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writes:Do you honestly think looks and types matter? There is this guy who I'm not dating, but we talk a lot and i just don't want to lead him on. But I think i am starting to like him, as a person he makes me laugh and I've noticed he is (fingers crossed), the most decent guy I've met in a long time! I figured well, all those guys that were gorgeous looking and the type i go for, they've turned arrogant or very full on. Basically bad experiences and it didn't work out! So i don't know whether to just ignore that he isn't so great looking, or anything what i find attractive in a a guy. And just give it a try and see where this goes.I'm worried I will be shallow and later on think no. He isn't what I want in a guy, I wish he was better looking or like my friend said 'if you meet a hott guy, you will screw over that guy in a second for him'. But I think, I can control myself if I really do like this guy. Because I don't want to pass this him up, I know I will regret it if I do!? I don't know....So should I ignore looks and my types and just go in for it, see if it works out..... Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 May 2011):
 If you like him, go for it. If you're going for him because you're worried nothing better will come along, then that's not a good idea. But just remember, looks fade much faster than a sense of humor. Good looks can't be the cement to a good relationship, but being able to make each other laugh is incredibly important to making a relationship work. If his looks repulse you, this will never work out. But if you can feel attraction, then it can.
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reader, oosie  +, writes (6 May 2011):
Well you say go for it OR someone else your type.Your mind is already set for your type a long time ago. SO what this means is that he has that qualities that is the personality of your type but not necessarily the body of your type. So if you wana be bold for once. Decide to try the guy that is trying to really think of your feelings, not your body.Looks matter in its one way. And type is a hole different story. you can be the guy that makes everyone laugh ...which is maybe your type . But he is not hot. But because it's your type you like him. Try finding out if he really wants to protect your heart or try your wheels. And let him make you feel good by emotion not sex.. It laSTS LONGER.And maybe he will be good in bed. And you just won't care anymore about how 'HOT" he is...
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