moving on with my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, so I used to write on here a while back when my ex and I broke up. Basically the gist is that she started dating a new guy like a few days after ending it with me. I pretty much assumed that she had feelings for him and wanted to be with him more so then with me. ... (451 words)

Can abusive men change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can abusive men change.. I split from my ex who I know was abusive several months ago, unfortunately I.still have to have contact.as we had children. He has never openly admitted to being abusive.and had blamed me, he had apparently never been violent with any other former ... (187 words)

Is it acceptable to ask Kelly to go with me to the wedding? Or should I just talk to my roommate, and tell him I'm going stag?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend ("Rachel") last week from a series of fights and a serious change of feelings. I received a wedding invitation to my roommate's wedding a couple weeks before then and RSVP'd assuming I'd bring Rachel. My other ex, "Kelly", and I have "bumped" in... (180 words)

Is it weird/impossible for a twenty year old girl to be just friends with an older man (35 years age difference)?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, at work. I struck up a friendship with an older man. We talked a lot and appreciated each other's company. Today, we kinda just took the friendship out of work. We exchanged phone numbers and tonight we spoke on the phone for a little bit. We only stopped talking because he ... (174 words)

In love with my "straight" best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - My best friend and I once had a very strange relationship. I came out to him and confessed all my feelings for him one night and he did the same to my suprise. So we had about a 4 month relationship behind his GFs back. 2 years later, we are still best friends but it's tab... (104 words)

I think that's his way of breaking up?? So I move on for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in need to vent. My ex-bf and I have been having some issues. We've been on and off for a while. He initiated the first two and I initiated the last one. I initiated because I was just so tired of him not responding to me and just wishing he could be my support as well.... (459 words)

I love her and spending time with her isn't helping me to move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a woman on and off for 3 years. We dated a while, but she’s commitment phobic and called it off when it felt like a relationship. (bad previous relationship) We agreed to be friends. After 6 months, we got closer. I met her friends, and we’d all hang ou... (579 words)

Could I just be turned off from my wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) age - Hello there. I need some opinion about my really disturbing problem. I have a ED , a few years ago. I went to the doctors, checked everything ,more than once, and Im perfectly healthy. So it does not make sense. But I never think of sex, not with anybody. Its real serious,as my ... (104 words)

It feels like my best friend is slipping away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Have you ever been scared to lose your best friend? Theyre like your other half. They understand u and everything your going through. You guys have been through the ups and downs. Well lately i feel like my best friend is slipping away. We used to be able to talk without ... (202 words)

Does my teacher like me? Would it be right to pursue him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This takes place in Virginia. I'm of legal age and my former teacher and I have a weird relationship. When I had his class he would look me up and down a lot and ask me to stay after a lot. Now I just finished having his class last semester but I come visit his class often ... (283 words)

Is there a reason why I can't reach orgasm when g/f manually stimulates me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have an issue that keeps me from having sex currently with my girlfriend. She is very understanding and it is not that big of a deal (I need a minor surgery before I can, and we are content at fooling around until that happens) I have been able to reach orgasm with her ... (155 words)

My friend has become the perfect girl and I'm jealous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles. So, this has to do with my best mate and my feelings of jealously over her. I'm 31 single and live in London. I met my mate (who's 29) 10 years ago at uni and we have been the best friends ever since, but recently it's all changed. Basically we've ... (639 words)

I have a girlfriend but was touching up on my best friend. I'm too afraid to tell my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So I have been dating my gf for like a year and a half now... About 4months into the relationship I did somthing with my best friend. I hung out at her house and we got a little bit close. We didn't kiss or anything but I was touching up on her and I was able to touch pubic ... (171 words)

How did you meet your special someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - How did you guys/girls here meet your special someone, if you currently have someone, or did in the past? I've been attracted to many girls in my life and obsessed over a few, but never really pursued anyone. All of the romantic/dating/flirting/sexual experience I've had was ... (140 words)

Do I have a chance with my English teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I'm 14 years old, I'm a lesbian, and I deeply and honestly feel like I am in love with my English teacher. Now I know, I know you will say it's a "crush" or I'm just "infatuated" with her but I really feel this is love. At my school, we have 4 classes a day and we chang... (261 words)

My husband doesn't like my mom living with us and she can't live alone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3233 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My 84 year old mom has lived with my husband and I for the last 22 months - my husband had agreed for her to move in but now he has a change of mind. The only time my husband ever speaks to my mom is when he bids her the time of day. He doesn't want to sit around the dining ... (333 words)

How do Arians see Librans?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - this question is for those agony aunts who have knowledge into zodiac signs, but if you wanna have your say, go for it. i've read articles about the compatibilty between a libran woman (myself) and an arian man (my partner). the results are promising, but im not determining ... (109 words)