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Why does my b/f have pornographic photos of himself on his phone? Is he planning on sending them?

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Question - (28 December 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Need help! I posted this question before but nobody replied after my update.

Okay so I've been a worrier. And I worry not that my boyfriend will cheat but that he'll do something like send pics to other women. Especially since he's not that open with his phone

He says he's always been honest and never sent pics or anything that would be considered any type of cheating.

One day about a month ago I saw some pics Of his penis on his phone and I asked him about it. He said he sent them to me. I looked through texts and found nothing. He then proceeded to tell me he was GOING to send them to me but we ended up hanging out.

Nothing else seems out of place but he had been texting one of his girl friends more often and he said he talked to her only bout his best friend who was flirting with her even though he's married.

So do I have ANYTHING to worry about or should I just let it go? We get in arguments over my insecurity and doubts of him. So I'm thinking maybe let it go? Help!

Update:Okay, he has sent me these types of pictures before and we did hang out on the day he supposedly took them. But just the fact of him changing his story is what makes me wary. It wasn't a big change of the story

But still a change...

And he doesn't like cheating. Whenever I mention something about a friend cheating that we both know, he'll call them idiots and he'll think about the girl (like how they could do that). And he's said from the beginning of the relationship, when we were only friends, that he never understood cheating and doesn't condone it

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A female reader, AgonyAuntsBeccaandLauren United Kingdom +, writes (7 January 2012):

AgonyAuntsBeccaandLauren agony auntare you sure it was his penis? maybe he's gay and it's some other mans penis! never thought of that did you?! sorry if i've worried you but it's just another theory.

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A male reader, Laftig United States +, writes (29 December 2011):

Most likely already has. May not mean anything though. Just a little bit of exhibitionism.

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