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writes:My fiance and I have been together for three years and we haven't had sex in seven months. I realize that most people would leave in that situation or at least try to to do something about it but oddly enough, we're both perfectly content. We do get very physical but we never have the time or the energy to actually have sex.I know neither of us are having an affair because we're still very much into each other and he rarely stays late at work (as do I). My problem is, however, what if we never get that spark back? There was time when we thought a moment not having sex was a moment wasted and that feeling lasted a good two years.But I'm starting to worry if we just don't desire each other anymore. How can I get that back?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 May 2011):
 At your age that would certainly seem unusual.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 May 2011):
 YES! Specially if you are in the 18-21 age group I would worry a LOT.
I have been married 13 almost 14 years and we still have very regular sex. Only times we haven't is when he has been deployed overseas.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Yes.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Your young, so it's a bit of a worry, if your partner is your age his sex drive is at it's highest, it will only go lower over time and sex will become more infrequent. If your both content, there is no problem, but something tells me eventually both of you will find someone else who arouses you and lights your fire. His sex drive sounds very low and this may become frustrating for you once you marry him. I don't know what will turn him on, he's your guy and you've known him for 3years. Sexy clothes and sexy talk usually work, but I also suggest you go to him and have a very long talk.
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