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Why all the attention from the attached women?

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Question - (6 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2011)
A male Australia age , anonymous writes:

I work in a fairly large organisation and am a single guy, in my mid 40's, probably one of the few.

Being in a company of this size there are many attractive women also working there.

My 'problem' (if you could call it that) is that I always seem to receive the attention from women who I know are already married, in a relationship etc. They are the ones usually 'giving me the eye' and glancing at me from across the room- but in saying that wont say two words to you if you are in close proximity or alone at any location.

Granted, most of the women i work with are in relationships, but I wanted to know, if there even is an answer- Why all the attention from the attached women? The single women (if there is such a thing, I'm beginning to wonder) never seem as though they would even give me the time of day- in this I mean anywere, not just at work.

It seems I still have a lot to learn about how the female mind works!

Many thanks for your views on this subject.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011):

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Thanks! Very interesting answers!- I think both of you are saying the same thing... (Although i don't really think of myself as vulnerable or prey to anyone...)

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A female reader, littleBB Italy +, writes (6 May 2011):

Attached people in general (not just women!) are less insicure because they already have a partner waiting for them at home, they don't have much to lose. They have security. Don't let yourself be fooled, find someone who is single and available, dont waste your time with married women they won't leave their partner for you. The single women might just be more insicure, more shy, so they appear less available they have more problems risking emotional hurt. Hope that helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011):

Dont be fooled....These 'attached women' know a vulnerable prey when they see one.

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