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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think I'm in love with my first love again and I want to make it official with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Wow, it's been over a year since I last visited this site but I definitely need you guys to help me out here. I'll probably be waffling so I apologise. If anybody remembers my last question 13 months ago roughly, I had a horrible post break up experience with my ex. She ended... (1157 words)

My husband is a control freak and abusive but I love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for two years now. My husband is a very controlling man and extremely domineering. He becomes jelous or angry at me for the most absurd reasons such as me hanging the clothes out to dry when his brother is in the backyard. (his brother said hi to me in a ... (652 words)

I'm leaving my husband for having an affair and the strip clubs and partying. How do I explain to my children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have decided to leave my husband of 22 years due to his recent affair, visiting strip clubs and partying at bars. I have two children ages 19 and 17. They have no idea what their father has done. How do I tell them we are divorcing without me being made out as the bad guy? ... (87 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend acknowledge our relationship on his Facebook wall?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now I decided to change relationship status on facebook and tagged him to say its him I'm dating but even though he changed to say his in a relationship he has ignored my request.he also has deleted the post of his wall for people ... (100 words)

I want to be FWB but he's pulling away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy have been friends for a few months and after I left my most recent bf he wanted to hang out. I was hurt and upset and we had sex. After the first time he was super sweet and text me constantly. We went out for his brithday and had sex again that night. I made ... (90 words)

I am in love with someone I work with and can't get over him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel a bit stupid writing this at all, even if it is anonymous, but the thing is I am going crazy, and it is starting to make me unhappy. I don't really know where to begin, but basically I am in love with someone I work with. I have been working there just over a year a... (307 words)

A beautiful girl cares about me but I am not ready for a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. How do I say goodbye to a BEAUTIFUL girl? She has everything going for her but I am not ready for relationship with her. I want a no strings relationship and I am getting that with this other girl right now. My friend told me she is hurt that I feel this way because... (137 words)

I want a job in the arts, office work doesn't agree with me! Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I left high school with a double a level in art and design but now I'm looking for a job art is laughed at. I've been to connections and the job centre and told them that my first choice of job would be belly dance as I've done it for over 5 years and my second choice would be ... (164 words)

Everything was perfect until yesterday, today he brushed me off and I haven't spoken to him since!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for the past 1 year and 3 months. Everything was fine and perfect yesterday. Today when i saw him, he seemed so distant. We usually always spend the whole day together, but today he brushed me off and basically implied he didn't want me to stay with ... (77 words)

Am I allowed to tell him I don't trust him on his holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't trust my boyfriend to go on a lads holiday with his 2 mates (one who is single and the other who is taken but has the mind of a single boy) because my boyfriend lied to me and cheated on me 2 years ago (hasn't done anything since). Am I allowed to tell him this or do I ... (74 words)

Will I ever love so strongly again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I was doing so well. Not thinking about her as much as I used to. Not remembering the happy times we spent together. I tried my hardest to blot out all of the memories from the best parts of my past. I kept myself active. I worked out, ate healthy and faked happiness when I was ... (410 words)

He has told me he is sad I'm leaving, so why isn't he making the most of my last weeks here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently been in a very confusing relationship with a guy and although i know it is over, i am struggling to come to terms with it. I moved to the other side of the world to be with him and after a few months it was obvious we couldn't make each other happy. But we ... (463 words)

Has anyone felt like they are under a dark cloud? I need some light at the end of the tunnel!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello to who is reading this. All I can say is I'm just wanting to know if anyone is going through or has gone through this. I feel like I'm under a serious dark cloud right now, I'm NOT one to feel sorry for myself which I don't, but right now things are a total and utter ... (245 words)

Hungarian girl wanted me to 'sign documents' for her, I said no and she hasn't spoken to me since!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I went for a drink with a Hungarian girl a couple of weeks ago, we went out, had a good time, I walked her back to her flat. We chat on Facebook Chat, everything was going well, until yesterday, when I got a Chat message asking if I could sign documents. I smelled a bit of... (125 words)

I know its over between us, I just cant comprehend that it happened in such a rude and immature way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a very nice and funny guy in a dating site. He's not handsome, but he seemed as a very good person, we talked a lot, almost every day. We live in different countries and he said he will come to my country to meet me, we arranged the date and everything. He introduced me ... (462 words)

Had web cam sex with a girl I've just met.....is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I just met this girl (last few days). Last night we were on skype video chatting, and one thing led to another and we ended up having mutual masturbation, cam sex or whatever you want to call it. Now I kinda regret doing it, I have never had sex so I don't know what one-ni... (82 words)

How do I become more confident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in my last year of school. deep down, I know I can be a confident person. I want to be a confident person from the great deal of positive affirmation I've recieved from others. I have not found being confident with people easy for the most part to be able to show peo... (319 words)

My relationship seems to be coming to an end, but there is a new guy at work complicating things! What should I do so this doesn't end up becoming a huge mess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help. Last February, I was assigned to this high level project at work. I met a young executive from another company who's one of the prime movers of the project. Since the start, we share the same energy and outlook. We seem to have this strong chemistry between us that ... (754 words)

