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I have fallen for my boss's best mate!

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Question - (28 December 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *azzyspud writes:

I have fallen for my boss's best mate!

I have known this guy now for 10yrs and when we 1st met I knew there was a connection, however I am 6 years younger so didn't make a move. He since moved away from the area and we only saw each other about once a year at a concert or a football match when he came home for the Xmas holidays. (please note I love football so I wasn't making an effet!)

3yrs ago when he was home we had a little more then a kiss but I felt guilty and said no to anything else (plus I wasn't ready),I was seeing someone else at the time, but split straight away. After that I heard nothing from him, and lost all connection.

Then last week we met at a concert, I wasn't meant to be going it was a last minute thing. When he saw me I knew he was happy I was there, he gave me a big hug, he told me he had just split from his Gf.

We were watching the concert and all the way through we were touchy feeling towards each other, but as my boss was there I didn't feel right in making large public display of us both in front of him.

At the end of the night we had a snog and exchanged numbers, he also ask me back to the boss's but I refused again. He has said he will arrange to meet me soon (in a hotel room) which I really want, however I don't know if this is a rebound for him and he's using me?

Also I know he's very experience but I haven't ever gone all the way, I don't mind teling him this as I know he will take it slow but will he tell his mate ie my boss

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A female reader, XOLoveOX United Kingdom +, writes (29 December 2011):

To me it sounds as he is tying to rebound using you, but it was pretty much coincedence that you met so it probably is most likely he is interested, don't let him come on too strongly though, and also age doesn't matter neither does, size, colour, gender, blood because love Is love.

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A female reader, XOLoveOX United Kingdom +, writes (29 December 2011):

To me it sounds as he is tying to rebound using you, but it was pretty much coincedentle that you met so it probably is most likely he is interested, don't let him come on too strongly though, and also age dosen't matter neither does, size, colour, gender, blood because love Is love.

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