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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What does foreplay actually consist of?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I read in Cosmo that the ideal foreplay time for women was 20 minutes. My question is, what does foreplay actually include? Is oral sex (cunni) considered foreplay? It can take a while for me to get turned on but i have to say i dont think i ever had 20 minutes of foreplay! ... (121 words)

How do you initiate morning sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you initiate morning sex? I always notice my fiance has morning glory like any healthy man but I have never had morning sex with him as I have to wake up about 2 hours before him for work. He comes home for a week or so in a few days and I was wondering how to initiate ... (121 words)

My girlfriend's 14 year old brother acts very creepy!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend's 14 year old brother acts very weird around her. When on car rides he will lean his head on her shoulder and tell her how he loves her in a strange, kind of lonely way. He still kisses his mom on the lips and will go into my girlfriend's room and tell her ... (96 words)

He's very attentive but less sex now since I'm pregnant. Is that saying something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've know this guy since I was like 7 he was my broz besttriend..... for about 6 months we've been sleeping together just friends with benefits kinda thang. Well now I'm 4 months pregnant he's so happy he goes to dr appt with me spends time with me and loves on me and ... (152 words)

How do I deal with my very depressed boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend hasn't been able to see his kids for three months now. His ex wife has done so much much mental damage to him to where he believes he is a terrible person, bad father and he is worthless. He has recently pushed me away, he won't hug me, kiss me, say I love you ... (277 words)

How can I stop these rumors my so called friends started?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello,I'm 15 years old and i've been hanging with a group of mates a while now and the other day i was with two of them and some guy came behind me and pulled my pants down I pulled them back up and I was certain nobody saw. The two of my mates saw my penis and the next day one ... (144 words)

Is my lady disappointed because my penis doesn't look like porn stars?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 30 years old and my penis is roughly 7-3/4" long measuring accross the top, i can measure over 8" if you measure from the side butand i think thats cheating and 5.25-5.50" in girth, it also has not a bend but just a slight downward curve, I can hurt her on accident in some ... (132 words)

Is it normal to keep lots of pics of your ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to keep pics of your exes? i mean lots of pics, naked, underwear shots, normal pics. Im not sure he is over these ex girlfriends!... (28 words)

Will the baby and I hold him back in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im pregnant for my cheating ex fiance but now iv just started dating the guy of my dreams. Hes amazing, so accepting of my pregnancy and knows we come as a package deal no two ways about it. Wev gone baby shopping and downloads baby apps to monitor how the child is growing. We ... (99 words)

Sex has become a chore for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much, we have a wonderful life together and typically a wonderful sex life to boot. But lately sex has been more of a chore for me and i dont enjoy it nor do i orgasm. We have sex usually once a day give or take somedays as he works full time and goes ... (135 words)

Why does a girl become so cruel to a guy who loves her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Why does a girl become so cruel to a guy who loves her? There's this girl at work that I have a crush on. She and I were very close, just as friends. But recently she found out that I had feelings for her the whole time, and now she is behaving cold towards me. It hurts so ... (253 words)

I'm dating a guy who is mixed and my dad is a racist jerk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been talking to the same guy for about 2 montha. last night, he asked me out and of coarse, i said yes. i totally like him a lot! but the thing is, he is mixed and my dad is racists jerk. imm not telling him anything about it yet, but i honestyly think this boy and i ... (155 words)

Is it really possible for people to change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Thank you for taking the time to read my question. My question is about if people can really change. I knew this girl who I had feelings for. We went with each other a little while, but she began canceling our appointments with excuses that turned out to be lies. It... (231 words)

My wife has one foot out the door. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I feel my wife of 20 years has one foot out the door. Over the last year or so she has developed a lot of her own friendships, started going out a lot, and when we go out with others, she has become quite the party girl- bouncing from one person to another, like I am not even ... (377 words)

Hopelessly in love with my friend but she doesn't want a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice if possible, 4 years ago a girl blew me away that I chased after her to let her know she just made my heart skip a beat, she smiled but politely told me she was in a relationship, but we have since became friends. Over the course of these 4 yea... (280 words)

Why do we spend so many of our resources on beauty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do we women spend so muvh time, energy, and money chasing impossible, an constantly changing standards of beauty? This is separate from health, mind. ... (26 words)

Do I try to contact her one more time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been chatting with this girl in college class since the beginning of the semester . There was light flirting and she would always turn around (she sits a row in front of me). She would literally turn around to small talk with me everyday. That class has ended so i ... (98 words)

How can I get an answer if my friend would like to be in a relationship with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear agony aunts/uncles, I've fallen for my close/best friend and I don't know what to do. Since I was 13 I knew that I was attracted to males (some females too) and have had a few crushes before; but this time it feels so much more powerful. I don't know if its because I'm ... (364 words)

How should I flirt with a co-worker who is twice my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, well there's this mature lady who works at the same company as me. In my opinion, she is sexy as hell. She's a bit more than twice my age. Infact, her son, who I knew personally is three years older than me. INFACT, her son has two kids, which technically makes her a ... (206 words)

