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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:i like this girl. She is my friend and we talk quite a bit and she hangs out with me and my friends sometimes....the thing is that not a guy has had a crush on her even though she is kind of attractive, we kind of make fun of her and joke around with her a lot and she is like a buddy....and last but not the least, she wants attention from guys but doesnt get it the way she wants....she is a bit of a flirt when she finds a hot guy....that was one side of her, the other side of her is amazing...she is the nicest, very smart, sensible and excessively friendly....which is why i fell for her...the thing is that she tries to be around guys and i havent potrayed myself as a noticable guy...not that she isnt open with me but i dont get her attention as much as other guys do....considering the way she is and the way other guys are towards her, what can i do to grab her attention?? how do i make her notice me out of other guys? its not that im bad looking or anything, im normal with moderate social skills and a moderate sense of humor....but i just want to be a bit of a magnet for her.....how can i do this? plz help me.....
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reader, hope_i_could_help  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 As a girl, a man can caught my attention if he do something romantic or kind to me or to others. Every girl loves a man who is romantic. I suggest be romantic in every way, say hi to her every time you see her.
A guy can also caught my attention if he has a great sense of humor. We girls love jokes but not the corny ones. We also love to be appreciated and praised in everything we do. But be sure not to be clingy around her, or always around her. She just needs to know that you will be there when she needs help or something.
Girls also love capable and independent guys. We also love responsible guys that finishes his task.
There are a lot of things we girls like but it depends on your girl's personality. You are her friend so I'm sure you know what she likes about a guy and what kind of personality he must posses. But most importantly, we girls love a guy who doesn't really try hard to be someone else. Just be you.
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