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Should I leave my boyfriend? If yes, then how?

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Question - (28 December 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2011)
A female United Arab Emirates age 30-35, *weetnsour writes:

Hi Agony Aunt's, I need an advice about my relationship... its a little long but please every one i need help... :(

currently i do not know what am i suppose to do at the moment...

I am with my boyfriend it's being 2 years now, at starting it was all so good... but now its all very confusing staying with him...

It's being 2 times now that he left me and then he came back to me and i accepted him, I know that its my foolishness but i could not stop myself because i love him a lot...

He lied me many times n sweared as well but he broke all of them, as i caught him so many time he was not accepting his mistakes... i just use to cry for what he use to do i could'nt change his behavior... i found him talking some girls without saying me anything about it... n now he says he left he doesnt contact but how do i believe... when ever i talk to him now he says me i love u n stuffs like that...

as he left me i was always the one to go back to him n say him y is he doing all this to me, n he use to just ignore to my calls... but now i dont know what am i suppose to do with this guy...

he is all the time busy with some or the other thing... thats what he says, he hardly calls me from him self... n when ever he calls he calls me at late night around 3-4am, i am having really hard time...

every night we just argue on something or the other, and later he blames all on me...

Should i leave him??? if i m suppose to leave him then how is it done..?? because its hard for me to move on but i need to move on some how orelse i am not feeling good...

I m also scared that this guy will leave me again as he did many times...

please agony aunts help me... i hope u understand my problem...

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A female reader, sweetnsour United Arab Emirates +, writes (29 December 2011):

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But i dont know how am i suppose to end up things..., i love him so much. Now he tries to say that he loves me alot, if i say him that we need to be separated, he blames everything on me saying this that you want to leave me then leave me... but i wont leave. I will stop contact with u but dont ask me to stop.

i dont want the blames to come on me, i need an advice on how to do it.

and i also want him to realize his mistakes, for wht he did with me.

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