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writes:I and my crush were texting each other before, just having normal conversation. But one day i texted him and he said "who is this" and i was like "its cailyn i thought you saved my number" and he didn't text me back. We didn't talk in class the next day and we've not been talking for like a month and a half now. On thanksgiving and christmas he texted to wish me happy thanksgiving and christmas..i was surprised i thought he doesn't care anymore, i didn't know my number was still on his phone. We still don't talk and i dont know if he's shy? i dont know what he thinks about me? Should i talk to him first because his status on facebook is "someone text me" almost everytime?Do you think i should text him? (i know this is long but i was just pouring everything on my mind). Thanks for understanding.
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 I wouldn't text him. You've text him before and in my eyes he seems quite ignorant. Plus he may have texted everyone saying happy christmas, I send it to all my phonebook. Don't go chasing after him because there could always possibly be that fear that you will become clingy. Also, if he doesn't text you back when you'd like him to it will probably get you down as you may feel as though he doesn't like you or you've done something wrong. If he wants to speak to you, he knows how to contact you. Until then, get it out of your head. You are better than his ignorance.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (28 December 2011):
No, he's not shy. Sure, he probably thinks about you sometimes. No, you shouldn't text him. He has your number and he can text you if he wants to talk to you. It's odd that you texted before and then suddenly he doesn't know who's texting him and then he doesn't respond. It's weird.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): A month and a half, no I wouldn't text him at all. I think he is cool with talking to you when he isn;t interested in any other girl, but if he likes someone he doesn't want to know you. Save yourself the grief and don't bother texting him at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): lol I've been there before... just text him and see what he says and if you two can have a normal conversation. A lot of the time, guys do that because they're scared to find out a girl likes them, but then they go back to normal.. guys are weird like that. Just talk to him. You'll never know if you two could be great for each other (friends or more) if you dont bother to find out. Plus guys love it when girls make the first move anyway. It shows that you care I hope this helped in any way possible
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