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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He stares at me but I'm too shy to find out if that means he's interested!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

27 April 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I need some help and would greatly appreciate any advice you have to offer. There's this guy that I work with who stares at me. At first I thought it was in my head, but when I look away and then look back, he's still staring. The thing is, I've tried tal... (266 words)

Guilt over cheating on my gf with my best girl friend has led to me breaking up with my best friend. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years and told her and we have since broken up. I cheated on her with my best girl friend (the ex-gf and bf don't really know each other). I feel so guilty about cheating on my ex and have now broken things off with my best friend meaning losing ... (74 words)

Boyfriend liking/saving sexy pictures of exes and attractive female friends, how to overcome my jealousy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know my plight is not as dire as some and I should consider myself lucky its not worse. I just want to know how to get over my anger and jealousy so we dont have to fight about it anymore! My boyfriend of nearly 6 years (hes in his early thirties so he SHOULD act matur... (327 words)

My girlfriend had violent ex and she slapped me last night. Is she into that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a wonderful girlfriend- we get along super well and even though we have disagrements, we never fight and have a great chemistry. A few years ago, she came out of a bad relationship where the guy she was with would insult her, call her 'stupid', a 'whore'- that so... (397 words)

He's too old for me do I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age - I've divorced my husband after 20 together. I wasnt happy in my marriage for a long time. I've met this man while I was divorcing my husband. He is 16 years my senior. He is helpful during my divorce. Two years on I find him too old for me but I still sexually attracted to ... (88 words)

Advice for 2 friends who are having an affair with the same man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Advise on possibility of two close ladies friends to have full love affair with same person. Bearing in mind their minds that the same man have seduced both of them before and they kmow.... (36 words)

Should I not make a big deal out of what is on his facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been on-again-off-again with for a little over a year now. i love him more than i've ever loved anybody, and he never hesitates to tell me that he loves me, too. there have been a lot of times when things have been absolutely wonde... (709 words)

What are the signs a guy loves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - what are the sign that a boy loves you ...... (10 words)

Is it normal to talk constantly to someone you're not interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted on here some time last week but didn't get any responses, so I'm going to try one more time. Maybe my question was too vague. I met this girl off a dating web site about a month and a half ago. She lives a good bit from me. A handful of hours. So it wasn't conducive... (460 words)

I'm in a relationship but in love with my chiropractor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 24 and I've been In a serious relationship for 3years with a 1 year old daughter. I love my fiancé but I'm no longer In love but I wouldn't leave him. The last 3 months I been have real strong feeling for my chiroprator...i think about him in every aspect of my life ... (113 words)

I'm so hurt! B/f broke up with me by text from a phone I can't text or call back on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend dumped me today and i am devastated!. I haven't stopped crying all day. He dumped me by a text message. It was very abrupt, and he didn't give an explanation. He didn't even dump me from his own phone. It was from a BT payphone. I haven't seen those before, but ... (732 words)

My friend is dating my ex. I want to hate her but I miss her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of months back, one of my friends decided she wanted to be with my ex boyfriend as she had strong feelings for him (which i knew nothing about until it was too late) He and I had only just decided that we weren't going to stay in touch and within a week they were i... (228 words)

This jerk is dating behind my back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy that I am seeing is on a dating site. A friend found it and showed me. I Hate him so much for leading me on. He dosent know I know that he on a dating site.I thought it was old but he just logged in hours before so I know he uses it. My friend set him up to see if he ... (179 words)

Over three years and I still can't get her out of my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

27 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, right this is an ongoing thing really, about 3-4 years ago a long relationship of 5 years ended pretty bad. We hadn't been talking for about 3 months because I locked my self away because I didn't feel I could give her what she deserved. Anyway I went. Around to her new ... (231 words)

Is it normal to be this confused in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try to make this as short as I can. I used to serial date like the best of them, I would go out with a guy for about a week, we'd sleep together and then I'd never speak to them again. I just started seeing this guy who's in the army and lo and behold we had sex, that also ... (291 words)

