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writes:Hello aunts! I would like to start off by saying that I am 14 and a high school freshman. Four days ago, an 18 year old high school senior asked me out. Please don't judge the ages, I am aware. He's leaving for boot camp next fall and I do not expect a long lived relationship. However, he is very sexually experienced and made out naked with his last girlfriend (an aquaintance of mine, she's 15). I was raped last year and am hesitant to go far with men. In addition, he smokes cigarettes and weed. Basically, I am afraid of being pressured into sex and/or drugs. How do I gracefully avoid an awkward situation of being pressured? Thank you!
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 Just say no to going out with the guy. If he wants to know why, just say that you think he is a bit too old for you; which he is. If you can't say that, just say that your parents will not let you go out until you are 16. Parents can come in handy sometimes :-) If you don't want to be in a situation that you know you won't be able to handle, avoid being there in the first place. And you have full control over that ok!
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