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writes:Okay (the story is going to be long sorry), but I really have a lot of feelings for this old friend and we tried to go out over the summer, but in that time, I got a lot of mixed signals from a friend we had shared and I was told lies.(like the guy i liked just wanted to have sex with me and didn't really like me at all) so I believed it because they're closer compared to me and that friend we shared. ...SO... I went on in life with a different guy (he was only there to use me) and come to find out I still had feelings for the guy, but he was in a relationship and still is and my question is, what should I do? Because I still really like this guy and we are very compatible and we have a great chance of making each other happy, but he is still in a relationship and I don't know if he feels that way about me anymore.... Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 December 2011):
 agreed. he is currently NOT available to you for a relationship... maybe when he ends the romance with the current lady....for now, move on.
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (28 December 2011):
Don't waste your time waiting around for someone who may never be available; you're only setting yourself up for disappointment.Try your best to move on and focus on you. Its straight forward advice, but its honestly the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): He is in a relationship end of story, so move on. I know how hard that is, I have been there, but it has to be done. I did this, if it is meant to be you will find each other in the future, if not then it wasn't meant to be. I know that sounds cliche, but it's true. As I said I have been thriugh it, the friend of mine who I really liked and stopped contacting because he was in a relationship at the time, found me again mid 2011, we started chatting and the connection was evident again.I was hesitant and protective of my heart, but after some time we told each other that we liked each other again, and that we had feelings, we have now been in a serious relationship for a little over a year and couldn't be happier. So it can happen. I respected his decision to be with that other girl although it hurt at the time, and that is what made him respect me more and realise how much he truly wanted to be with me. Good Luck.
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