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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I divorce my husband? How would you feel about this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm new to the site. I would like to see what others think of my situation. My husband does not come home to me from work. He goes to his parent's every single night for 2-3 hours after work. Yes that is Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. It's nearing ... (482 words)

I'm having a major hang up around my boyfriend's close friend who is a girl.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a major hang up around my boyfriend's close friend who is a girl. My bf has many girls as friends and I don't have any issues with any one of them except this one. I think it's important to understand their past to answer this question. They've known each other... (509 words)

Should I tell him about my religion if he asks me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this one guy that really likes me, but I'm nervous about him finding out about my religion. I'm not saying I would date someone who would let something like that get in the way of things or bother him. I still can't rid of the butterflies though. I'm a Wiccan. There's ... (123 words)

I have a boring sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I lost my virginity at age 19 with my first real relationship. We only had sex a couple of time during the 8mnths of our relationship. I never had a "real" orgasim! It's kind of embarrassing to tell but it is the honest truth. The only way that i can climax is wh... (133 words)

My boyfriend thinks I still have a thing for my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 40-something woman dating a 40-something man for over a year. I have been divorced for 6 years and have done a little dating, but have only had one serious relationship before my current boyfriend. I met my ex husband just after high school and we dated for 5 years and ... (943 words)

What to do after been treated like this by this player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ironically I've always tried to avoid these type of losers but I ended up falling for one who made his work rather well in making me fall in love with him. He has now discarded me for another one and he has even told in my face he never liked me but wanted the fun and that now ... (273 words)

Has my boss noticed that I'm attracted to him and repulsed by me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married (unhappily) and have been working in a new place for about 4 months now. My boss is also married and is the same age as me. Things between us were going great. In terms of work he defends me to others, favours me, buys me little work things, is happy to give me ... (257 words)

Why do wives cheat on their husbands?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

20 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do wives cheat on their husbands? Can any of you who have cheated enlighten me? What are the reasons you cheated? Was there anything your husband could have done that would have made it so you would not have cheated? Thanks... (48 words)

Two girls, changing opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Two questions here. I am friends with this girl, we have been hanging pretty much exclusively at uni, so much that people thing we are a couple. I'm not really attracted to her, but today she was all happy about this guy who likes her, and I felt so jealous and I don't kn... (125 words)

What exercises can I do after foot surgery?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been a bit self concious in reguards to my wieght, even more so since i had children. I gained nearly 60lbs with my first, and thankfully only ten with my second that came off when i had him. I then did atkins and lost 30lbs but gained fifteen back when i stopped. ... (135 words)

I'm really unexperienced , I give off a friendly vibe and I cant pick up on signals, what does he think of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I'm quite inexperienced with dating etc. I met this guy through a friend today, we hadn't actually seen each other before, but we did for the 1st time last Tuesday. But we had been talking everyday for 4 weeks before that and had spoken on the phone multiple t... (1127 words)

How can you feel more relaxed on a first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I get really nervous on a first date and there fore lose my appetite. I feel so nervous that I don't eat a lot. Problem is that guys jump to conclusions about this. To complicate things I had a wisdom tooth cut out of my mouth recently. So it hurts when I drink.... (53 words)

Is he becoming more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a crush on a PT at the gym for a while now, i know that he is single because he told me. every time he sees me he smiles we talk and he always kisses me on the cheek, could this be a sign that he may like me, i get really nervous when i see him. should I just tel... (72 words)

Heart Vs. Brain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please tell me what should I do. I don’t really know what decision i should take since my heart and brain are battling. I have been dating with this guy for 2years. Then situations got really hard that we constantly fight. I always beg for his effort because seems like he’s not ... (369 words)

Problem with girlfriend's past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

20 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the issue. I am 18 and my girlfriend is 24, about to be 25. We met on a joke app (Funny Jokes) and found out we lived a couple hours away so we just started texting each other. Then we started Skyping and added each other on Facebook. And before you know it, we were ... (767 words)

He's stopped going down on me! What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there! I've been with my fiancé for a year now and we will get married in the Fall. I love him deeply and so does he. One little thing is bothering me though... at the beginning of our relationship he went down on me a lot and then he stopped. Yesterday I told him I really ... (129 words)

