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male
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30-35,
*oshhall
writes:Okay, me and my best friend have known each other about a year now. She moved away 3 months after i met her, to Cali. We always keot in touch. Just recently, we told each other we have have feeling for one another. Way more then just friends. Everything was going great, until one day she says, "I can't handle a long distance relationship ):" So, I'm planning to move to to Cali after I graduate high school this year. But that's not the problem. I think I may be a little obsessed with her :/ I'm always thinking of her, I get so jealous when she talks about other guys. and I worry when she doesn't text back right away.. I feel like texting her 2-3 times til she text back. How do I get over this?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 December 2011):
 jealousy is an emotion rooted in insecurity... you like her so much you are afraid she won't return the feelings so you feel insecure and hence you feel jealous
smothering her will make it worse...
LDRs are hard as adults and worse as teens...
texting is no way to have a relationship...
best advice from someone who just almost smothered my LDR to death.. give her some space.... let it be...
if it's meant to be it will be...
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reader, N91  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 Despiration and needyness turns girls straight off, don't let this happen between you guys.You're going to have to force yourself to just wait for a response and then go from there. Does she want to be in a relationship with you for sure? And how does she talk about these 'other guys'? As friends or more...
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