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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Over-analyser and compulsive worrier! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I have a problem with over analysing the situations where I find out a guy likes me. Basically, a friend of mine has recently made it known to my best friend that he likes me, and I don't know what to do! I get upset when I feel like no one finds me attractive, b... (473 words)

Everyone knows we will never get married except for my boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone help? To cut a long story short, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. 10 months ago he asked me to marry him but it turns out he just wanted a wife to live with and look after his parents. I told him I didn't want to get married for that reason and it w... (206 words)

Virgin, left husband, now dating but not sure how men will react to my virginity

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a unique situation I am in. Married for 10 years. Never consummated my marriage with my husband. I am still a virgin. We are now separated and heading for divorce. This was not the primary reason for us splitting. There were other issues that came into play. How ... (172 words)

How can I get my parents to treat me like they do my siblings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I passed my driving test, something which I am really, really proud of. I didn't tell my parents or anyone else that I was taking it, and when I passed, I told them. But, they just said to me that I should have been open and honest with them, despite the fact that my ... (307 words)

Why do older men date younger women and Visa Versa?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - It's just i noticed a lot lately that women in their 20's seem to be going for men in there 40's even 50's . Some with even a 25 to 30 year age difference my friend is actually 24 and dating a 49 year old. It puzzles me because sometimes the men are going grey the just aren't ... (186 words)

Is it bad to tell a white lie to avoid fighting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I hate DRAMA!!! I would always fight with my ex because we always wanted to be right!!! so eventually I smartened up and realized it really doesnt matter and gave in to an argument to not fight. Im currently dating a girl and doing the same thing. I dont want to put a ... (275 words)

Who is right, me or my wife? And what advice do we give our friends?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I searched the internet for advice sites, and I ended up here. We (my wife and I) have a question. We have some friends who are a little younger than us (mid 20's). They are engaged to be married. The Guy has an apartment, and the Girl moved back home with her parents after ... (431 words)

Help me compose a note to this actor!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met an actor after a show last week, and i want to write to him on facebook, saying that it was lovely to meet him, and i enjoyed the show, and that i hope to see him at the theatre again and meet him again, and that i hope to see him on tv more ( he has worked on tv as well ... (145 words)

Will he ever change or should I just give up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner of 2.5 years and I booked a holiday recently, I previously took him away and paid for everything, he is non working and his mum always gives him money as he lies constantly to her to get her to feel sorry and give him funds. he is 40 and does not and has not in ... (540 words)

He's talking to an ex on Facebook, but is upset that I'm talking to another of his exes too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have a problem. my boyfriend has been talking to his ex on facebook all the time. I told him when he first added her i didn't like it but yet he still talks to her. well now another one of his ex's added me on facebook. me and my boyfriend are having a couple problems ... (113 words)

I need to let go, I want to let go, of my ex-girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - In june of last year (2011), I met this really interesting girl. We went out a few times and had a little fling. It didn't work out. We broke up and got back together quite a few times; always trying again and again. Eventually I came to the realization that I liked her more... (334 words)

Is it best just to stay away from my abusive mother?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am just writing this for some advice regarding my 68 yr old mother. I am a 46 mother of two and grandmother of one. -ever since i can remember my mother has always put me down - and is constantly nasty. If i ever question her ways she just replies back with abuse. Yester... (164 words)

Are these mixed signals? Am I over-thinking things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I'm quite inexperienced with dating etc. I met this guy through a friend today, we hadn't actually seen each other before, this was the 1st time. But we have been talking everyday for 3 weeks and have spoken on the phone multiple times. He saw me in a pictu... (578 words)

I think my boyfriend has a thing for his ex, who happens to be my best friend! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I think my boyfriend still has a thing for his ex, which is my best friend.. When ever I talk to him or text him he always mentions his ex! I try and change the subject but he just goes back to it. We have been together 4 day's but we have liked each other since the day we met ... (88 words)

I don't know if I can handle another break-up, should I stay or let him go?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. So my "bf" and i were engaged but broke up because i sexted another man. I have appologized. I knew it was wrong. He just made me feel wanted because at the time my bf was not treating me all that well. Ive since gone to counselling and worked on communication ... (200 words)

What does prolonged eye contact mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Prolonged eye contact? What does the prolonged eye contact means? When and why do you guys use it? Sometimes when a gal catches a guy constantly staring at her, she's trying to decode what is he trying to tell. Does he flirt? Does he like her?... (46 words)

People think I am dating my bi-sexual best friend but its not true, yes we are both single but not together! How do we stop this so it doesn't give the impression we are unavailable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Most people think I'm dating my bisexual best friend. It's not the case. It's true that we're very close and for instance, when we go out we hold hands or hug a lot, but that's how are friendship has grown. I don't want to change the way I act around him (he's made me a better ... (101 words)

Telling your best friend you love her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it best to tell a girl you are in love with as soon as possible? Even if the girl is your best friend?... (24 words)

Questions you have always wanted answering....

