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writes:I have a fairly simple question. Basically, there's a guy in my class that I used to be friends with, even in love with, but we definitely aren't friends anymore, sadly. But he had asked me to lend him a substantialit out or he would give everything back immediately amount of money, my bike, my headphones and tons of help with homework, all of which I gave him. But since he no longer treats me like a friend at all, I felt like I was justified in asking for my stuff back, so I sent him a text telling him either we would work . He didn't ever reply and when I saw him again, he seemed more distant, but never even mentioned the text or made any move to give me my things back, even though he had them with him. So, I assumed he wanted to try to stay friends, even if he didn't seem to be treating me much better. But then, when I text and called later because I'd lost my credit card and had no money, and needed him to pay at least some of it back, he rejected my call. Admittedly, he may have been busy, but given his behavior, i think it's more likely he didn't want to deal with me. So my question is: why isn't he acknowledging any of my texts, and if he doesn't want to be my friend, why won't he give me my stuff back?? And what should I do to either make things better between us or get my things back from him? Because I don't appreciate this treatment, but I also don't really want to make things even worse between us...
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 It sounds like he is being very childish. I would get a mutual friend involved to mediate things so you can get your stuff back. If that doesn't work I would talk to his parents and explain this situation because this is technically a crime for him to not return your stuff. I doubt he actually wants to keep it, he is just being a jerk so hopefully someone else can get him to cooperate.
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