It seems someone has set up a profile on a dating site pretending to be me! Why would someone do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! I had something really odd happen recently, and would like some opinions on it. Basically, I woke up about a week ago to a text from a guy saying he was responding to a message I sent him on a dating site. I was very confused, because I haven't used a dating site in years. ... (637 words)

Can we really live happily ever after when we are so different?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering can two people who are so different stay together and get things working? Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 years. We are from different upbringing (his parents happily married for 30 years, mine fought for 20 years and divorced for 20 years), differen... (384 words)

We have been dating for over a year but still no sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm 24 and have been dating a man that is older than me, he is 40. He is the best guy any girl can have we have a really great connection. We have been dating for a little over a year now but we havent made it "official" we don't believe in titles because we know what we ... (144 words)

In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just to get it out of your system? ... (142 words)

Still sleeping with my FWB when I have an amazing guy waiting for me....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The man I love (M) lives across the country from me. We have decided that when I move back we will be together but it's really hard for me to cut the ties I have here. I was with M for 1 1/2 before I move and we were on good terms when I left. He understood I had to go and live ... (238 words)

My girlfriend will not marry me because I am not a born again Christian

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 April 2012 (M)

age - My girlfriend will not marry me because I am not a " Born Again " Christian, I am Jewish and we both are not even remotely considering more children since we have already raised our chidren. Also relevant to this statement is my age at 60 and she is 47 with her last two chi... (79 words)

What did I do wrong? How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been together for 3 years. We are currently in a long distance relationship. This past weekend, my bf came to visit. As we walked into my dorm, we both noticed a girl staring at him for a long time. After a few minutes she finally said hel... (281 words)

Guys, what are the general meanings behind the words hot, sexy, beautiful, cute and pretty and gorgeous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay this is a question For the guys mainly. what are the general meanings behind the words hot, sexy, beautiful, cute and pretty and gorgeous? I thought hit and sexy always meant the same thing. But i got called hot and sexy by a guy recently so how imp confused? What do u ... (116 words)

Should I cry and beg after a breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I always go full NC and don't break NC. I always do the right thing yet it never makes remotely any difference at all. So should the next time I go through a breakup, should I cry and beg. Maybe then I'll get considered for a recon?... (47 words)

Boyfriend only lasts 5 minutes!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is 14yrs older. I notice now that I dont get more thsn 5 mins of sex with him. He lasted longer before. I dont know why. I just want an orgasm too. But I never get it.... (39 words)

Is it right to change who you are in the search for a partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

20 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I often feel very alone and have this need, almost, to have a girlfriend, someone I can listen and talk to and feel completely immersed in conversation without being just friends. A thought occured to me this evening, I don't have to be anyone but me to find this person but ... (473 words)

I still can't get over his indiscretion of 3 years ago! What can I do without professional help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - To cut the long story short, me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years now. When we first went out, I found out he spoke to his ex behind my back saying sexual things to her. I was absolutely mortified by this, it made me very ill at the time. He told me he didn't mean it ... (237 words)

My boyfriend has started gambling again - should I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months roughly. We are very happy together and I love him a lot, and I hope to be with him in the long-term. However, a few months ago, he told me he used to have a gambling problem - in his first year of uni he lost all his money be... (245 words)

How do I form a relationship with my girlfriend's overbearing, over protective father when he wants nothing to do with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone, I recently started going out with a girl I really like. For the first time I feel like being a nice guy has paid off as she really seems perfect in every way. However, the only thing wrong is that she has an extremely overbearing and protective father. I've dea... (302 words)

Why am I physically affectionate with people who don't mean that much to me but can't be the same flirty affectionate with my best friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a seventeen year old guy and my best friend is a sixteen year old girl who I get on with better than I do with my own family. We are really close; I trust her with pretty much everything - to be honest I'd rather live with her than with my own family[!!] I love her like a ... (269 words)

Ex's bad memories, moving on, but wondering if I should still see my ex-stepdaughter and her family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - my drunk ex husband had been married and divorced when I met him, he had 2 kids who lived with his ex and came to stay with us every weekend. I have one child with him. I left him after 3 years of marriage as he was a nasty alcoholic and who was abusive. His new girl friend ... (974 words)

My friend is not making a move on me because I am still married. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so stuck. I am separated but not yet divorced. Me and this man have become good friends and I know he feels the same but he has not made any moves because I am still married. I have not loved my husband for a long time and am ready to move on but he does not want to... (271 words)