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writes:I'm a teenager struggling through this annoying change everyday so if anyone is going through the same experience or already has been, please help me out here...Lately, I've been just myself and hanging around with friends, not worrying about boys. I haven't worried about liking anyone so have spoken to so many boys just as mates. There's this one boy and I've known him for a while now but lately we text each other a lot and he calls me babe, baby and says I love you so much and that sort of thing. I know he is really popular and has a lot of female attention already so when he says this stuff, at the back of my mind I can't help but think he might be saying the same thing to somebody else. In our place of education today, we just spoke loads and wound each other up a little but towards the end of the day he seemed a bit distant but I think this because someone told me he was upset about a teacher or something. I haven't let myself build my hopes up on a guy for ages and had so much fun but now, I'm beginning to like him.. please help?!
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (9 May 2011):
 Hi ThereThe best thing you can do is continue to be yourself around him, A lot of boys and girls call each other 'babe', and 'I love you loads' most of the time its just a friendly thing. But if you are starting to have feelings for him now you may scare him off, boys like to feel like they are in control at this age, and the girls who go after the boys are usually the ones who get really hurt, or the girls get a bad name for them selves. If he likes you then he will tell you when he is ready, at your age this is the best way around it. His probally shy at heart, and may very well have feelings for you too, so wait and see, but ALWAYS just be your self. :)I hope this has helped
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