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writes:So, ive been in love with this guy. I told over the internet that i love him, but he said he didnt feel same. Still he said im amazing. Does that mean he also had feelings for me 'someway, somehow'? Plus he's been checking on me lately. I need your point of view.
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reader, BlondeBabe x  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 I suppose it depends on how you understand the word 'amazing'. From my own point I few I think what he means is that you are an amazing friend and a great girl but he doesn't have necessarily have feelings for you.
However the best advice I can give you is that you have to talk to him in person, no matter how awkward it is. Talking over the internet is far too impersonal and you can't judge the persons reaction. He might be realising feelings for you or he might have done his best not to lose a good friend in you, as he obviously thinks highly of you.
Just ask him how he feels as you don't want to be led down the wrong path. Even if he doesn't feel the same you still have him as a friend also you will know the truth.
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reader, Orbiter +, writes (6 May 2011):
It sounds like he likes and cares for you a lot as a friend, which is why he said you were amazing and has checked up on you.I doubt it's anymore than that if he himself said he doesn't feel that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011): How much has he been checking on you? He may just be doing this because he either hasnt spoken to you in a while or he's just being friendly. And the same for calling you amazing, he may just be being friendly. If you speak over the phone and he sounds worried he may feel something for you. If you speak over the internet(e.g facebook,Myspace.) it would be hard to tell whether he likes you or not. If he starts dating someone else and he doesnt seem happy, then he could be lying about how he feels.
Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011): I imagine that he is just being a good friend and trying to make sure the fact that he doesn't want to be more than that hasn't hurt your relationship. He probably does think you're a real great person - as a friend though - and just wanted you to know that, even though he doesn't feel the same, he still wants to be friends with you.
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