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my best friend and I began writing a book last year answering questions that men around us have been asking about women. Why does my mum cry but have no idea why she's crying? Why do women get very defensive and angry sometimes even though they're not on their period? W... (143 words)

She was a virgin when she met me but had dated a guy before me, I get so jealous because of this! Am I wrong? What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 5 years of marriage and i am my wife's first man, she was virgin before me i wasn't. The fact is she used to date a guy by distance and we have a lovely friend who is this guy parent! I get jealous everytime we have to go to a child party or to the church because this guy ... (195 words)

Married teacher is always staring at me....what should I think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - OMG, I just can't figure what's going on? (my male teacher) He's married and he's 32-33 - ALWAYS stares ONLY at me in class for so long and sometimes I look back, but he doesn't turn away and stares deeper in my eyes, so I instinctively felt that he likes me, but I don't know. ... (138 words)

Only been together 4 days but I think he doesn't like me anymore! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I am only 13 but my boyfriend and I have only been together for 4 days and I feel like he doesn't like me any more, he doesn't reply to my text's and when he does he just put's like 'k' or 'what'. When I say to him I love him he just put's back lol or hahaha and I don't ... (84 words)

My husband keeps 'liking' a pretty ex-coworker's pictures and statuses on Facebook, should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is fasebook friends with an ex-coworker, a long time ago he told me he thought she was pretty. I've noticed lately he keeps liking her status and My husband is fasebook friends with an ex-coworker, he told me he thought she was pretty. I've noticed lately he keeps ... (63 words)

How do I rise above this and accept my sister's boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All. Okay so my problem is as follows: My sister and I are very close. I'm younger so I am or rather was given a lot of love and attention. (i'm 21) We have so much fun together; we fight, laugh, travel together etc...You get the picture. Now she's kind of se... (446 words)

How do I tell my female friend that I have feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this girl since 2009 and I have feelings for her ,how do I tell her I love her with out ruining our friendship if she has no feelings for me... (35 words)

Should I go after this girl who lives far away from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - right now I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. I like this girl, I have a huge crush on her, we talked on tumblr (a social networking site) and I told her how I feel about her but she just politely told me that she only wanted to be friends as we live far away from each ... (141 words)

Should I just stop talking to him? Or am I being unfair that way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I need some suggestions... But I gotta tell my story first and I guess it's quite long. Well... First of all, my boyfriend and I met on the internet. We're from different countries and don't see each other too often, but if we meet then it's for like 3 months. We're 21 ... (547 words)

Why did he leave me when things were going so well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for over 2 months but still saw each other every weekend and talked lots during the day by txt, phone, facebook and were really close and happy. He treated me like a princess and I treated him really good 2. We never ... (436 words)

Always on and off......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, me and my partner have been together for 2 and a half years now and although weve had our ups and downs we get on brilliantly. there was a time when he hit me but i know he has always regretted this, neither of us are perfect, ive made mistakes too. But the main issue is ... (151 words)

Husband wants me to have sex with another man, but he doesn't want to watch, he just wants me to tell him about it. What is this called?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone please tell me... " my husband wants me to have sex with another man, he does not want to watch but he wants me to tell him about it" What is this called? ... (40 words)

Paranoid about loose skin and having a sagging tummy after birth....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm about to give birth in a couple months and I am paranoid about loose skin and having a saggy tummy for the rest of my life. Most girls I know get permanent saggy bellies after giving birth yet there was one who has had three babies and yet looks as if she hasn't even had 1 ... (82 words)

Tight foreskin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So I have had the experience my whole life of a tight foreskin that won't retract over the head of my penis and it never really bothered me that much. Recently though I lost my virginity (with a condom) and during penetration the foreskin was forced to fully retract and it was ... (112 words)

What do I do? Drunkeness can make things so much worse!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my friend 'A' shopping in town after a catch-up over lunch. I had to go to the fancy dress shop as I needed to get a whistle for my costume for a night out at the weekend. When we came out, I saw this gorgeous guy and A admitted she knew him and that he went to her ... (460 words)

My friend's husband flirts with me and a mutual female friend is causing problems, should I just end the friendship alltogether?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age - I am a mixed race girl and I do not have many real friends and treasure the few that I do. A couple of days ago my married friend celebrated her 40th birthday with a party at home. She is white and married to a black guy with two children. I have children and am also in a... (404 words)

