| A
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: the other week me and my gf went to a house party. a few hours and many drinks later i saw my gf in the kitchen snogging another girl. at first i spied and i thought it was very hot. but after a about 30 seconds i realised that they were on there,as in they were not doing it for the guys, or me. and they were stroking each others bodies and hair. it looked very passionate. i interupted and they both got a fright and looked a bit guilty. was this just a bit of fun? or has my gf cheated on me?
View related questions:
cheated on me, kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, JohnnyXXX  +, writes (7 May 2011):
I suppose it's cheating, but I wouldn't be complaining. That's just me though; if it bothers you, it bothers you. I don't know if I would dump her over it, just talk it out and go from there
A
female
reader, chigirl  +, writes (7 May 2011):
 She cheated. Unless you have given approval beforehand, kissing another girl, even if just for fun, is cheating. Why should girls kiss just to make it look hot for the guys anyway, I don't get it. A kiss is a kiss, and unless you're in an open relationship it isn't ok.
A friendly peck on the lips as you greet or say good-bye is fine by me, but making out is a whole other story.
Treat it as if it was a guy she was making out with.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011): I'm sorry love but that is cheated. Kissing a girl no matter how hot it is for a guy...it is cheating. You are sharing intimacies with another person.You need to have that conversation with your girlfriend that you don't want to have....sorryGood Luck
...............................
A
female
reader, BlondeBabe x  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Yes that is cheating.
It doesn't matter that it was with a girl or that she may just considerate a 'bit of fun' she kissed someone passionately that wasn't you. Worst of all you saw her cheating on you. Maybe you should sit down and have a talk with your girlfriend as it may have just been the alcohol but there could go be some underline feelings there.
BB x
...............................
A
female
reader, Jen1689 +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Yes. Yes, yes, YES! She was cheating. Girls who make out with other girls to be "cool" or to "experiment" is crap, and the fact that so many girls get away with it that are in relationships is appalling. How would she feel if she caught YOU kissing another guy? A bit different, I know, as society almost promotes girl-on-girl action, but seriously, what's the difference? She's getting intimate with someone other than her BOYFRIEND. She's feeling up on someone who's not her BOYFRIEND. Sorry, but the fact that she was even doing it "for show" is even more disgusting. I'm not attracted to anyone but my fiance, and I could never have the desire to do ANYTHING intimate with anyone other than him, even if it is curiosity. She's not a lesbian, or bi, and this isn't some agreement you two have made about being in an open relationship, so yes, she cheated. Plain and simple. If it were a guy she was kissing, you'd have beat his ass and dumped her on the spot, so why should this be any different? (obviously don't kick the girl's ass...) You know what I mean... Don't put up with that. Call her out on it, and let her know that it won't be tolerated.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011): yes she cheated on you.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011): Yup that was cheating. Look dude, I like the whole girls kissing other girls to look like tramps in front of the guys thing. But not when it's my girlfriend. That's unacceptable even in the trashy "give us attention aren't we soooo wild and free spirited" way.
No guy or girl gets to kiss her but me.
...............................
A
female
reader, lovesucks2011 +, writes (6 May 2011):
She cheated on you. sorry but would you be asking this if it was a dude she was kissing? No matter the gender, if y'all are together she shouldn't be kissing other people, maybe she's bi, who cares a cheater is a cheater no matter how drunk she was!
...............................
|
