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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

There's a lot at stake, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my husband for 7 years (no kids). I was brought up strictly: no boyfriends, no socialising, even friends were a no no. Life was miserable. I left uni and managed to get a job in another city and started having a life. Despite living away, my parents ... (484 words)

I talk too much for her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (M)

age - I am having a really hard time effectively communicating with my fiance. The chief complaint is that I am too long winded and I am constantly speaking about the negative things I see around me. We used to talk for hours(mostly me ) when we got together 9/13/2010. I talk abou... (153 words)

Mixed Messages

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So...as these questions always start, there is this guy...he is a couple of years older than me, and I think he fancies me as much as I fancy him, however I am just not sure. I am 21, have never had a boyfriend, let alone been on a date, and I have no clue about these thin... (670 words)

I'm 23 and my parents control my life

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,mine is going to be a pretty long story so please be patient and kind enouf to read it I am 23 years old,and in my final year of med school,throughout my life I have been controlled by my parents,not that they hit me or anything they give me what I want,when I want..bu... (239 words)

Can I change her bad ways by loving her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

29 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Right so i have known this girl and i've dated her on and off. i feel an intense attraction towards her. She's a gorgeous lass but Problem is, she has a terrible family background and as a result has led quite a wayward life. She hasn't been able to be faithful to any man and ... (214 words)

I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I think he might be cheat on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - When I started a new job last June, I started a relationship with a man at work. Not the best timing since he was just at the beginning of ending his 12 year marriage. That being said, I guess I'm worried now. I've heard rumors of him cheating, and found text messages on his ... (177 words)

My Facebook friend is very secretive. Should I cut him loose?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy through a facebook friend almost two years ago. We talk only through emails and text. I can say I fell for this man but now I want to let him go but everytime I try, I keep going back. When we first start emailing each other he seem like the perfect man. I asked ... (211 words)

Is he for real or just messing with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age - I talk to this man for several years an he would send me little things little good morning here your coffee a flower or just some little something .we keep talkinf an found out we he use to live in same town that i do an know the same people .so we meet an an hit it off right ... (280 words)

How do I see this boy but not upset my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - The thing is there's this boy, I met him at my friends house about a month ago. Around 5 or 6 weeks ago he got with my friend and they did things together, but after a while he decided he didn't want to see her anymore. As her friend I know she had feelings for him but she ... (136 words)

B/f just lost his job. How can I help him through this tough time without really getting on his nerves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age - I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend of over 9 years just lost his job last week. He just told me on Thursday. I am in shock since that day and I can't believe it. He is 52 and it is not easy to find a new job in the current economy anyways. I am very worried ... (237 words)

He sent dirty texts to my bestfriend,should I give him another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months split up 2days ago. The other day which was my 3yr old sisters bday my friend (used to be best friends but kinds drifted apart because shes been seeing married men). Was calling me sayin she has somthing to tell me i ignored her cause i coul... (531 words)

I need help coming out to my mother, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

29 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - i need help coming out to my mother. i dont have a father and my mother is everything to me. i have thought of one day getting angry at something and in my state of anger just come out because then i wouldnt need to think too much and i wont worry about the consequences but i ... (69 words)

I get called a teacher's pet at school but I only do this because I appreciate my teacher! What shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My English teacher is one of the top 3 in my life and I am her little pet. I give her multiple presents and cards and I am always complimenting her on the way she teaches. I bring her candy everyday and I make sure she's always having a good day. I over achieve and do 1000X ... (312 words)

I'm engaged. But should I act on my powerful crush I have with my co-worker?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

29 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been working with this married woman for about two years. I'm engaged. There was an instant attraction. She is this sexy hipster with a really cute face and a hot body. We started texting and the texts became heated. We decided to pull back because we didnt want to ... (92 words)

My Step mother puts me down all the time. It's upsetting me. How can I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. Over the years I've asked lots of questions to the site and the responses have always been very helpful and genuinely caring. Recently my step mom who has always been lovely to me has changed. She... (282 words)

He's a teen and I am 22. Will the age difference not matter so much when we are in our 20s?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this guy for over a year as we go to uni together. I am 22 and he is 18 turning 19 at the end of the year. We have kissed on a few occasions but nothing more and recently we have been getting closer and I have developed feelings for him. He comes ov... (189 words)

My insecure wife constantly accuses me of looking at other women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

29 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have a problem. We have been together 8 years, we are mid 30's early 40's (I am 6 years younger), unable to have children after having multiple miscarriages. My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, wherever, she will accuse me ... (311 words)

Does a lack of sex justify cheating in a committed relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Could the lack of sex in my relationship have caused my boyfriend to cheat? We were together for 2 years and we both live at home with our parents. We both come from very strict households which made it hard for us to have that "quality time" to ourselves. We tried alternat... (350 words)

Are most Friends with Benefits relationships usually kept secret or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone just a quick question about Friends With Benefits (fwbs) I am currently in one with a guy I really like I was just wondering if all fwbs are usually kept secret or do people tell each other they are in one? I have asked this question because each time I see him ... (81 words)

