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writes:i need advice...i am with this guy that i am head over heels in love with but something in my gut keeps telling me not to trust him and i can't....well i would be lying if i said i can't but i can pin point what makes me nervous and makes me not trust him...he tends to flirt and when i say flirt i literally mean..go on tagged, facebook, myyearbook...any of them and flirt with girls and get naked pictures...ive come across a few naked ones when i went to email myself a picture from him email to mine...he goes as far as asking them to marry him and have his child...some have even approached me and brought it to my attention about his flirtatious ways...I finally grew some balls as my mother would put it and talked to him about it...ironically the night before he gets locked up for something stupid...i went and saw him today and he wants to wipe the slate clean and start over when he gets out...no more flirting, cheating, lying, any of it...and at this point i dont know if i should trust him or not because i do love him...but he has already cheated once and has multiple gf online...what do i do...follow my head which says leave him...or follow my heart...which says leave him but at the same time give him a second chance to fix things...i dont know what to do anymore...please help me with some advice...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 December 2011):
 if you dont' trust him that's a gut feeling NOT to be ignored....
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): Don't walk away from this guy, RUN! The truth is that many cheaters don't change their ways, especially younger guys who have no real desire to settle down any time soon. If you give this guy a second chance, he will just cause you more pain and suffering.
Do yourself a huge favor and move on while the damage is minimal. You don't have a child with him. It hasn't been that long, so the time investment isn't bad. Just cut him loose and look for a good guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): I'm sure you don't want to hear this,but its best if you leave him,that is,in my opinion. It seems to me like he doesn't care about your feelings and he's just using you. If he truly loved you,would he go as far as getting naked pictures of other girls and asking other girls to marry him? And he CHEATED on you. How sure are you that he won't do it again? I'm sure that you will eventually find someone who will truly love and care for you, this guy isn't worth your love. I know its hard to let go of someone you love,but as the saying goes 'if you love someone,you have to leave them'
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