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He's a momma's boy. Should I have a say in their financial decisions?

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Question - (6 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *rightstars writes:

I think I'm dating a momma's boy. He jumps when she calls our house and asks for something :"can you give me a ride"? , Can you come over? can you give me some money?'' and if he says no to her she uses the "well you don't love then''.

And the worst that makes me annoyed is she asks him if I can take him to her house and promises that she'll bring him back, and doesn't! she tells him " well if she wants you back over there, then she'll come get you.'' AAUHG! Why does she treat him like a lil boy, hes not, he's 19yrs old, im 20. And she has 3 younger boys, he's not her only child, they actually need their mother, shes too busy in our business.

I told her too stay outta our business!. You know what she did? she wrote me a letter sent it, i got it it said, ''it falls on deaf ears and she'll always be his number 1, then at the bottom of the letter she put a heart shape and her and his name in it. What the fu?? She's old and weird. It was so funny though when she tried to have audacity to call me immature? huh! what! Crazy..right? i thought damn, is this twilight zone?

Now what really puts the cherry on top of everything is recently she just asked him to move with her 3 states over to work and save money. for a month. It's not bad but she said that before but dumped him in another city, which wasn't bad because I got to pick him up. It was a scheme. How weird is that? it gets on my nerves! She knows we've been together for 5 yrs. So he says he's going with her to help her financially when he could be helping us financially. She has a husband! why cant he help her financially! why cant he go with her? I told him and her, their both in denial. Don't i have a right or say so on this????

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A female reader, Brightstars United States +, writes (8 May 2011):

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Brightstars agony auntYou are soo right bernard. Thanks for replying.

Yes, its true this mommas boy is not the marry type. And should be off my platoon!

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