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writes:Hi there.So, I have an amazing boyfriend. He has his group of friends, about 4 or so guys, and I have my group of friends which usually include only two girls.One of my girl friends, M, is an easy girl. I say easy because she often sleeps with men without 'knowing' them or 'dating' them. Most of the time she comes crying about it to me and my other friend, J, about being used. The thing is, we've talked to her and tried to explain she makes herself a bit too available and she needs to.. well, not have sex/be such a flirt if it hurts her in the long run!My bf has this friend, Z. Z and M have been talking, and Z thinks she's a really cool girl and M likes him. Recently, I made another friend named S whom I introduced to M. A month and a half later, S and M (lol wow, great letters right?) become very good friends and share an online diary. S has told me he thinks M is his true love, and M thinks he's just a very nice guy who won't hurt her. S will be flying in (he lives in a different state) to be M's prom date.S is a very nice guy and M will get bored of him. She even thinks so herself!What M does isn't really my concern to be honest. But I logged onto Facebook and found out S had become friends with Z and another of my boyfriend's friend. THIS is completely odd because S lives in a different state than we do, and my boyfriend is an LDR thing in Canada.Basically, there's no way S would meet Z without M introducing them.Z tells my bf that M has been constantly interrogating him about what he knows of her. Which to me, seems like M thinks I told Z about her habits of sleeping around.I'm not sure if I should interfere. M introduced her prom date to my boyfriend's best friend, and it just seems shady to me like she has another agenda. I asked her about it and she tried to be innocent like she didn't know what I was talking about.My boyfriend tells me that it was wrong of her to prod his friend like that, and that she's insecure, and I agree. But how do I tell her that there's limits on what to do? You just don't go around flinging your date into another guy's face, ESPECIALLY if I'm dating his best friend!Am I wrong or is she just going overboard?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2011): so wait is Z gay? cause that changes a lot because than he wouldn't be interested in your friend, or was it just a typo?
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