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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He can't seem to get past the fact that I was taken advantage of

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Previous to my relationship with him, I had been in another relationship and that boyfriend took advantage of me and pretty much "hit it and quit it" just once and took my v-card. After that we broke up. Later I met ... (174 words)

He doesn't believe in living together before marriage

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for a year now. Things are pretty great between us and I am considering living together but he seems to disagree. Both of us currently work part time and live at home, whilst saving up for a deposit. However, usually me, spend some nights at ... (158 words)

Cross dressing has taken over his life

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This is my first time on here so, here goes, ive known a man for nearly 20 years infact i was a bridesmaid at his wedding he split up from his wife about 3 years ago - she was very unkind and decided to tell everybody that he was a cross dresser (which he was) we got together ... (252 words)

How do I become a jerk to attract girls?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - what does it take to get a gf? im honest, nice, smart and above average looking. i am 16 but it seems that guys who are jerks usually attract girls attention. How do i do that?... (36 words)

Can it be harmful to have sex during a period?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So..me and my girlfriend had sex while she was on her period. ( please don't judge) I was wondering if this was bad in any kind of way? Like can it harm our bodies and stuff like that. Thank You... (45 words)

I was afraid my boyfriend was going to hit me last night. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im still in my 8 year relationship and have hit a wall. i went to bed the other night quite late and because the cat normally sleeps at the foot of my side of the bed. i paid the cat some attention and laid down. normally when i do this he comes up for stroking and then goes ... (328 words)

Are we having to much telefonsex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Uhm ... Hello. This question is a bit embarassing for me but uhm ... yeah. My boyfriend and me are having a long-distance-relationship so we don't see each other very often but we are telephoning and chatting all the time. Two months ago we started having telefonsex and soon... (195 words)

Is my high sex drive normal for a 47 year old male?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a 47 year old male and I've been seeing the same girl for about four years now. It seems as if my sex drive is only increasing in intensity, although I have always had a high sex drive. Is this normal for a man my age? We have sex about 2 - 4 times per week, but even w... (131 words)

Happiness after you end an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Of those that ended a long term affair, did you eventually find happiness in your marriage? (Assuming spouse never knew) Looking back, are you happy you ended the affair? If so, what did you do to get over the relationship?... (42 words)

I don't know if we're ready for a child! Should I ask my wife to get an abortion?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I am 25 years old and I'm graduating from college with my bachelor's degree in three weeks. I've been married for two years and my wife is 21 going on 22 in september. Here is my dilemma. My wife has one more semester to go after the end of this semester to get her ... (220 words)

My boyfriend's ex is telling their children she won't be their mom if they talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya, hope you can help me cos I am torn here... I have been with my fella for 9 months, very happy togeether and planning our future together. However, he has 2 wonderful children who I adore and they like me. However his ex is tearing me apart. Every time we go out, I alw... (233 words)

Girlfriend has low self esteem and doesn't believe me when I say she's beautiful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - How can I boost my girlfriend's self confidence? We have been together for three years and over time she has gained some weight. She is still as beautiful as ever but she is really down about the weight. I keep telling her she is perfect but she says that in my eyes she will ... (99 words)

Is every relationship different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is every relationship different?? and when I say that I mean on how quickly things move or how slowly?? I got a promotion at work back in September and therefore moved departments which is where I met this guy (whom I dont actually work alongside or have to even see at work... (547 words)

FWB relationships: would the man never date you because you're not his type and he just wants sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a FWB relationship for over a year, very easy going no love job or complicatiions It just fizzled out and that was it. I get a random text sometimes. Today I bumped into him for the first time, I was in a rush but he spoke so I stopped for a minute. He looked well but I ... (169 words)

I'm 25 and I like talking to girls in their late teens. Is this a bad thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm currently 25 and I still like talking to young girls in their late teens. My parents say that it's illegal to date girls 17 or under. I don't understand why it would be so bad. Sex is a different issue, but I'm talking about just being close friends with teens within ... (61 words)

Complicated relationship, no commitments yet and there's a new guy from work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in this relationship right now for more than seven years. I believe we love each other terribly but things are not the same now and it's all so confusing, sad and terrifying at the same time. We started off as best friends. When we started, I had some questions regard... (1485 words)