I love my online friend and he doesn't return the feelings. Should I block him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my friend. I'm 17 and he is 26. We met online 2 years back. We live in same country. I'm suffering from depression, he helped me a lot to come out of it. We used to sex chat. He told me before that he can't love me and he is not trustworthy guy but he said he ... (565 words)

How do we get back to that old feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ok! where to begin. i've been seeing my boyfriend for 5 n half years. like every relationship we've had our ups n downs, nothin too major, just silly little things really. for the last 2 months something hasn't been right, i kept askin him what was goin on and he kept tellin me ... (522 words)

I've spent too much of my life on a guy who will never love me the way I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - {Moderator note: two questions from the same OP combined} What should I say to him? I want to break up with him.? I was with my ex for 6 months. He was my 1st love. I loved him a lot and he told me he loved me too all his actions told me he lived me. Then suddenly he bro... (670 words)

Too much precum ruins the mood for her

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

14 April 2012 (M) age 36-40 - Before we have sex with my girlfriend, during foreplay I tend to release significant amount of precum. Sometimes it drops on her or touches her and she thinks that it is disgusting and gets her out of the mood a little. I don't want to wear the condom all the time during ... (90 words)

Guys, are women with big boobs more 'valuable' than the rest of us?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was talking to my BF and he said that he was more inclined to treat a woman with big boobs with more care, respect and spoil her than a woman with smaller boobs. Of course I have a small B cup, and I asked him why he was with me. He said that I have a great personality. When ... (130 words)

My heart skips a beat when I think of him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, There's this guy that I'm really good friends with and that I really like! I've never felt this way before though...like, I've fancied other boys but whenever I think about him my heart literally skips a beat! Does this mean something? ... (45 words)

Together a month and he keeps telling me I am offending him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, ive been with my boyfreind for a month now and i love him, but we have different views about things that are important to us like religion. he keeps bringing it up, and saying that im the one that offending him. im just wondering if a relationship can work if people h... (101 words)

Is this guy a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello frnds, i need help ok lemme tell you ...i met this guy on facebook but actually we wereschoolmates he was my senior but we hardly talk the only thing he used to to in school was staring at me and onnce he made an effort and asked how i was doing ??that was was last time ... (349 words)

My heart says wait, even though he disappeared again, over three months ago!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The last time I saw him we were expressing our emotions to one another and he had said that he felt that I was the one for him and that he felt that way for a long time he also told me to be patient for him he had this amazing smile on his face that was calm and relieved when ... (473 words)

Did he mean it or was he just saying it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing this guy for 2 months and it ended a week ago- i ended it because he said he didn't know if he wanted a relationship anyway i text him on thursday and said i missed him. He text back saying 'aww, miss u too'. Did he mean it or was he just saying it? Thank you... (59 words)

I didn't like what I found when I logged into my boyfriend's facebook

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so bad and guilt because I found out my bf's password for facebook and chose to log into it today and I looked at a conversation that he had with one of his male friends the most recent person he talked too. So I found something I did not like which is that he got hit on ... (204 words)

Coming out as pansexual to my conservative father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys. Just popping in to ask for some advice on coming out as pansexual to a conservative father. My mother, I think her views of me wouldn't change, as she's told me they wouldn't if I ever turned out to be anything other than straight, so I'm not nearly as scared to tel... (223 words)

I'm tired of being expected to act a certain way because of my skin color. Is it wrong to be attracted to a different culture?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am fifteen years old and black Ever since I was small I have always been into asian culture(Mainly Korean and Japanese)I watched anime all my life(my favorite was Dragon Ball Z) so I think that's how it got started and as I got older I started downloading Japa... (580 words)

Is it possible he wants to explore our relationship again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

- So my ex and I broke up last October. I had posted a question this past January about trying to get my stuff back from him (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-he-doesnt-want-to-try-again-i.html#provide_answer). Well yesterday he called me out of no where after not speaking ... (259 words)

I got rejected by a guy after just one date!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a week ago at a party and we made out. He asked for my number and I got all excited about going on a date with him. We finally met up last night - though I was really, really tired - for an hour or so. He was really affectionate and I thought he really liked me ... (188 words)

My B/f has a secret female body builder fetish whereas I am skinny and the complete opposite of what he supposedly likes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of 4 years has a secret female body builder fetish. i found out when he left a website open on a computer in our house. i confronted him immediately since it made me really uncomfortable and made me question our relationship and his attraction to me. i am really r... (262 words)

What is it that makes a guy stick around for the long haul?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

14 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Just wondering if anyone (males in particular) can answer this for me. What is it that makes a guy stick around for the long haul or even the forseeable future. It seems to me, per the advise given be people on this site, that girls that are genuinely nice and jus... (124 words)

Regret of not dating someone and then see her date around casually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry for posting on this forum again, but I have been struggling badly with this issue for 5 months now. I broke up with my first and only girlfriend in Jan 2011. The reason was that I am Indian (living in US) and she is american, and my parents took too long to approve ... (569 words)