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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'd rather view videos than be in a relationship. Is it wrong to love porn?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

21 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to love porn? Ive never really thought about it until the other night but porn makes me emotionally warm and happy . Ive never had a girlfriend nor have had sex but to be honest I would rather choose Videos over trying to be in relationship. It sounds shallow I ... (113 words)

I'm afraid my LDR boyfriend could be texting other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy i met online. We met a few times and we get on like a house on fire. The thing is because its happened me alot I'm afraid he might be texting other girls. like he said he isn't but look how he met me. he could've met a few girls ... (71 words)

If you invite your date to your house is that signaling you want sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age - does inviting your date into your house after the date mean you want to have sex? we meant on line, had 2 dates, where I met him there. i said he could pick me up for hte 3rd date. he seems kind of cheap and i suspect he may be dating other people as well. if i invite him... (71 words)

How do I stop being so jealous in my relationship, I'm afraid its going to break what we have

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, im having touble with my boyfriend. I dont know if im jelouse or i have trust issues, which he's never done anything to make me not trust him. Well anyways Im white/ and have cherakee indian in me and he's Puerto rican. He told me he never dated a white girl and never ... (357 words)

What do I chose? him? or my career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone i need some advise! Me and this guy really like eachother i've known him for 3 years and we have always had a soft spot for eachother. Three months ago I broke up with my boyfriend and now me an this guy ive know for 3 years are hanging out more often. The only ... (132 words)

I'm constantly bombarded with messages from him on facebook!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I started work at a local hardware store a couple of weeks ago as a part time job and have had some friend requests from my workmates of a similar age on facebook. I have accepted them, as they are all people I have had several conversations with and get on well with. Howeve... (180 words)

After dating 4 years I am so bored!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, So i am in need of advice! My boyfriend and i have been together for almost four years now. To get to the point here. I am bored!!!! Its a cnfusing situation tough because i do care for him dearly. The last time i tried breaking up with him he made me feel real... (142 words)

I'm so confused about his sexuality I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a live-in relationship for 5 yrs now I'm in my late 40's he is in his early 50's , about 2 yrs ago our sex life came to a stall , I tried everything to make it interesting and often put the moves on him , and was always turned down , about a yr ago I found out he ... (177 words)

My fiance stood me up at my work event. Is it reason to leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance stood me up at my work event. My job had this fund raising event; we decided that I should go in first since he was not going to be able to make it on time. My bf was supposed to meet me at the Event. When he arrives, I was having a conversation with an old ... (529 words)

Do I still like/love my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - there is this guy an ex boyfreind of mine. he got really hurt the other day and i was there it was scary i thought he was going to die he went to hospital.one day after that happened i made him a card and everyone signed it we were going to give it to him in hospital but he was ... (122 words)

Why does my ex try to get my attention when I'm with my b/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, recently ive had a double guy problem. I have this ex who I fell in love with but is kinda a jerk and comes and goes as he pleases and breaks my heart. This has happend 4 times already in the past year, he leaves then begs me to come back. Well lately I met someone else ... (161 words)

Should I consider going back to my ex after years apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I split over 10 years ago while I was pregnant. I wanted children but he was already a father and wasn't reliable so decided he would leave for mine and the babys sake. He went on with his life getting married etc and I with mine, finding someone else and having more ... (220 words)

I love him, He loves me, But my mom doesn't want him as my boyfriend !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this boy I've been talking to him since a year now. We really really love eachother so much ! We went through many things lately this year but we couldn't let eachother go! We always stood next to eachother and felt ourselves confident when we were hanging out! ... (161 words)

Why do women only want to do crazy things sexually with random people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

21 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - When i first met my GF, we weren't serious (or committed) and we had the best sex ever. Since we've gotten serious, and are now in a committed relationship, it seems the erotic, no-holds-barred type of sex has now gone out the window. We've never had a threesome before... (230 words)

What should I expect from a life as a a potential 'stepmum'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a simple question here, is it a good or wrong thing to be with someone who has 2 kids to a previous relasionship and what should I expect from a life as a a potential 'stepmum'? My bloke and I have been together 9 months, very much in love, he has 2 choldren ... (189 words)

Does he love me or is he leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I love this guy. I have a feeling that he likes me too. He messages and calls me every day. But he had a bad relationship previously and now he says he doesn't want to fall in love and get hurt again. but he also says he cares about me and calls me for hours at a time. he asks ... (118 words)

My 19 year old sister is planning on having sex with a 51 year old man she met on the internet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1085 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I will just admit it....I found my sister's email acct password and I snooped. So looking through everything I find all these messsages from a man she met online...theres a ton of them, it starts out with them basically getting to know each other and just getting closer and ... (255 words)

