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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend doesn't open up to me. I hear things through her friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is; How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me when it comes to our relationship? I've been with her for going on 2 months and the one problem I have with her is the fact that I cannot get her to come to me with her problems. I've told her time and time again t... (177 words)

I let my b/f watch porn during oral sex. Is that a bad thing to do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I let him watch porn while I give him oral sex. It's never when we have sex, but my question is I feel like he's being turned on by the girls on the internet, is this okay or am I putting my relationship in a place where it ... (62 words)

My boyfriend is addicted to porn.... what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 months... Our relationship is fine in everyway except our sex life. He has admitted to me recently that he is addicted to porn and watches it and masturbates 2-3 times a day. At first sex was never a problem he couldn’t keep... (394 words)

Does anyone else think that a persons profile pictures on Facebook, indicate what sort of person they are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Does anyone else think that a persons profile pictures on Facebook, indicate what sort of person they are? I ask this because a girl who i've seen around university profile popped up on the side under 'people you may know'. Her photos were public and of course I like her (well ... (205 words)

Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't want to bring home a ... (234 words)

He says he can't give me what I want right now but still wants to see me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I was introduced to a really nice man. We have been on 3 dates. He says he likes me and is attracted to me but he now says we hv both come out of bad relationships and right now he can't give me what I want. He says he still wants to see me and he doest want to loose me. ... (176 words)

I'm still very much in love with my ex who still feels for me but he isn't doing anything about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm struggling to work out what to do with this guy. We were together a few years ago for over a year and I've not been able to get over him since we split up. Around Christmas time he told me he still had feelings for me and no longer felt for the girl he split up with me for ... (175 words)

I don't trust my daughters boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Can any off you Aunts and Uncles please give me some understanding of this. My Daughter has being with her boyfriend for the last 15 month. He is 7 year older than her, has a good job, still lives with his grandparents. He lives no more that a 3 minute walk form where we live.... (260 words)

We had an argument and now my b/f won't speak to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Right I need some help.. Me and my boyfriend had an argument Monday night over the most stupid thing.. He hadn't called or seen me all weekend so I said to him on the phone you know I wernt gonna bother even calling you today.. All he said was I ain't speaking to u when you... (113 words)

Should I forgive him for cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, please take the time to read this. My question is about my boyfriend cheating on me. I will explain first and then ask my question. My boyfriend and I got together a year ago after meeting through a mutual friend. We hit it off immediately and within a few months we we... (575 words)

My crush has gotten another girl pregnant. I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Feeling absolutly devasted and dont know what to do. A guy ive liked for a long time has gotten another girl pregnant. He says he likes me and hasd done all alone, that if he'd known how i felt he would have been with me. I just feel too upset to even cry. If he was just dat... (115 words)

I told him I needed closure on the relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy and had a friendly relationship for about 1 year. He however then started drawing back and after a few months trying to get in touch with him, i told him i needed closure on the relationship. Was i right to do this? Can we get past this?... (53 words)

Pregnant, and not sure how or even if to tell my boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, so I found out today I'm pregnant, possibly by about 6 weeks, despite using the pill, and I'm not sure how or even if to tell my boyfriend and need some advice. We've been together 18 months now, and are looking for a house to buy together. He's mentioned marria... (447 words)

Finding 'the One'.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i find the 'right one'? Every time i speak to a guy, we meet up and text and speak over the phone and facebook, and then they just stop talking to me? this has happened a few times now and i'm tired of getting hurt. I just want to settle down with a nice funny decent ... (92 words)

I have a crush on a coworker. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been working with this girl for about 2 months and we never really talked a lot, but last Saturday, me, her, and another coworker hung out after work, and we were out until 3 am, just talking, walking around Walmart, and then we had Taco Bell. She drove us and we ate ... (254 words)

He was supposed to be back over a week ago and I still havent heard from him! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friend with this man via dating online for over a year. We’ve met at last and like each other a lot. We grew closer and closer day by day. We text each other daily even though only 2 or 3 words – just to say hi and sometimes more than just to say hi... He has ... (132 words)

My mum has put doubts into my mind about my boyfriend, how do I know for sure this relationship is right for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I was totally head over heels with my boyfriend, who is an art technician, until I started having stupid doubts yesterday, when my mum tells me everyone finds him boring and stupid, now I'm trying to kind of analyse him, and I know I'm acting weird around him... (93 words)

I'm miserable in this relationship, but afraid to be without him. How do I find the courage to go it alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, ive never written to one of these before but right now i could do with some advice. I have been on and off with my boyfriend for a couple of years, main reason being he is too attached to his wife/ex wife. Long story short i just cant cope with this unhappy situatio... (315 words)

Minty tingles while giving head?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, i've heard that if you chew gum while giving head or suck on a breath mint or something like that right before you do it, the mintiness will cause a kind of tingling sensation for the guy. what i want to know is, does it actually work? is it pleasant for the... (68 words)