How do you know when someone really has integrity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I believe people should do what they say or promise to do unless something unavoidable prevents it, from the big stuff to the small stuff. I try to do this and I try to be considerate. How come people can just, with apparently little discomfort or remorse, just let people d... (229 words)

My best friend is ignoring me and I wanted to tell her that I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I haven't seen my best friend in a month. And just recently, she told me she won't be going until the end of April for her cousins wedding. We haven't had much contact lately. She said that it was because she wanted me to get used to her not being around. She wont even take my ... (292 words)

They say you shouldn't settle but if you don't, maybe you end up alone??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Trying to keep this really short... Fell for my female best friend, really heavily. She didn't feel the same. We've kept the friendship and are very close and I couldn't imagine life without her (she has said same to me). I have tried dating other women but I rarely ... (202 words)

He shows less interest do I just let him go and stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for approximately 6 months and it was going really well saw each other alot, texted/called etc, That has slowly decreased now but he still texts me weekly it seems and asks me if i fancy meeting up etc so anyway the latest time he asked me to choo... (207 words)

How can I have feelings for him when I barely know him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - There this guy i like, I think he is single aleast i hope so because if he is not single i will never pursue. But he seems to be interested in me always flirting and smiling saying hello. I like him too, but the strange thing is I am starting to have feelings for him. Can ... (89 words)

Questions about getting breast transplants

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a few questions for the ladies. I am seriously considering breast implants. I am 46 years old and about three years ago, I lost a good 40-50 pounds, got back in shape again and have become a gym rat and regularly swim and have turned most of that fat into muscle. ... (360 words)

I lied to her and told her I am still a virgin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Before I officially went out with my girlfriend, I was a virgin. However, during the time I was getting to know her (we weren't going out yet), I had sex with two other girls. A few weeks after we actually decided to make it official that we were in a relationship but I nev... (267 words)

Boyfriend can't last longer than 3 minutes of sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf comes after about 3 minutes of sex, even if we just had it that day already. We've been in a relationship for ages and he always ends up saying sorry after sex. I usually don't mind but it's getting to the point where I really don't get a huge a lot from sex. I don't ... (100 words)

Her past and her actions got to me so I ended things. Was I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - so i started seeing a girl as friends id heard a lot about her ( she's easy,been with this person,been with that person etc etc) but i didn't care because i make up my own mind about people and me and this girl got on great so after about a month of innocently seeing each other ... (686 words)

I have a great life so why am I unhappy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a really good job which I enjoy, and a lovely boyfriend, amazing friends and family. But yet I still feel unhappy inside. What's wrong with me? ... (28 words)

Should I end this "tradition" with former co-worker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this girl thirteen years ago and we worked together for three years. She was weird in many ways, but a nice person. We kind of became friends, but I was never comfortable with that friendship because of, how should I put it, the undeserved admiration she had for me. She ... (261 words)

He's cleaned up his act, but sometimes his past behaviour still bothers me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3.5years. For the first year of our relationship he flirted (quite inappropriately) quite a lot with a large number of girls, including ex's. It ended in a massive argument and since then he's grown up a lot and doesn't really ... (126 words)

My biological clock is ticking, and he just rolls his eyes!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. From the start he knew i wanted marriage and children some day. He also told me he wanted those things. Over time, this has gone to, wanting it, not wanting it, not sure, wanting it. He has also known that i do not want it ... (290 words)

Am I being petty over my husband's friend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! So my husband and I were separated for three months and have decided to work things out. While we were separated he was seeing a lady who works in his building. They would go out and hang out and what not. I don't have a problem with that, but when we decided to wo... (221 words)

He comes to my place, eats, uses utilities but says I am ungrateful for not paying when we go out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend stays over at my house over the weekend. I recently found out that he thinks i am being ungrateful because he pays for dinner and i dont offer any money to put to it. This is because he tells me it is on him or he'll buy dinner. Money is tight and i will tell him i ... (136 words)

He gets defensive when I mention his changed behaviour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my partner is been slightly distant with me, its only been recent. but he hass his phone 24/7, when he has no credit he is fine, but when he does have credit he takes his phone everywhere and takes forever in the toilet. he cant get on the internet so i no its not that. he ... (153 words)

