A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hello I recently invited my lesbian coworker to my house to drink some wine. She knows that I am bisexual. Anyways, we started listning to music and we ended up kissing. Ever since our kiss that night we have ignored the kiss. We dont talk about it. Its like it never happened But I enjoyed it and I think I am falling in love with her. Im to scared to tell her my feelings because I dont want to get rejected. What should I do?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (29 December 2011):
Well there is a few things you could do:
You could try talking to her about the kiss, bring it up and see how she reacts and then take the conversation from there.
If talking to her directly is too uncomfortable then why not try flirting with her and see if she flirts back.
Or you could invite her round again maybe to walk a movie or for a meal and maybe sit closer to her than normal and see if she seems to like it or look uncomfortable, if she seems comfortable put your hand on her leg or try and kiss her, whatever you feel comfortable with.
Hope these help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2011): Never fear rejection. I say you should be open and tell her how the kiss felt and tell her your feelings
Best of luck
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