Am I getting myself into an affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi.. am 20 yrs old and I am in a relationship with a girl for about 2 yrs. Everything was very normal until another girl came into my life. I met her 6 months back and we became very close. My girlfriend kws about me and my friend. 2 days back my best friend proposed to me. I ... (227 words)

He's 16 years older than me. Is he sincere or using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old, and I work with a 34 year old man that's very forward about the way I make him feel. We've been good friends for a while, but all of the sudden he started giving me a lot of compliments out of the blue. Like how cute or amazing I was. And it caught me off ... (281 words)

Why does he get all weird when we talk in person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey y'all umm well I am 16 and I'm having problems with this boy right now. Typical blah blah. But I really like this kid and well he texts me and I asked him what his friends would think if he was talking to me. ' cause I know what my friends would think and he said it would " ... (148 words)

I'm dating a guy but want to try things out with a girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so i am a 18 year old in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for 10 months and were perfect together! but i have this yearning to be with a girl and try it out. i dont want to break up with him and i know he would not go for a three some because we have had issues with me ... (105 words)

His ex is constanting looming over our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - About a year ago I met a very nice and sweet guy who I have come to love very deeply. At the time he was in a relationship but he broke it off with her and we began to talk (it was a 1 year relationship)I fell in love with him but felt he still had issues with his ex because ... (595 words)

B/f doesn't know that I can get into his facebook and see him flirting with his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i really need some help please. so im dating my boyfriend for ten months now. we're both eighteen. well one of his ex's added him on facebook a few months ago. well now he goes on everyday and talks to her. he lies to me saying he's talking to others. how I know he's ... (178 words)

I slept with my husband's friend. I don't know what to do now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for six years to my husband and we have had problems in our marriage, i was starting to feel unsecure because everytime we fought he would threaten to leave. I started to get to know my husbands friend and felt he was attractive, one night i felt vulnerable ... (157 words)

I'm pregnant with triplets and found out through text messages that my fiance is planning on leaving me to be with my cousin. Do I confront him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well where do I start... Hmmm I know well let's start off by saying Im 20 years old and 5 months pregnant with triplets. Thats right 3 kids all at once. Don't get me wrong I am excited for my little ones to get here but.... I'm going through alot. The other day I was using my... (259 words)

Is he a player or hes just confused like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing a guy for three months now. We live in different ciuntry and he visits my country for business once or twice a month and stays for two weeks or so. I planed to keep things casual but I think Im getting attached to this guy a little. We are not officially b... (389 words)

He stood me up. I thought he only liked me as a friend. Did he think it was a date? I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I say "friend" because he's a guy that I used to work with, and we get along pretty well, but we've never actually done anything outside of work. I kind of have a crush on him, but I have no idea if he likes me. After this incident, I'm even more confused. Anyway, before h... (393 words)

Me, him, his baby and the baby momma

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship in my late teens with a man ten years older than me that i met on the internet. He was actually my first serious relationship even though it was on those circumstances. We had a pretty decent relationship no lies, no issues. The only real problem was the ... (429 words)

After 5 months, I still miss my ex and want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I need help, really bad! I split up with my ex 5 months ago, i was only with him for 4 months, but i guess i just fell for him really fast. I loved him to bits, i still love him now. I still wake up wishing he would speak to me, ask for me back. I know he never will but i ... (134 words)

Should I stay with mummy's boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm really struggling with this situation and could do with some advice. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 26. I love him dearly, but it seems he is a lot more concerned with worrying about and fussing over his mum than he is with building a future with me. His family oft... (793 words)

I'm not sure if I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with this guy for a little over 18 months and im not sure how i feel anymore. most of the time i feel like the boyfriend he never ends up having any time and has never even bought me flowers. But i honestly love him i just dont know if im in love with him... i dont ... (111 words)

Boyfriend will not have sex because I have a teenager in the house

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi my bf of 2 years, Steve, finds it difficult to relax and be intimate with me because my teenage son lives at home and rarely goes out. This got worse last year and our sex life decreased so much so that we havent had sex for six months now. I personally dont see it as a... (614 words)

Is she interested or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I recently ran into eachother and have started talking again. We broke up over 2 years ago. She split up with me because she thought I was seeing someone else, which I wasn't, and she thought I was a bit needy. Her insecurity made me think she wanted to be closer,... (298 words)

Can you have a 'mid-life crisis' at 19?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my friend going though a breakdown, or some sort of life crisis judging by her behaviour. She's only 19, turning 20 in four months but she's been acting really different! We already have active social lives, but now when she's out, she's more 'fun'. Of course before she ... (281 words)