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writes:Been married about 6 months, things are going great except that our sex life has all but disappeared! I am 38 hubby is 55 but we're both in good shape, good health and enjoy life. What gives? He never wants sex! We used to have sex several times a week, then pre-wedding it started to wain and I thought it was our busy schedules. We get along well. We both seem happy in the relationship. Life seems good. But I'm just starting to feel like the room mate, not the wife! Frilly lingerie doesn't do it for him. Coy come ons don't work. Seducing; he makes excuses. He has high blood pressure (although controlled) so Viagra is not an option (too risky). I've even suggested porn (which I'm not a fan of) but he just laughs. WTF?....I want to be sexual with him and I'd hate to think this is how it's going to be now. HELP!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 He is 55 years old so, even though it is unlikely, he may be going through andropause and therefore, he might be losing his sex drive. Aside from sex, what of other aspects of your relationship? You mentioned you feel more like a roommate so I assume you two don't go out to dinner often anymore or other things like that? Maybe you could talk to him and ask him what he sees this relationship has become? Does he actually see you as his wife, does he feel like your husband?I hope that helps.
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