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anonymous
writes:Helo dear cupid...well this is my second time to raise my question,the first response wasn't satsfied me yet.here is my trouble and challenge...i strongly wanna break my lonliness,but still exacerbated, i'm still single upto 25 yrs.from time to time, from day to day,i've been always challenging with my lonelyness,but i didn't loose hope still,i believe in one God,may be he has a plan in my life...upto when i just control my emotion? in such circumstances like, when i have seen couples walking,kissing,love...etc Relationships,I feel emptyness,embarassement and exhibit naggy attitude.today me and a friend of mine was in a cafe,in between our talk he asked me about my r/n ship with girls, this is not only his question but also other friends too. I lied my friend that i'm now on and off r/n ship with girls,as a reply for his question.i'm always tempting with this and such type of question.overall next to God you're my relief to give worthwhile suggestion and advice,10 q for your gold time to read my question.good time!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): hi there,sorry u feel lonely. I just wanted to let u know u r not alone,there r many lonely people in the world and i am one of them. U need to fill ur life with activity, do things where u will meet women, get outside and chat to people,say hello. I have met people in this way,i met a guy just by being open to conversation at the railway station and we swapped numbers.hes too young for me but we have the beginnings of a friendship. Follow this advice and u will meet someone. My loneliness isnt cured,i still get bad days but i kno its just a matter of time before i meet someone special. Just smile and people will smile bak,best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): Hi
maybe developing a relationship with yourself could help, do you know who you are? what you want to do in your life? do you know what you like with a passion or don't like? your lonliness may be this dissconection of self rather than an outward relationship. Why did you feel the need to tell a porkie? these may be a few questions to ask yourself. You can still believe in mr G and make your own choices.....Maybe it's not WHAT you do but HOW you do what you do that matters. You should be pro active in your life and start living or it will pass you by...would'nt it be sad if mr G said to you( i gave you life ...and was waiting for you to start living and experiencing life and love all the emotions that come with it, waiting for you to do your part and find the plan i had for you, but you waited and did nothing so life and opportunities passed you by... just a little thought as you refer to mr G quite strongly?
Good luck colour the world and experience as much as possible, if you get hurt bounce back, you have all the tools mr G gave you for free will and choice making.
Spunky monkey.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 April 2011):
 You are expecting to much from being in a relationship. Just because someone is single does not mean that they need to be lonely. You have friends as you have stated therefore you are not alone. You should not be lying to them as you should not be ashamed to admit that you are single. Dont pretend that you are somebody that you are not. You should always be honest.Also dont wait around expecting god to have a plan for you. Life does not work that way. You need to take control over your own life and start making the changes. Nobody else is going to do it for you and no miracle is going to happen. First tip dont come on to girls to strongly. Get to know them. Ask them lots of questions and become there friend before you try anything romantically.
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