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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I found out that my boyfriend liked me a couple of months before we went out and before we went out we found flirt and would do little sweet things like hold hands and cuddle up together when we did go out I suddenly didn't feel like I wanted to do all those things again and felt a bit pressured into always being with him. Wever been together a little over a year now and he started saying that he wanted to have sex but on further questioning he just wants to be more close to me. I find it hard to be close sometimes especially in public and often push him away and reject him. How can I keep our relationship together
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2011): I think you should figure out why you have suddenly changed towards this. I am not big on public displays of affection, that being said I don't go and act that way when I like a guy, because I feel it's a bit like false advertisement just to get him to be with me. Maybe he is feeling that way too? the only way to keep your relationship together is to find out why you feel this and try to work on it, and try to not always reject him when he tries to show his love for you, I know it's hard, but honestly if your continuously being rejection and not being shown affection by the person you love, you start to doubt their feelings for you, it eats away at your self-esteem and inevitably you have to leave whether it's whast you want or not. A lot of people on here give the advice that actions speak louder than words, it is not always the case, but many people do believe it. Good Luck
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