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writes:Confused, he broke up wth me due to distance and fear of commitment, recently when he return for the holiday.He started texting me on his whereabouts and so forth,he ask me to visit, we get physical on three occasions, he asked if I can bear him a child and if not he will look for someone else. I refuse to, but on one encounter he pulled off the condom and ejaculated inside me. Just last night he got a call, he answered it saying "sweety I am sorry I didn't have credit", which I suspect its another lady. When I ask him he deny it saying its a cousin... The question is does this guy really love me or just using me? After three days of unsafe sex how long do I have to wait and take the home pregnancy test because I have hormone in balance and it has been 3months without getting my period.Please help.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 why would you bear a child for a man you barely know and don't trust?he pulled off the condom and you ALLOWED him to re-enter you?1. I would NOT have sex with him again2. I would contact a doctor ASAP and have STD testing and see if you can still get a morning after pill3. I would assume this guy is up to no goodto be honest, i have never seen a relationship that was GOOD where the woman TRUSTED the man where she had to ask if he was using her.IF you have to ASK if he is he probaably is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): I think he is using you, he is playing games with you. To pull off the condom just shows he doesn't care about your feelings or what yu want, only about himself. I would say the same if a girl put holes in the condom to get pregnant by a guy, it is WRONG! He is selfish at the least, and complete creep. I don't think he loves you at all. I am not sure how long you have to wait to take the test, but I think it's about 4-6 weeks. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPls help me guys as I am really caught inbetween one moment he is cold n on the other side he is lovely.
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