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writes: So, this guy and me quit talking for six months and the the other night he showed up asking me to forgive him. Well, i did. He said he was sorry and i wanted to be close again. Then one thing lead to another we had sex. He hasn't talked to me since. The other day i found out he is still with his girlfriend. I'm pretty upset. I feel used and like nothing right now. What do i do?
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 Yes, you were used, but you are far from nothing. What a complete and total asshat jerk of a man. Aunty Susie is right, "rat" is an appropriate description of this pathetic loser. I hope his girlfriend catches him cheating and kicks him to the curb.What do you do? Mentally wipe him out of your heart like you'd wipe off of your shoe. He is as worthless as the gum. HE is nothing. You believed his lies. That doesn't make you any less than you are. Now you know...if he shows up at you door again or drunk dials you, tell him to piss off and run back to his girlfriend that he isn't worthy to have. Tell him that if you ever see him again, you'll tell his girlfriend about what a lying, cheating, rat bastard he is.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 What a giant rat! Your poor girl. But, when you think about it, you are lucky to have found out what a jerk he really is, and that you are not his girlfriend. I feel sorry for his girlfriend as well. Best to slam the door in his face, if he ever shows up at your door again. Be strong and move on, he isn't worth wasting your emotions on.
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