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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I am so in love with a guy I have known as hi friends for 4 years.We have been flirting more and more and well, now we even joke about him being my long awaited guy. But he tells me for him, sex is an important part of the relationship and he definitely will need it. He knows I am a virgin, and that I am inexperienced. My gut feeling tells me he truly likes and respects me...from the way he treats me when we go to lunch...pulls the chair for me, cleans it, pulls it closer to him..stuff like that. But I am scared I may not be his true girl since he is from a totally different league. I recently told him how I dreamt of him and he told me..I just need to get laid then the dreams will go. I told him I already found my guy who just needs to realise who his true one is..then we will have sex in marriage. he just laughed but told me for him sex in a relationship is important. But Since I dreamt of him, he keeps asking how my dreams are going? Today (after 1 week of not seeing each other physically..we always chat on FB)we had breakfast together and he asked me the same. He even asked me if my dream was coming true and the guy has started realising. I laughed..but I noticed he was shy! He could not keep eye contact for long and acted slowish! This guy is one of the loudest and projects massive confidence whenever he talks but today, I just felt he was not himself. I felt awkward but waited for him to finish his breakfast..then left. I paid for his breakfast and said bye. My question is ..could he be realising and reciprocating my feelings or is he just enjoying the attention? Thanks.
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reader, boo22  +, writes (30 April 2012):
 Yes, he might be realising his feelings or he could be enjoying the ego boost. Or he could be feeling both.
It's too early to tell... just enjoy it xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2012): Sorry, but I think he views you as just a friend, and not in a romantic way. He knows you like him and maybe he's flattered but he's not interested in taking things further than friendship.
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