A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: hello Guys i need you honest advice please . i met a guy when i was on a business trip , he hit on me in the restaurant of the hotel and we excanged few words and our business cards but i didn't accept his dinner invitation or contacted him again till i came back to my country a month later and texted him saying hello , we both are public figures , so he was sooo happy to hear from me again and asked for my number and started calling me every day 2 times ( we live 15 hours away from each other by plane ) , till we decided to meet again in 2 months , i only broke up with him once cause i panicked of the long distance since i've been in one before , he was sad and said his trust was shaken but i fixed it again and we were fine ! and during this time he was calling daily , he's divorced since 7 years and i'm single and he said that i'm his true love and that he never felt that way before and that he will solve the long distance problem soon and that he has a plan, and he even let his youngest child talk to me and his ex wife, finally we met and it was fantastic and i met all his friends ,long story short , ever since i came back he's still in touch daily but sth has chnged , he became colder , and stopped making plans and everytime i ask him when am i seeing him again he says he doesn't know till i went nuts and broke up with him, he didn't contact me during the break up so i did as usual and told him how disappointed i am , he said that he's crazy about me but he has few issues going on in his life and we're far away from each other and he doesn't know how to make things better ! plz guys give me your honest advices , why did he change ???? is he a serial dater ? or was i really special ? ps: he's 62 years old i'm 30.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 The last sentence says it all. There are many hurdles already such as the distance. He figured out the logistics but then the last hurdle being his age, he worries that when his penis stops working then you would leave him. Nothing you wrote here makes him player. You are special because you are young and you make him feel younger too. He feels it would be unfair for you to look after his golden years while other men, younger men would be more suitable for you, because they can satisfy you better and there are more common interests.
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