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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so i've been a little suspicious about my boyfriend latley.he gets on myspace alot more aften now like 4 times everyday he didnt use too.when he is with me he puts his phone on silent but he dont hide his phone like he keeps it out were if i wanted too i could get it.so i was going to break up with him because i think he is cheating well he said he wouldnt cheat on me that i could ask anyone that know him his cousins his best friend. and he said he wouldnt cheat on me because he loved me too much.so here latley i know this is TMI but here latley when we have sex he is real rough as if he hasnt done it years! i dont mind it at all. and he always wants to do it like 2 or 3 times in the same night. then wensday i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he said that he wasnt that he swore he new i was gonna break up with him so he shows up at my house without texting or anything and he took me to the movies.and i know this is wrong but i just wanted to know, i made a fake myspace a fake girl ect, and i sent him a message asking if he would wanna hangout sometime.first he said lets just talk i guess then he said why do you wanna hangout so bad and how old are you. i made her age 19. and i told him i wanted to hangout because i wanted to know more about him because he seemed like the kinda guy i would wanna date. so then he said oh cool i dont mind. then i asked him if he was dating anyone. he never wrote back. then he texted me and is like some girl is asking me if im dating anyone what do i say, and i asked who it was and he said it dont matter im gonna say im dating someone. then he said he ignored it. then i sent him another message asking when we was gonna hangout yet again he read it but didnt write back. then he came over last night and i told him i wanna talk about our relationship and how i wanted to break up because i thought he was cheating. he said he was heart broken and hurt because he loves me with everything he has and that he isnt cheating on me and that he wouldnt. so when he came to my house he was like really quiet and sad like. what should i do? does it sound like he is cheating?
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reader, Quirkay  +, writes (22 April 2011):
My gut feeling is that he is NOT cheating. Under your fake myspace account you asked him a direct question and he didn't reply, he texted YOU. I would stop questioning him being on myspace, you have no proof of him cheating and I think what you did, trying to set him up was terrible.If you feel, at the end of the day you can't trust your boyfriend because of YOUR fears, then perhaps HE shouldn't be with YOU.Oh, and re the sex thing? Two or three times in an evening? Usually, if a man is cheating, he wouldn't touch you with a barge pole.
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