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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend doesn't acknowledge my mom while in her home and now things are weird!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and Mum don't quite get on since he seems offhand and disrespectful when he comes over. We are both on part time wages so are living at home whilst saving up for a mortgage. The first time we invited him round, he didn't acknowledge my Mum when he arrived and l... (242 words)

He wants to get back together when I move there in 5 months. Should I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Around 6 months ago I started dating a great guy who lives around 2.5 hours away from me. I was crazy about him, and he seemed crazy about me as well. He asked about dating exclusively early on and made it very clear he was looking for something long-term. He drove out to see ... (413 words)

I'm 19 and my parents are super strict!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably going to sound immature but i have to do this. I'm 19 years old and my parents are super strict. According to them I have to be home by 10 pm until I move out. I can't sleep over guys houses nor party or basically anything a 19 year old does. I have planned a ... (225 words)

Why is this guy acting so friendly now? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! So I'm going to be the 98747432th person to ask this sort of question, and honestly I feel a little silly typing this out but this guy is confusing me that I would really appreciate some exterior, objective advice. So, here are the facts (I'll try to keep it c... (820 words)

How can I speed up sex without finishing quick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How can i speed up sex without finishing quick? I'm young, and suffer from P.E, i'm a confident guy who's got no problem in meeting girls and has confidence talking to girls. But when it comes to being sexually active with a girl i try to avoid it because i've literally g... (106 words)

Is bleeding from having sex for the first AND second time normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! So me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time 7 days ago. It hurt really bad and afterwords i went to the bathroom and was bleeding a lot. It soon stopped and we did it again the same day and it felt better. I stopped bleeding and could just enjoy it. The next time he ... (131 words)

B/f talks badly to me and doesn't seem to realize it hurts me

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15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, So I have been dating my boyfriend since the start of January, and before that we had been best friends for about a year. When we decided to finally get together,we mutually agreed that it felt right and we were really happy. Our relationship has always been 'ba... (443 words)

I want to trust my b/f but am struggling to believe in him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I need some advice on what to do to get over my mistrust of my bf - not sure if it's just me who needs to change, or if we need to consider relationship counselling or something, and need some perspectives before I approach my bf about this pls. So, we've been toget... (773 words)

B/f says he loves me but he's not in love yet. What does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had a talk about "love" for the first time this morning. The conversation was very open, non-confrontational, and honest.... I said, "So how come you don't feel the "L" word yet?" He said that he does. Then we discussed what that means, to "love" each ot... (429 words)

Do I leave it alone or tell him of my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm fifteen and i have this friend thats 16 we have known each other since we were in pre-k together and never lost contact to this day we see each other pretty often and talk alot. He is my oldest and truest friend in the world, but lately I have started to feel i want ... (210 words)

Do you think he's interested or was just after having me in his contact list as a number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I met this guy ages ago and our lives drifted apart and then we added each other on Facebook. I unfriended him six months later as I was beginning to get involved in a serious relationship and didn't want to friend of guys on FB as I didn't want to keep changing the privacy ... (267 words)

Asked out neighbor she never responded and I can't move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I was trying to date my neighbour and things didnt go well. I had asked her out and she replied she will get back to me. But she never did. I Because i lost hope, 3 months ago, I tried to move on. I dont have her number, but we are still friends on facebook. I have tried the... (112 words)

I'm tired of being used by my partner and him not giving in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age - I am a professional independent woman. I have three children. The third child being for my current partner. I have not been very happy in the relationship for a while and have tried communicating this to him. Things did not change. Todate I have now stop having sex with him ... (350 words)

I'm tired of sneaking around with my b/f

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15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 15 years ol my boyfriend is 13 he will be 14 in a couple of months though. I love him a lot and May 25 will actually be our 4 year anniversary, (we have broken up and gone on again of again but it will just be four years from the origin of our relationship). I love hi... (243 words)

My friends make fun of me and refer to me as gay

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently my friends whom i have known for the past 2 years are pissing me off. Whenever i am around, they make fun of me. They make fun of my apperance,my teeth,face etc and calls me gay. Even when someone newly joins the group, i am introduced as a gay guy. I am 25 and never ... (221 words)

