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writes:This may sound like a very strange question, but can someone please give me some insight into why it is that I am 17 and have never had a boyfriend?? I mean, I have tons of guy friends who have told me I'm attractive physically and who think I'm tons of fun to hang out with, but I've never been asked out in my life...I've been given the old speech about how 'they're intimidated', etc, but I really can't imagine that's the reason...but I just can't think why I've been sitting around for years, watching my friends get boyfriends, but have never been on so much as a date...any ideas anyone??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): You're perfectly normal, but maybe you just havent found a decent guy yet, but remember it isnt always the guy who has to ask out a girl, some guys are scared of being rejected by a girl, so if there is a guy you are attracted to, why not just go for it and ask him out? Good luck and I hope this helps!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Same reason I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18 I suppose. Just didn't meet anyone that I clicked with or had that chemistry with.
You're not "supposed" to have someone by the time you hit puberty and upward. It's perfectly normal to be single until you meet someone worthwhile. It's not a big mystery really.
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