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writes:My best friend has warned me two days ago that my boyfriend is to dump me for another girl. It hurt because I found out of her but its worse that he still hasn't said anything yet. It's breaking my heart that I'm waiting like this because my friend said wait till 3days after new year and if he hasn't told me then to text him. I understand that it should be him telling me that he's cheated not me telling him that I know but I want to know HOW do I react to him when he tells me this? I'm friends with his sister and I don't want a big falling out over it. And if he doesn't text me HOW do I go through with it? It's really upsetting me I hope you can help :(
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX  +, writes (29 December 2011):
 Aww~ i'm really sorry for what you're going though :( i think though that you should act now, rather than wait~ i know i definately would if i was in the same situation- i'd want him out my life entirely. Tell him that you know he's been cheating on you and see how he responds to it. After its out in the open, it'd be best to cut all forms of contact off with him~ delete his numbers/his facebook and block him from your life. Might sound a bit extreme, but sometimes thats better to get over someone
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reader, feralfox  +, writes (29 December 2011):
I'm sorry you're hurting right now. If I were in your situation, I wouldn't wait for him to tell me. I would probably ask him to come over or meet someplace private... I would try to sound normal so that he wouldnt avoid the situation. Then I would ask him directly in person so that we could talk it out. Honesty is always the best policy. Tell him that you heard he was seeing someone else, then hear his side of the story-- maybe your friend has details wrong, who knows. But think about who has a better track record, and who you trust more. Because it could be possible for him to deny the whole thing.
Either way, what you REALLY need to do is figure out what this means to you: would you even consider giving a cheater a second chance if he did regret it? I wouldn't. In fact, if I knew for certain he had cheated I probably would break up with him first and then cut off all contact, but that is only my personal way of dealing with things. I really hope you feel better, don't let this guy walk over you! You deserve someone who wants to be with you and ONLY you!
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