I don't know if my b/f loves me as much as I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My bf and I love each other. But I'm starting to doubt his love for me. The other day we were watching a movie and the guy saved his life by cutting off his hand and he still got married and had kids. I asked him if someday I lose a part of my body will he still love me... (157 words)

How do I show my boss that I'm not going to go after him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have done a stupid thing. I have worked at my place as a secretary for 2 months. My boss is a really nice and patient guy but very sucessful (a rare combo). Anyways in my previous employment my boss bullied me and took away my confidence in my abilities, so t... (429 words)

Did my ex want me to kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 16 year old female. My ex-girlfriend is going out with my ex-best friend at the moment. The thing is that I am in love with her and she knows it. Her girl friend does not want her talking to me but she does anyway because she says she feels like she needs to talk ... (268 words)

Our sex life is a shambles

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I'm 20 and he's 23. In all other respects our relationship is great but it's just the sex life that is a mess. I'll give you a bit of background on our sex lives before we were together. I lost my virginity when I... (732 words)

After 18 years of marriage my husband told me about wanting a divorce through a solicitor and wont speak to me at all! How do I get through this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - After 18 years of marriage and just 2 days before my 40th birthday I get an email from a solicitor to say my husband wants a divorce while I was away. We have had a rocky marriage for several years and I had gone away on a holiday, to encompass my birthday, in which i was ... (275 words)

Boyfriend is going on holiday with his ex wife and kids, should I just accept it or should I say something?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 996 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Iv been dating a guy since January and he has just told me that at the end of may he will be going on holiday for a week to Tenerife with his ex wife and their two children. He says it's just to make the children happy but I still feel jealous and insecure about the situation. ... (78 words)

Why do men only ever approach me for casual sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm 21 and have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been truly asked out or taken out on a date. I've had sex and guys pursue me with only this reason in mind it seems. I'm not a whore though and don't sleep with anyone/everyone. I know I'm n... (174 words)

Are all women paranoid, especially when they are in a LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - do all women get paronoid, thats what my boyfriend of nearly 3 years called me last night on the net, which upset me, but hes right, its LDR and we are due to move in together soon cause the distance is getting to us a bit more now, been loyal honest and commited from day one ... (410 words)

She said once we were married the sex would get better, but here I am a year later and she still does not want sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

27 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married for about a year, and my wife only wants to have sex about once a week (if that). She has had minimal interest in sex since we first started seeing each other about three years ago. She has said she's just not that interested in sex anymore (she's 34), but ... (437 words)

My girlfriend wants me to move in with her, should I do it when we cant really afford it and I'm not ready?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for like a year and a half. I go to school and work and i try my best to make time for her. I'm not the perfect man and i've been told by her that i'm not the best listener and i understand that. When we where dating for like 8moths, she wanted me ... (702 words)

Can anyone share any success stories after having IVF?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old and have been with my partner for 3 years he is also 28. We have been trying for a baby for over 1 year now and have just been told that my partner has a low sperm count and we will need help to have our baby. We are going to have ivf, with icsi, has anyone ... (111 words)

We are not struggling financially but he threatened to divorce me over spending $10!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've fallen ill lately, and I'm not just talking about the flu or something like that. I had a major surgery that came with the possibility of death. It's now been about a year, and I've been on bed rest for about 6 months after my surgery and now only have driving ... (316 words)

Any ideas for reducing swelling after kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm going to get to the point. Me and my boyfriend like to be a tad rough when we kiss, so it's to be expected for me to have clown lips within a few minutes of making out. Does anyone know anything to make the swelling go down? I would love to look normal the next day. ... (59 words)

Is she just being friendly, or is she trying to hint at something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

27 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There was this girl in my classes (both lecture and lab), well, from what I know there's not really a strong vibe between us (from my end anyway). We sat across from each other in our group of 4 in lab (I'm the only guy in the group by the way). In the past 2-3 weeks, she's... (167 words)