How do I return to normal? The guy I'm seeing doesn't know what he wants from this relationship and I cant stop thinking about him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this man for 2 months. He still isn't sure about what he wants from this 'relationship' and this is making me neurotic. I can't stop thinking about him all the time- It's affecting my life. I want to return to normal- before him. But I dont know how to- I don't ... (85 words)

Kissed a guy I don't have any feelings for when I was drunk at a party and now I feel disgusting! Why do I do stuff like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I wish last night never happened, any advice or help?! I am in lower six (second last year or high school) and on Saturday night I went to a house party and got really drunk, I ended up making out with a guy that I have no feelings for at all and I don't find him attracti... (189 words)

How do I stop my stupid crush on a much older marrried man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge crush on a much older married man. How do i stop feeling so stupid? I am 21 he is 45-50. Not sure. I have known this man for 6 months now, i see him a few times a week at work. He flirts with me all the time, compliments me, jokes alot. He makes jokes about us... (255 words)

Is there a name for my weird fetish?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi When I am in bed at night, instead of masturbating over my crush and thinking about sex with her, I do something a little different. I imagine the two of us together in my bed and holding/hugging each other, but kind of really tightly, like as tight as possible, with ... (141 words)

He flirted. All the right signals and moves. Then he jumped up and ran away. Telling me he is not gay. How do I recover from this set back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - ModNote: some more graphic aspects removed so the question could be posted. Tuesday 4th of April 2012: i feel so sad, depressed, in pain, humiliated, stupid and frustrated. i never thought i will feel like this ever in my life. all this mixed bad emotions is crazy! Love ... (971 words)

I'm worried if this will work. What are the downsides to the fact that I am about the same age as my partner's son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm dating a man who is 21 years older than me. I am 28, and he is 49. He has a son who is 26 ( he'll be 27 in December ). Does anyone think it's bad that he is dating me, when i am just a bit older than his son?. He doesn't see his son, as he got divorced from his ex wife... (217 words)

Is my attitude to work wrong? My work bores me, I can't wait to get out at 5pm.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need your advice! I'm in my late 20's. I work in a chartered accountancy firm and my job is boring. I start counting down the minutes till 5 from the second I sit down. I know that's wrong and I should be grateful to have a job in these economic times, and I am,... (851 words)

Why does my boyfriend think it 'works' to wink at me during oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a quick question. What does it mean when your boyfriend gives you eye contact and winks at you when he is giving you oral sex?.He winks at me other times as well, but it surprised me when he did that during oral sex.... (45 words)

How do I deal with a flirty young teen? She came on to me. I stopped tutoring her. But she thinks I like her. I've said no. She's not listening.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m having trouble with this kid. It all started when I was looking for a part time job. I’m a college student and I’m living in an apartment with my room-mates. As I was good in maths I decided to teach maths at high school to the ninth graders. A few weeks ago one student ... (415 words)

Why doesn't seem to be interested in having sex with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend now for 6 years and we are engaged to be married. We have lived together for 5 years and get on well with little problems. The only major problem for me is he doesn't seem to be interested in having sex with me anymore. I have a fairly high s... (294 words)

Despite being bi why don't I connect emotionally with female partners? I feel conflicted about this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always considered myself bi, but as time goes on I find that I'm attracted to both women and men sexually, but emotionally I can't connect to girls.. With guys it happens easily and I feel comfortable around them. I'm not sure what my sexual orientation is. Is there a reas... (72 words)

Priorities! My shift I was meant to work? Cover another shift? Or my friend and the concert?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend from work asked me to go to a show with him tomorrow night. I really want to go, because I'm new to this town and I don't really have any friends here yet (apart from the people I see every day at work) and I have trouble making friends/knowing what to do with frie... (262 words)

I think it may be time to end this friendship

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4 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a fight with a friend. She treated me very harshly and was quite upset with me. I tried talking to her and explaining the situation but because she was open to speaking face to face I then sent letters/emails. I honestly thought they were sweet explaining how much I cared ... (122 words)

Boyfriend has way too many pics of his ex and its making me really insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 2 years and he is lovely, always complimenting me, tells me he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I love him with all my heart and want to be with him always. My stupid insecurities are starting to get the best of me and I need ... (297 words)

I'm feeling replaced by my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

4 April 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I am feeling replaced. So my best friend became friends with this other girl that I don't like but I thought well its not a big deal...yeah I think I've been replaced by this girl. My "best friend" said a month or so ago that she tells me everything and that she tells me mor... (131 words)

How could he just end things like that to go with a girl young enough to be his daughter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I was with a Guy for a year..its been to rocky but recently I started thinking he was talking to other girls through texts an Facebook so I ended it after a few lies N things I found an he was keeping his phone on him an getting texted late which he said as a friend so ... (201 words)

Sacrifices to move in with girlfriend - am I being petty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is a few years older than myself and has a 5 year old daughter. We've been dating for about a year and a half and have been increasingly talking about moving in together. What I want to know is "does it sound like our relationship has an expiration date or am I ... (724 words)

What is a reasonable frequency for spouse to go out drinking with friends?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - We r married with 3 kids. My wife has recently taken to going out with different groups of girls a lot - what I would consider to be too much. They always go to bars. She always comes home at 1 am or later drunk. I most ofen provide the babysitting to make this possible, ... (206 words)