I say never again, but then I let her back in!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys i need some advise on my ex partner, we have been broken up since Christmas but are still in contact every day, she would come to my home, talk, kiss me tell me she loves me and have sexual intercourse with me, now this is very confusing for me as i am so in love with ... (171 words)

Should I have some sexual fun before I settle into marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Better go though me situation a bit. I'm in a 2.5 year long distance relationship. Been through good time and hard time. We meet every 4-5 months and make it a trip to somewhere away from home. We last met three months ago and going to get married in half ... (269 words)

Is he serious or am I getting played?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve had feelings for my friend’s ex-boyfriend for a while. A couple days back me and him and some friends were celebrating the end of classes with some alcohol, and we all got pretty buzzed, but I ended up not feeling well, so I spent the night at his room. We were basically ... (683 words)

I feel I'm wasting my time telling him the good stuff!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age - Hi,I would like some advice on how to really convince someone that they mean a great deal to you.everyday i don't see my guy i always tell him how much i miss him and his cuddles and kisses but he never believes me,he is always saying i just say stuff to make him feel good and ... (124 words)

I ended it, and then I said I didn't want to lose him and he said you already have!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - On friday night i ended things with the guy i was seeing for 2months. He said he was sure he was ready for a relationship and i wasn't prepared to wait around. At the time i told him i couldn't be friends as i would be upset when he started seeing other women. He wanted to be ... (176 words)

An old friend kissed me on the lips!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a commited relationship to my boyfriend of almost a year now. I would never even think or barely look at another man. I went to a party and an old friend of mine whom i hadnt seen in a few years, who was really drunk at the time i arrived, unexpectedly came up to me, ... (110 words)

Do guys give oral sex if they have no feelings for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - In a sex only relationship (booty call) do guys usually go down on girls if they don't have some sort of feelings for them?... (24 words)

I don't know what he meant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this man for about a year now. The other night he made a comment/question that I'm a little confused about. This is what he said " if you have so many options then what are you doing here with me?". I was not sure how to answer him because I was not sure if ... (101 words)

His female friend is really nasty to me since our breakup!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I had a bad breakup and I know I hurt him. One of his buddies must have asked him about the breakup and he vented to her. Now she is going around trash talking me and has said some really mean things about me even to my face. I've tried to ignore her and brush it off ... (100 words)

I think I smothered her. How do I get her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm really into this girl. she's recently had a rough break up (was abused), but i didn't know anything about that before i met her a couple of months ago. we flirted on fb quite a bit, now i feel like i've smothered her (she barely responds). how can i bait her back in?... (54 words)

Men & Women: How long have you gone without sex?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

9 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - How long have you gone without sex with another person? ... (10 words)

I'm insecure because I'm not the hot blonde but a short Asian!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So lately alot of people have been saying im pretty or beautiful. But i just pass it off thinking theyre just saying that because they feel bad for me, theyre my friends, or theyre my family. Whenever i look in the mirror at myself i dont see the other things people see. Im ... (184 words)

How do you end things when the other person is ignoring you?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last August my boyfriend of 5 years just uppin left me .. 3 days later I got a text message saying he was moving out and we were done. Then 3 days after that he was seen with a new girl at work. That ended about a month later. And we started talking again. We were back together ... (143 words)

How does my friend always get the guy she wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How does my friend always seem to attract the guy she wants? We'll be in a club and she'll see a guy she thinks is good looking, instantly her mind set is 'I have to have him'. And I don't know how she does it but she does, the guy always ends up liking her or coming over to ... (215 words)

He doesn't want me for anything other than sex. How do I end things gently?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I really need help with this situation I have been sleeping with a man for over a year now I really like him he told me we were just taking things slowly but now I finally aksed him what was going on with us he said it is just sex so I asked him who he would want to ... (181 words)

Why does sex hurt when he's on top?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I lost my virginity recently and i have had sex twice with me on top.It didnt hurt then but yesterday i tried to have sex with my boyfriend on top and it hurt a lot!.Why did that happen and how can we make it comfortable with him on top?... (49 words)

What should I do with my hands during foreplay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - During foreplay, what are some things I can do with my hands? I feel like I always just run my hands through his hair lol, and not much else. What are some ways I can touch a guy that will drive him crazy?... (43 words)