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writes:Shall I go on this 'date' with him?So I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years like a month ago. About a week ago, a little on the influence of a little alcohol I gave this guy my Blackberry pin.Got talking and gave him my number again on the influence of alcohol AGAIN but I had been feeling a bit guilty because I keep getting this feeling that I'm moving on too quickly. We have so much in common and he's adorable. I find myself taking a liking to him rather quickly.BUT he's moving a bit too fast for me. Asked me out on a date the day that he got my BB pin.I keep telling him that he's moving too fast and I'm still sussing him out and getting to know him.I admit that deep down, I would love to go out with him. But I'm so use to my ex and in a way, going by what he'd think. Which is that I'm moving too fast. In a way I don't want him to feel bad.I know its dumb because I know he'd probably never find out.Every time I speak to him, he's like lets meet up in a friendly way. Me and you click so well, why won't you just let me take you out. He keeps asking me whether I see I future with him. If I don't pick my phone up, he gets a bit paranoid and says he thinks I'm not interested.I feel like that's part of the reason I dumped my boyfriend and I'm single!I shouldn't be writing on dearcupid.org anymore about men! LOLSo any advice? To clarify. I just want to know whether I should go on this date obviously NOT to put him out of his misery because I do like him. But I keep thinking whether its too soon...and also I keep thinking about getting too close to this guy too soon etc.Help? :( :)x
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