How can I become more comfortable in counseling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going to my college's free counseling center for awhile now. I've always had major difficulty trusting and opening up to people, and that is one of the main reasons why I went there: to finally be able to do this. Sometimes my sessions go great and I feel like I r... (486 words)

Is his behavior that of a narcisstic person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - is he nacisstic? day to day we r fine if i do not ask him anything personal. We r just getting back together b/c a few yr's ago he cheated and tried to make me feel our past arguments or something I had done made him justified n it my fault. I could not trust him n he begged ... (563 words)

Do I talk about our drunken one night stand? Or let him bring it up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I got really drunk and slept with my best male friend. This has brought out feelings for him and got me thinking about being with him. I have known him for years and although we have our differences and we both have other close friends, I feel like he's got my back and... (793 words)

Boyfriend cheated once, I think he may be again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have been with my boyfriend 3 years this month, but i can't help doubting him. i know he cheated on me at the begining of our relationship (yes, call me stupid for staying) but it did really upset him and he did tell me about it. now 2 years later he hides his phone... (242 words)

B/f watching porn but doesn't understand that I am not sexually satisfied!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. he initiated sex a lot in the beginning and i really liked that. for the last few months, our sex life has been awful and i am rarely satisfied. whenever i try to initiate something, he laughs it off or says he's tired. i want ... (303 words)

Is it really cheating if you really love the guy even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have a bit of a stupid question, if a man or woman are married and one of them sleeps with someone else over and over its an affair. but if its just a guy and girl dating, is it still called an affair? and is it really wrong to flirt and sleep with the guy if u really ... (103 words)

Adding on facebook when you have no common friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! There is this one guy in one of my classes and we always have tension, we are always giving eye contact. And today we finally spoke and I told him I thought he was really cute and he said I am as well! I feel like a child again I used to never be shy but I dont know ... (133 words)

We are dating yet he tells people it was just a dare!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So my perfectly awesome boyfriend and I are dating sort of secretly because my dad doesn't allow me to date. I told my friend and school, and she told his ex-girlfriend to back off because he's dating someone... me. she guessed it, but he said it was just a dare, and now I feel ... (93 words)

I was going to leave my b/f to go back to my ex and then he tells me he has cancer! How could I leave him now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I dated for two years when he was an international student at my school. When he returend to his country after graduation (he is two years older), he tried to maintain a LDR but it was too difficult due to conflicting schedules and poor communication. It's been a year ... (377 words)

All husband talks about is cheating and the sex he had while he was married to me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age - My husband admits to cheating with dozens of friends and family during our first years of marriage. He also lived with two other women while in the service and I was home pregnant. He got both of them pregnant and left them that way. I am finding it impossible to live with him. ... (145 words)

My wife got in touch with her first sex partner and sent him a pic of her's in a bikini

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for 6 years, married for 4 years. My wife has been with between 60 and 70 men between the age of 18 and 30. She had one 3 year relationship during that time. About 90% of her past sexual experiences were just hookups, just sex once or twice ... (704 words)

I have no friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

4 April 2012 (F) age 26-29 - I recently have realized that I don't have any friends. I had a bunch in 9th grade. Not as many in 10th and now in 11th I have a couple of people who I would classify as my friends. I try really hard I just run out of things to say. And i'm so tired of people dumping me as... (90 words)

I promised a new crazy sext session. How do I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend and i usually jus send pictures or ill call and give him a count down but it's getting super boring! i promised him a "new, crazy" sext session tomorrow night but i have no idea what to do. any ideas?... (43 words)

Why did she text me apologizing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - this girl who I used to like back in January randomly sent me a message today apologising for what she did. Basically, we'd met one night and from then on we were texting a lot, everyday and had planned to meet up... but suddenly for no reason she just stopped all contact! I ... (245 words)

My affair has gone horribly wrong!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in a jam. Well I'm married for 17 years and I had an affair for the first time in my marriage, I met this guy at work and fell head over heels for him but I told him from day one that I'm married and I'm not leaving my husband for no one, he said he understood. We had a ... (212 words)

I want to help with all the problems of bullying how would I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I finally figured out what I want to do with my life. I want to end bullying. for years, I've had no idea what I want to be. But I finally figured it out. thw only problem is that I don't know how. What jobs could let me do this? what should I major in in college? Don't tell me ... (96 words)

Is it normal for guys to carry a knife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

4 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a short, but somewhat odd question: is it normal for guys to carry knives? A guy that I'm thinking about dating carries one and I don't understand why. I tried to ask him but my friend was there and she just said: "why wouldn't he carry a knife?" which is a very ... (70 words)

Lately I've been dreaming about an ex girlfriend, but I'm in a happy relationship. What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

4 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for nearly 6 months now. I love my girlfriend very much, but just recently I've started having dreams about an ex girlfriend. Me and my ex broke up over a year ago and we are very rarely in contact any more. I believe I'm over her, but I also accept ... (244 words)