Why do these woman believe that a man is seriously in love with them so soon after meeting them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age - What does it say for a man who professes his undying love for a woman he has just started dating. In my opinion, there is something wrong with this person if he continues to move on from one woman to another claiming he ia in love with them and wants to marry them! Is that ... (319 words)

Is this a sign that he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this guy I like .....lets say his name is Josh. He's a guy I've known for awhile now and who I've been txtin for quite a bit lately. We went to the movies this past Tuesday, we talked and laughed at each others comments. We then went to get a milk shake, however I didn't ... (231 words)

Is it still cheating if I was with a girl not a guy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys..so last nite i had friends over..two girls and a guy..we had some vodka and ended up drunk..this girl and guy left about 2am..and i was left with the other girl..we went inside the house and had sex..it was my first wit a girl.she is lesbian n ive been bicurious for a ... (112 words)

Why after 3 months won't he sign his divorce papers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with a man for three years now, we knew each other since teenagers, we were to date than but my best freind wasjealous and stoll him and got pregnat by another man but convinced him it was his. after 20 years our paths crossed and he seperated with her and I fell in ... (114 words)

Is my boyfriend gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years this summer, weve had our ups and downs and odd little breaks but overall everything is good. We had a big heart to heart last year when he told me approx a year before i met him he had oral sex with another man and since then often goes ... (246 words)

Fiance has lost her trust in me because I sext other women

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, Me and my fiance have been together for nearly 2 years and we have been fine. However, there have been times where for some reason I would sext other women. I can't say for sure why I did it, I just did. When she found out about each time she cried, we ta... (175 words)

After all the hurt and insecurities and trust issues that my boyfriend had with his ex, I don't understand why he still is in contact with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A saga, srry: A few years ago, on the first day of school my boyfriend "mike" and I met. He pursued me from day 1, and i turned down his efforts for three months becuase I was suffering from depression and was also in a quasi relationship at the time. He went on to dat... (787 words)

How do you flirt with a text junkie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - she texts to flirt. i have never had a cell phone, but i flirt w/ her via fb (fb to text). i don't know the etiquette. seems like she'll respond every 30 minutes to and hour, unless i just initiate the convo, then it takes a while to get going. always short snippets/one liners. ... (68 words)

Should I try to date my 4th cousin again when we are older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so. I am in love with someone who happens to be my 4th cousin. We had been friends for years prior, but then we kind of lost contact. We "met again" at his high school when I was there to play in his school's band. After that, we talked and became best friends quite ... (547 words)

My boyfriend fantasizes and approaches someone I know.. is it ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend who has two kids with two different women is very charming and affectionate. I accepted the fact of his past (which is no easy for women). However, now I am finding that he write fantasies with my zumba instructor. I stopped going to zumba because other staff. Yet, ... (112 words)

Should I be worried about my friend? She seems very down all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm not asking about a romantic thing. It's more of a concern for a friend, however. I'm a little worried, about this one girl. She's very dear to me. Thing is, she's very down. I think she had lost a friend a year ago. (He just didn't wish to be her friend - claims ... (209 words)

What kind of person breaks up with someone twice? Do I stay or go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I really need help! My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Around this time last year I broke up with him because I was not "in love" after all that time and I've always wanted that "amazing" feeling as everyone describes it. I never felt that with him. I ... (298 words)

I'm starting to think I'm not attractive and no guy could like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm a 17 year old girl and I have a little something on my mind, and just wanted to know if you had some advice. So I was at a party last night, and hooked up with a guy that goes to my school, and it didn't mean anything to me. We were both pretty drunk, and he ... (281 words)

Do I steer my friend away from this not so nice girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I really do not know what to do I have been friends with this boy for two years and in these two years we have grown closer and I do consider him one of my best friends as I can trust him more than some of my girl-friends. Recently, I have realised how much I enjoy his company. ... (209 words)

