Should I continue trying to come back with my ex?

A male age 36-40, *inder writes:

In 2008 I met a girl we were dating for 8 months. Then she became my girlfriend. 5 months later I broke up with her 'cause I wantted to see her often but She was bussy all time Sometimes we see each other after 3 weeks. I tried to forget her travelling abroad but we kept in contact by messenger. For somereasons I had to come back to my country. When I came back She was with someone else. We were meeting as friends for months then She broke up with her boyfriend and I told her to come back with me. She said It was too quickly and She could not give me an answer. I told her ok see you in 2 months. 2 months later She send me an email She wantted to see me and We went to a concert. After bthe concert I ask her and She said lets go to a place more quiet so we were walking getting away from teh concert. Then I ask her and She said She want me as a friend and She doesn't know If later we'll come back as a couple. She said Also It was up to me If we keep meeting or saying good bye for ever. I told her We will keep in contact I gave her a big hug and then I left. It's been 2 months since then. I don't know If I should keep the hope some day She will accept or just trying to be realfriends ( very difficult and hurting) or just saying a good bye forever. I really love this girls thats why It's complicated for me to find this answer. I know there are many ways to solve a problem I hope you can give me a prety good solution. Thanks

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A male reader, thomas1214  +, writes (22 April 2011):

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