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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was with someone for 3 years we lived together and 3 months ago he broke up with me..we were both going through a stressful time, i started moving on and even went out on a date...he found out and has been coming over to sleep with me ever since.we go to shows together and he has spent the night at our place twice.I know i should tell him no(i know i'm not giving him much to miss if i'm always there)i just missed him so much. I'm not sure what to do I want him back or at least slowly move back into things i need to get over the break-up first but feel like its too late he is going to move-in with his best friend(he currently is back at his parents) and i feel once he does thats it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): It seems that he can't handle the thought of you being with someone else. his jealousy makes him act selfishly. he broke up with you but he doesn't want you to move on. What exactly is going on here? were there major issues in the relationship causing it to end? Try talking with him and asking him what his feelings are for you and tell him how you feel. Discuss if it is worth giving the relationship another try, if you both feel it is and you both still love each other, then go for it. If you both feel that there are too many issues that can not be solved, try to let each other go and move on, how hard that may seem. if you keep meeting up although there is no chance for the relationship to work again will leave you both emotionally drained and it can leave you hurt when he does feel ready to move on, leaving you heartbroken because you were hoping to get back together. Letting go is the hardest thing to do after a breakup but in the long run is for the best for both of you. good luck!
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