Is it possible to know the baby's father before its born?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I hv sex with my ex bf without using a condom a day after i hv ex with my bf now am pregnant dont know who the father is. Is it possible for me to know the real father before the baby is born?... (44 words)

When does anal stimulation/sex feel better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (M) age 36-40 - I have a question for the ladies, do you feel more comfortable with anal stimulation and anal sex after you have an orgasm? Or is it better before, in state of higher arousal?... (33 words)

My cheap boyfriend tries to make me feel guilty to pay for our meals out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Lately, my boyfriend of 2.5 years has been giving me a guilt trip about not "treating" him to dinners. I'll ask him if we can go out somewhere nice, implying that I'll pay half, and he says "if you're treating, sure." He earns the most money out of both of us, while I'm earning ... (305 words)

Was I just the rebound girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ok where do i start. I broke up with my ex boyfriend of two years in august last yr afta months of abuse and coldness from him. we tried to be friends but it has always been up and down and tbh i havent really been interested in being friends. so i met another guy in the dec ... (231 words)

Should I hold on to a small hope that her new relationship will not work out or just completely move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, there is this girl who was a good friend of mine that I eventually started to her care for her as more than a friend. First off, after a few dates, I asked her to wait for me for few weeks, so I could find a job and treat her the I wanted to treat her. During the waiting ... (625 words)

I cry way too much!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this website's for relationships, it seems to be a great help for almost any problem. So here's mine. Although I don't know what kind of answer I'm expecting, it's more to get it off my chest. I have a problem. That problem is, I cry way too much. And I don't know how to ... (1368 words)

How can I leave bad news friends behind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, my apparent friend group just did something which definitley proved to me there not my friends. We all smoke weed and they've turned extremely aggresive and short tempered since they have. I recently called them fake friends and lately they've been annoyed with me and ... (133 words)

She stops to chat with people but never introduces me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend has a habit of stopping in stores to talk to people she knows, this would seem fine and all but she treats me like a stranger the minute she see's them. Weather it's a man or woman she never introduces me and normally steps to another isle to talk to them. Should ... (70 words)

I like him a lot, but can you believe a guy you've never met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I started chatting with this guy like 3 years ago(knew him through facebook). I was in a relationship back then. We remained pretty close all the while. And I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. Things were going as usual but for the last few weeks this chat friend of mine ... (148 words)

Why does my dad keep criticizing the new house that I've bought with my partner? He's so negative about it that it makes me sick!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I recently bought our 1st house - let me make it clear we used our own savings for the deposit and have had no help from anyone with the mortgages payments or refurbishments. My father has been absolutely negative about our house from the start. He nit p... (436 words)

Do I tell my boyfriend that being drunk led to fooling around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 plus years. He's so great we have the best times. We obviously fight and have our ups and downs but we always get thru them. I'm 24 he's 36. I'm a flight attendant and I don't usually go out and party with my crew however last nig... (196 words)

Who's the one for me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys,i'm with my bf( or my ex now ) almost 2months,but i brokeup with him yesterday cuz i cheated on him but he doesn't know,at the same day ,my friend x kissed me and i kissed him back,i did love it cuz he was my first love and the one who gave me my first kiss before my ... (134 words)

My Russian boyfriend is becoming really insecure and wants me to move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm Irish and in a long distant relationship with a russian man . I'm 29 and he is 37 . I met him in Russia it was love at first sight and we are together 2 years . I go to Russia quite regualrly and he comes to ireland howver he thinks it is time we decided whether to move in ... (488 words)

Why do guys go to strip clubs when they have a hot chick at home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend went to a stag party and ended the night at a strip club. He said he didn't get a lap dance but bought the stag one. Now a week later, I have been trying to put it aside but its just at the back of my head whenever I look at him or whenever he tries to get in p... (154 words)

Why am I think of a guy who treated me horribly in the end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I sort of saw this lad for about six months and we sometimes got on great but other times he'd treat me really badly. It ended badly and he was pretty horrid. I got a new boyfriend about six months later. It's been three years since and I have been thinking about him more ... (84 words)