Should I keep doing No Contact and wait for him to contact me first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (or ex) and I have been together on/off for over 2 years. We are both in our mid 20s. Our relationship is serious that we actually talked about our future togehter like getting married etc.. Everything was okay until a few months ago, he started to be a little d... (302 words)

Why is my past coming back to me now when it all happened when I was so young?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - K, this is going to get a little personal.. But I have been feeling like my past has come back to haunt me, the last while.. I am a teenager, so I am kind of hormonal, soo I don't know if I am over exaggerating or what? So last night I had a crazy dream, LIKE crazy.. ... (654 words)

Is this hard demeanor just a front because he still has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently started hanging out with my ex-boyfriend. We had not seen each other in over 10 years. We dated and lived together for 4 years and I left him because we both were hot heads, young, immature and did not know how to compromise and make a relationship ... (399 words)

Afraid to tell my parents that we're getting married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I am 20 and my now fiance is 23, so we're pretty young, but we are so excited to get married! My only problem is that I am EXTREMELY nervous to tell my parents. We want to tell everyone and get the plans going (we want to get married next summer), but I have this ... (174 words)

I'm falling for my ex again, but she's not giving me any assurances

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My problem is getting back with an ex. We broke up about 2 months ago, after a nearly all that time waiting for her I started to move on but then she suddenly wanted me back. I happily said yes as we never broke up for any decent reason, I still really love bein... (240 words)

I'm curious about how others would describe the way it feels when their significant other touches them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I'm curious about how others would describe the way it feels when their significant other touches them. :) I know when my girlfriend touches me, it's almost indescribable--she'll stroke my back, shoulders, arms, hands etc., sometimes really lightly to drive me crazy, or if sh... (144 words)

Was I being a pushover by agreeing to my friend's demands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had my best friend for about 5 years. He's a dude and I'm a chick but we have a really siblingish friendship, we're the same age and we often tell each other everything. But recently he's been kind of selfish and insensitive. I'm an artist, I like to paint and I pl... (447 words)

I didn't trust him and tested him and now I've lost him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friend, I feel quite sad in this two weeks, Iam craying every single moment , guess why!! It.s have been 5 months that I am in relationship with a lovely man, I think now clearly I am in love with him, but In last two weeks I think I made a big mistake, while I was spea... (358 words)

What is going on with my kinda sorta friend and nearly prom date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Prom is in a couple months. My principal likes to playfully set up single students so without permission from either of us, he asked my kinda sorta friend and I if we'd like to go to prom together. And I was just like okay sure, we can go as friends, and he said okay too... (367 words)

Am I normal? I don't look like other women!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hi there, i dont men to be crude or nasty but i have some questions the average human growth and development book wont answer. i been around various women while we change in the locker and i see them naked. i notice that 99% have a vagina that hides there clitoris. i of course ... (114 words)

Please help, I feel disgusted.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I feel ashamed of myself after masturbating over webcam to my friend, I found it a buzz at first, but now I feel sick of myself and hate myself for doing it. Is it normal to feel this way? Is it even normal to do it in your mid teens? I can't look him in the eye anymore, and ... (82 words)

Why did my father-in-law have no empathy when I revealed the extent of his son's infidelities?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I was wondering if anyone could give me some insight or thoughts on the reaction of my in-laws (particularly father-in-law)when I revealed to them, when I was extremely upset, about the extent of their son's (my husband), cheating on me over a 6 year period with different women ... (418 words)

Incompatible conflict styles? He's avoidant, I'm confrontational. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My live-in boyfriend and I (been together for a few years) had a huge argument last night that started right before we went to sleep. He's very much the conflict-avoidant person whereas I like to talk about the issue until it is resolved. He told me that he needed t... (345 words)

I want a healthy relationship with both my mom and my bf, but I feel like I have to choose.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

27 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Insight from my fellow Asian American ladies would be most helpful but insight from anyone would be great! I'm 21 and my mom is very overbearing. I mentioned my Asian American ethnicity because Asian parents often control their kids much more than traditional Amer... (679 words)