I want to meet but he's playing hard to get. Should I forget it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy online, we have been talking via text for about the last 6 weeks. I usually initiate the conversations. We chatted every day to start with now I tend to leave it to every few days. Our conversations are really good (fun and very slightly flirty) and we've got to ... (229 words)

My husband has filed for divorce and doesn't want to work things out. Should I just accept it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age - My husband of two years is in the process of divorcing me. I really don't want this to happen but he will not communicate with me any more. He said prior to him telling me that he was divorcing me that I was selfish and was always difficult putting myself first and that I have ... (293 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want kids right now. What should I think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF of 4 years told me that he does not want kids right now. It always seems to be a touchy subject. All he ever tells me is that he may want them in the future. A friend of mine recently had a baby and the topic came up. He told me that if i were to get pregnant now, he ... (121 words)

My friends make me feel like I'm the only one making an effort

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't have an acc so please check for anon updates without the followup alert because I really need some help. My best friend and I are having effort difficulties because I feel like its only me making a real effort. Don't get me wrong, when my best friend puts effort in too ... (281 words)

I'm lonely with no friends, no boyfriend no job. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Never felt so lonely. No good friend, no boyfriends, too many restrictions to have fun. Life's a mess. No money to spend to have fun. No job because you need to be 18 to get a job here. Need help. ... (40 words)

My parents are trying to arrange a marriage for me and I don't like the idea

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all agony aunts and uncles. I don't know if you will understand my problem but I seriously need some help. I am 25 (getting old, as it is said in our country). I am not into any steady relationship. There are a few guys but they are as good as not there. None of them is ... (259 words)

Not sure if she still feels the same about us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and this girl have been "talking" for about 4 months now. We met through friends around March 2011 and never really talked again at all or exchanged number until we exchanged numbers over Facebook and decided to go out to eat one day in July. Around October - November ... (660 words)

Is it better to be indifferent to others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hello everyone ^.^ ogenki-desu ka? lol let me stop My friend told me this "The less you give a damn, the more people will give a damn," Basically he was telling me that I should just stop caring about other people and do my own thing sometimes, because if I do that, e... (317 words)

My boyfriend chose to move away. Is there any way he will change his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (?) age 30-35 - "I'm in love with an amazing person, a person that has made me happier than anyone ever has, in such little time, and only by being herself. I thought i couldn't love a person more than my first love, but this is so different, to be emotionally and physically connected on the ... (203 words)

Could my boyfriend return to the man he was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - okay here one i think everyone has heard, but I think phycological i need to hear the answer. My boyfriend of two years is distant. he says it is cause of my nagging him to make plans or for us to work together on this relationship. Well he no longer date me, takes for granted,... (212 words)

I found someone I could open up to but think I ruined our chance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - so i've got a bit an issue when it comes to committment and opening myself up. in fact, a bit is a drastic understatement. i'm really good at having short-term, meaningless strings of relationships. and if i find someone who remotely interests me, i push them away, or i kind of ... (678 words)

My wife says I need to calm down but sex is always on my mind!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

21 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently turned 46 and have had alot of sex on my mind. not only the act, but pics and videos to help me get off. My wife says Im too horny and need to calm down but I cant help it. I even watch porn with a buddy of mine to relieve the tention but I feel like that worked me ... (110 words)

How difficult is it living with someone who is unemployed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is an older guy who really likes me and I really like him. We are waiting until I turn 18 of course. Unfortunately he is now unemployed, If things should work out, I am wondering what I'm really going to be up against if he still has no job. Does anyone here have an ... (89 words)

Why is he so upset I won't move in with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I will try to be brief... This guy I have been seeing for a couple months is moving to another city about three hours away. He has been stressing and trying to discuss what to do about seeing each other for awhile since he told me about this, and I had privately decide... (682 words)

How do I meet people like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - im a boy-not gay(upto now at least!) but i really want to be forced to act/dress as a pretty girl(not become a real girl) but i dont know how to meet and chat with like minded people?-i dont want to meet anyone,till ive got to know them first,what should i do?... (57 words)

I broke up with my ex because he's clingy. Should I leave it at that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend like two days ago , because he's very clingy . I Love him alot , but sometimes i feel like i need my space . Nobody wants to see me with him , but i care about him alot . There's another a guy in the picture that i do like a little but nothing close ... (87 words)

Why does he always let me contact him first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I ended a 2 month 'relationship' three weeks ago coz the guy didnt know if he wanted one or not. We didnt talk to start with as i was hurt by it even though i ended it. But in last two weeks we have been talking near enough everyday. The only thing is- even though he always ... (80 words)