All his text said was nite nite sweet dreams. Why didn't he comment on our day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Am i over reacting here,seen my boyfriend yesterday,we spent a nice afternoon together,we had some great sex too,later he sent me a nite nite sweet dreams text.now usually when we say good nite or good morning to each other,we always have a few other short things we say as ... (151 words)

I usually have high standards, so why am I into this average looking girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Usually I have very high standards (it takes a fair amount of beauty to get a 8-10 mental rating from me), but I have recently met this girl who I would have never looked twice at in the street and I don't know why I am so taken with her...?... (50 words)

Cultural differences are causing big problems in our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I love one another very much, but we have communication/understanding problems due to cultural differences. My parents and I are both Korean American, and he is a Korean international student from Korea. Although my parents and I visit Korea every year and I'm ... (489 words)

If I give him space, will he come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, 6.5 years ago i moved to a foreign country to be with boyfriend (his country). The first couple of years were great but then we start having problems. He has problems showing emotions and hates any conflict so runs away from problems. Me on the other hand.. I am full of ... (719 words)

Are there men out there that are just mean to their kids for no reason?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my man 7 years we have two kids. Sometimes he is really mean to them yells at them for nothing an cussin at them. Other days he can be super dad I tell him it's not fair I have to watch my children go through that I tell him he needs to stop . Are there men out ... (117 words)

How do I deal with the jealousy that I feel towards my co-worker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, There's this guy at work who I'm totally jealous of. He's younger than me, everyone at work adores him. He's considered, funny, witty, smart and brilliant. I get pangs of anger and jealousy all the time. Our careers have over the last 4 years pitted us agains... (260 words)

My g/f wants me to quit my job and move to another country. I don't want to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, My girlfriend and I just had the discussion about where we want to go with our lives, and it was rough, we've both been thru lots in our lives, however she still is a wonderful woman, But recently we've tryed to figure out what we want from life, I'm 35 and she is 2... (296 words)

I slept with my best friend and now hes being distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a year ago and we had instant attraction and started seeing each other. We were just sleeping together and hanging out for 2 months and got along really well but he was holding back a bit. We stopped seeing each other cause he wasnt over his ex who really hurt ... (358 words)

Does my B/f trust me or not? Why cant he just be straight forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am not quite sure how to interpret whats happening here.My boyfriend and I are in longdistance relationship right now(due to college). There is this event happening,big companies' directors, and CEO,.. are meeting with our alumni, and as you can imagine ... (567 words)

Would you trust this man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Would you trust a boyfriend with 2 kids from 2 different women? ... (14 words)

Friend used me as a rebound. How do I act around him now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm on my Easter holidays and a male friend of mine got dumped just before we broke up. So I was a shoulder to cry on for him and anyway he asked my out on a date and I didn't realise it until afterwards that I was just a rebound. Anyways we haven't spoken since which was just ... (245 words)

Will a vibrator help me regulate my sexual desires till I meet someone and be in a real relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hi all , im thinking about buying a vibrator , i'm 17 and a virgin and i'm not in a relationship and i feel a bit lonely , i want to buy it but i'm afraid it will make me crave sex even more. so i guess my question is will a vibrator help me regulate my sexual desires till i ... (78 words)

I like girls but have feelings for boys too. Am I gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have concerns I am young boy who is in in middle school.I get Teased at for have many girls that are friends for example I get called "gay " and well it hurt and I cry due to these name calling. But all also I have thoughts toward my sexuality I like this girl well ... (126 words)

Why is my boyfriend acting this way? Is he scared of change? Comittment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been dating a guy for a year and almost eight months. Less than a year ago I told him I was moving to another city. He said he would follow me wherever I went. We had one big fight about it back in October, we broke up, and got back together. It was decided we were ... (274 words)

What position will make my boyfriend cum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid i want my boyfriend to cum but he never does we hve the same sex position all the time are there any good sex postion tht can make him cum??... (32 words)

Translations please of guy-speak? Not sure what my Bf is implying.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys, what does it mean when a guy says you are amazing as a girlfriend, but when you try to be pretty you are stunning but when you don't try your blehh? What does this mean in guy speak?... (39 words)