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writes:How do you trust in a relationship after being cheated on and played so many times? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 In re-reading this question (a bit brief, isn't it?), I guess the poster might be asking how to trust in a new relationship, after the old ones all turned sour due to cheating and games.
In this case, I would suggest the poster work out what it was that drew her to men that treated her in this way, and why she stuck it out. Learn how to identify the men who are not cheaters and liars and players. They are out there, in great numbers. Scads of them. So what is it about yourself, that would cause you to tolerate being treated in such a way? It might require some professional help, you know, and that isn't a bad thing or something to feel negatively about. It just means there are some life lessons that haven't been learned or internalized just yet.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 May 2011):
Why bother? There are so many people out there who aren't players and cheats.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 You don't!...you wise up, walk and find someone who treats you with the respect you deserve.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 May 2011):
 You can't trust someone who is a "serial cheater". I wouldn't even try. What would be the point? They are not going to magically change over night and stop cheating. If they actually CARED about their partners feelings they would cheat, over and over and over....
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Should you trust someone who has cheated on you and played you several times?
I think the answer is no. You don't trust such a person, so why force it?
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