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writes:Alright, so, I'm sixteen years old and I have a boyfriend that I've been with for a couple of weeks now. (Not very long) He's eighteen and a senior. (I'm a sophomore) Believe it or not, before him, I had never kissed a guy. But he invited me to prom and that night, after prom, I finally let him kiss me. At least I think that's how it happened. To be honest, I kind of spaced out when it happened. One second I was shaking my head no, the next, we were kissing. He didn't force me to, because I kissed him back. I'm just not sure what happened between me saying no and me kissing him. Anyway. After he left, I sat on my stairs and cried. I'm not quite sure why, I just felt very upset. I don't really think that I was ready. I've been through a lot, emotionally, the past year and, to be honest, I'm just a little fragile as far as relationships go. I was going to talk to him about it, but he was so happy and I didn't want to ruin his night by getting all serious with him. So, I decided I would talk to him about it at school the following Monday. I just couldn't find the right words, though. It's been almost a week since, and I still have not talked to him about it. And I still feel like I need to. He's trying to go further and I wish I could take a step back. We're on different pages and I'm just not sure what to do. Everytime I try to say something, the words just won't come out. I'm afraid I'll say something wrong. He can be a little sensative at times. I don't want him to think that I don't want him to kiss me. I just want him to take it slow. He's a really great guy and I just want to make sure I go about this the right way. Thanks for listening to my rambling. :P Any advice?
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reader, dannigirl1628 +, writes (23 April 2011):
 be honest. tell him whats up. maybe if u add in that eventually u want to have all the experiences he wants with him he will be a little more open to taking it slower, or even waiting totally.
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