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writes:So I've been with this guy for about 5 months. He cheated on me but we're still talking. He tells me I deserve better, in fact everyone does. He isn't with the other women anymore but they still hang out a lot. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but says he needs time. I'm trying to wait but everyone tells me that is stupid. If i really love him is it worth it to wait?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): This guy doesn't sound confident at all in knowing what he wants hence the promiscuity in my opinion. If you're looking for a serious relationship, he's probably not the best choice based on what you've stated. I'd open up the dating scene a bit more. Good luck.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (7 May 2011):
 Waiting is a waste of time, how about you go about your business and if things happen they happen, if not, at least you've continued on your way and may by the time he is ready be in another RS. If a guy says "You deserve better"
What he is really saying is "I don't trust myself"
He's given you far the best advise than we can.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (6 May 2011):
 This is really only something that you can decide. In the end, it doesn't matter what anyone says, because you are the one that has to live with your decision. The fact that he cheated on you doesn't speak too highly for him. Is he worth it? For me, cheating is the death knoll on a relationship. But that's me. Keep in mind that 5 months isn't a very long time, and the fact that he's already cheated???? Its not looking too good. Remember too that while you are waiting for this guy to get together, other perfectly good guys could be passing you by. I'm sorry if this isn't what you want to hear, but its reality. What happens if you wait around and then he decides he wants to move on? You need to think all of this through very carefully. Do what is best for YOU, sweetie, not him. What (or whom) do you really want?
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