I'm in love with my ex's brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I fell in love with my ex boyfriend's brother. We became good friends while I was with his brother. I broke off with his brother about two years ago because he has a really difficult and selfish character. Even though it was hard for him when I left, we ended up in good terms. ... (423 words)

I want to get married to this man someday, but to stand at the alter with the man who used to abuse me standing by his side, is unthinkable!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I love the man I am with, unfortunately his best friend is an ex of mine, an abusive ex. His argument is that they have been friends longer than I have known him and that everyone makes mistakes. He is a godly man and believes we need to forgive one another. I have forgiven ... (174 words)

How do I handle the fears of my girlfriend that I will get hurt climbing to the summit? It is my dream to do this climb

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so next year, I am scheduled to climb to the summit of Mt Everest, the worlds tallest mountain. This has been my dream ever since I was a little boy. I am taking up a particular route to the summit. Yesterday I was watching a video of an area one path to the summit, ... (209 words)

I cannot get over the girl I was once in love with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I was once in love with this girl. A girl I never got a chance to date but I swear I was in love. 3 years later I havent heard or talked to her I have had gf since but to this day I cannot get over her. No matter how hard I try the thoughts of her, the desire to be with her ... (147 words)

He's a great guy but I'm not sure he is the one.....do I only feel like this because I don't have any previous relationships to compare this to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is my boyfriend not the one for me? Or do I just not see it because I have no previous relationship experience and therefore no one to compare him to? I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we live together. Ever since we moved in I’ve been getting this fee... (445 words)

How do I move on from my married lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been seeing a guy for 5 months and we had a fight thru text messaging. The guy is married and I am married but separated. One day I was upset with a family issue and after he had not call that morning which he normally does, I sent him a text saying what's up. He ... (263 words)

Crush on the guy at the grocery store, what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so a few weeks ago I went to a grocery store that I don't go to often, but I am really glad that I did. Because there I saw the most greatest looking guy working there. I went to the bathroom and on my way there, he smiled and said hi to me. Then after I got done getting ... (257 words)

Should I allow my 75 year old boss to seduce me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33. I just got in a new job where my boss is 75 up...After few days i felt that he is trying to seduce me. He is physically very active even at ths stage of life. he takes vitamins only. Please advice what to do...should I go for it ....or stop...to leave the job is... (87 words)

How can I make sure I last longer than 5 seconds when we do have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this new girl for about a month now. She is super amazing, sweet, kind, funny and the hottest girl I have ever dated and I REALLY like her. We are taking things slow because her last relationship ended badly and I didnt want to pressure her. Two nights ago we ... (147 words)

How do I build a relationship with my mom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i feel like my mom and i have no relationship what so ever! i feel like there is nothing i can talk to her about!! i've tried sitting down with her, tried writing her letters, i've even tried facebook messaging her, but nothing seems to change!! i've almost had it with her, but ... (84 words)

How much are we responsible about the bad things in our life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age - What do you think, how much are we responsible about the bad things in our life? I feel ,I tried my best regarding to raising kids,and marriage, and my health. But in almost every of those areas, I had tragic outcome. Including death of a child from drugs. Also there are ... (168 words)

How do I use kegel exercises?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've read that kegel exercises during sex can help reaching vaginal orgasm. I know what kegels are but I'm wondering how i should practice while I'm having sex. Should I squeeze and try to hold it for as long as i can and then release or should I squeeze and release, squeeze ... (127 words)

B/f proposed to me but I'm unsure since he seems addicted to porn

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf of 2.5yrs has asked me to marry him. I know most women would be absolutely giddy with happiness, yet I told him that I needed to think about it. Earlier in the year I walked in on him jacking off to porn. When we first started dating he told me that he found porn ... (210 words)

Is there anything I can do to regain my sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I currently got myself into a situation that I dont know what to do about. Im 23years old and I find myself to be a bi-curous (or at least I like to think that), however truth be told probably more gay then bi. Up till a few days ago I was still a virgin in all aspects of... (307 words)

Would you date someone who has done porn?

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

24 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going to do a photo shoot in a few weeks...a photo shoot for a pornographic magazine and website. My closest friends, the only ones who know about it, have said that it may affect future relationships that I have. But is that really true? No need to talk me out of it, an... (77 words)

I need help to save my marriage!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

24 April 2012 (M)

- Hi, I need help to save my marriage. I've been happily married for just under 4 years and with my partner for a total of 6 years and I have been terrible to her and caused her some god awful pain, pain she does not need as she is heavily pregnant with our second child. ... (447 words)

Spoke to online date on the phone - he sounds effeminate!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) age - I met someone online and we seem to have alot in common - we both think each other is attractive and I have given him my number to call me. He has called but his voice sounds effeminate! I don't know what to think. I have gay friends and I know plenty of people who are... (88 words)