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writes:up until this week i was close friends with a guy at work we were very close and he said he viewed me as a sister. ive helped him no end, been there for him always, helped him with work money you name it.we started working on a new team together and to start he was working with another guy whos really lazy and will lead him down a bad path. i tried to warn him but he wont listen.anyway recently i have felt very used and that hes not been straight over stuff-he has told a few major lies to me and i was extremely hurt as ive been there for him always and he didnt need to do that so i sent him an email to explain this and he was so mad that he hasnt spoken to me at all, blanks me if people are around and speaks to me with total contempt, he wont answer emails or calls and has totally cut me dead. im so hurt all i wanted was an explanation but he wont even communicate with me. what shall i do ? the one time he spoke to me the other night for a second he said he wouls speak to me when hes ready but when the hell will that be im in despair
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (9 May 2011):
 HiI wonder if he felt you were over stepping the friendship by telling him who he should be friends with :/ did you become more of a mother figure rather than sister? either way I feel he is being very unfair to you, as you were only looking out for him. Why dont you give him the space he wants for a while, dont text him, or call him, and you may find that he will come round to it, and reaise he is being a jerk to you. I'm sure he is feeling just as bad, but is probally feeling to ashamed to admit it to you, as he knows his hurt your feelings. You will both look back on this one day and laugh :DI hope this has helped
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