My ex wants to come clean about why he cheated on me,should I talk to him or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and I had a 4 year relationship that ended because he cheated on me. I cut off all communication after we broke up until he posted a long status on Facebook about our relationship, and how he made mistakes and his mistakes shouldn't be counted against him. Then his f... (265 words)

Is it normal for a 28 year old man to lose interest in his wife after just 3 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This will be the second time that I have posted a question on this site, the last time was incredibly helpful for me! So here we go. Me and my husband have both just been discharged from the military, I was medically separated, he was honorably discharged... We have since mo... (567 words)

Is this violent jealous abusive boyfriend worth the trouble? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year, he always accused me of cheating. I don't know why he would even have the idea, I have a full time job and I would spend my days off with him at his place, he has the key to my place and he would just pop by without any noti... (589 words)

Why do girls complain about guy's cheating, yet they do far worse to the good guys who don't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't quite understand what is going on. I try, so very hard to maintain a relationship. I always go into it with all the hope and care I can muster. Now I'm 26 years old, and I'm single. I've been beaten, broken, crushed, decimated, maimed, and annihilated. Every girl I h... (167 words)

My preacher boyfriend preaches, not talks to me and I don't like it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is a minister and a preacher, when i try to talk to him, he starts preach at me and a i do not like it. I know I am very confuced about getting married... (36 words)

Man I'm dating won't sign divorce papers and lives in a house attached to his wife. Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age - I've been dating this guy for 5 months now, he's been married 28 years but they decided over a year ago they were divorcing, they went to the mediator and settled it out of court. They have 4 kids together.. He has signed all assets over to her and he pays her half his paycheck ... (215 words)

Does my BF deny masturbating to sexy girls' pictures online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Actually I just wanted some opinions on this, thanks in advance!! : My bf has been seeing girls' pictures on Facebook (sometimes his friends, friends of friends... , or even some girls she doesn't know); besides FB, he also checks out sexy model pictures online, watches ... (360 words)

I'm attracted to my step father

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old and I am attracted to my step Father. He's been with my Mother for 16 years now and their relationship isnt perfect. As far as I can remember I've been attracted to him. He seems like the perfect guy for me. In my relationships ive been looking for a little b... (140 words)

I don't have the urges to have sex but want to find someone who makes me happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys and girls, I kinda need help. I have been sexually inactive for over a year but yet, I don't feel the urges to have sex. I don't understand, now, i'm more then focused now on finding someone that makes me happy, and that I can return set favor too. Its just everytim... (206 words)

How do I get back the person I met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - im 17 in a relationship with a 20 year old she has a daughter thats 2...weve been together for a year and a half for months we were only friends with a lot of respect towards each other .i really love her with everything i got and not just her,her daughter too...my little ... (147 words)

Unpacking the end of what seemed like a amazing relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everybody, it's me again. I recently broke up with a guy because my gut was telling me that he wasn't emotionally available in the way that I needed. I'm actually fine with the breakup, as I deserve more, but, what happens when I thought it was the stuff that amazing ... (178 words)

Best sex with the ex and will that happen with another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I recently broke up with a guy who I had dated for a few months. It wasn't for lack of attraction or enjoying each others' time - basically, he didn't see it going further, so whatever. It's done and I'm moving on. Trying to anyway. Thing is - he was the best sex I've ... (134 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to be more physically dominant without having to say anything?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I am wondering if anyone can help me figure myself out. I have fantasies of being dominated - specifically a man grabbing my arms or wrists, pinning me up against the wall, or cornering me. I have had an ex that did that a little but i hated it because he was always an... (165 words)

I told this girl that I was having an online romance with, that I want to see her naked, and now she wont respond to me even though I've apologized

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

29 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I was engaged in an online romance with a very shy girl. We spoke online all day most days and hung out a few times. I said something risque suggesting that i don't care about love but just want to see her naked. It was just a joke and i was trying to get a rise out of her. She ... (122 words)

Is it weird to want to have more sex than my bf does?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy so basically my question is, is it weird to want to have more sex than my bf does? We used to literally have sex like 4 or 5 times every single day when we first together. We ve been together for almost 9 month and the longer were together the less we've been having sex. ... (124 words)

Am I not over my ex? I'm having problems with me relationship. Could it be that 7 year relationship with ex is the problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for seven years. We are high school sweethearts and have been on and off a couple of times during high school. Four months ago, we started to have sex. I was incredibly scared of sex - even had a phobia of it for a very long time. It angered my b... (307 words)

How long should I wait before writing him off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I have a question about Men and calling. First let me tell you the details: last weekend me and a bunch of coworkers all went out for drinks. During the night I stated talking to one of the guys (someone I had previously only known in passing) Turns out we have alot ... (321 words)

I really miss him. And I realise that he may be ill. How can I connect with him and be a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There was a guy who I was close friends with, who cut off all contact with me and many others for undisclosed reasons. Personally I think he was suffering from depression - I can't be positive because he hasn't interacted with many people since the cutting off despite seve... (276 words)